2022-10-05 15:07
I am going to suggest a slightly different picture of this situation.
All life begins with “full-out” self-esteem. With normal nurturing, life keeps it!
People have become… Read More
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We are all relentlessly losing our ability to have relationships. Life comes from within! It has to! When we don't allow that in our young, we eventually lose our own inner world and self-esteem! Best karma ever!
2022-10-03 10:51
It starts in the cradle.
Like it or not, all life has a need to be accepted and appreciated for exactly what it is!
It’s a critical need, so powerful the words to describe it, do… Read More
2022-10-01 16:52
They will not!
Every life on the planet is self driven, and unique!
Every life is itself and needs support for being exactly that.
It cannot be what we wish. If we force that anyway… Read More
2022-09-29 21:50
The usual answer is to take a chance and express ourselves anyway.
That doesn’t deal with the cause of being shy. It usually trades one fear for another.
There is one thing that… Read More
2022-09-28 16:48
They can’t help it! This behavior keeps them out of fear.
It starts in the beginning! (Doesn’t it always?)
It’s always about either trust, or fear.
The way we all… Read More
2022-09-19 11:55
What do we have to do?
We simply allow people to be themselves!
Seriously, that’s all that’s wrong.
It seems to be going unnoticed that people’s right to be themse… Read More
2022-09-18 13:51
Having confidence along with high self-esteem, is the consequence of being lucky.
We all have an identity. It uses instincts, feelings, all of our senses, and awareness of our inner condi… Read More
2022-09-18 04:32
I am going to suggest a different self that leads directly to a happy and meaningful life.
It is our own real identity!
We don’t get to live our identity these days, because our… Read More
2022-09-15 14:15
We have forgotten how to nurture!
We should be supporting every new life in its own efforts to flourish!
“In it’s own efforts”!
That’s not what we do any mor… Read More
2022-09-15 14:15
There is a trigger, and it’s taking us into conflict!
Your not going to believe how easy it is to turn this around!
First the trigger.
We have forgotten how to nurture!
Pre… Read More
2022-09-15 14:15
There is a trigger taking us into conflict!
Your not going to believe how easy it is to turn this around!
We have forgotten how to nurture!
Pressure has been relentless from the dar… Read More
2022-09-14 12:31
As we accept the moral compass of this environment, our lives feel increasingly pointless.
Want to feel naturally important?
Our own, original identity can do that for us.
We have t… Read More
2022-09-09 17:26
Living out loud makes us happy!
But we don’t get to do that!
Why?
People control each other.
Being controlled, we don’t get to be our true identity.
We have to h… Read More
2022-09-05 16:03
The approval we need though is for acceptance of our own identity.
What about the approval we get for being what others want us to be?
Doesn’t that help us?
Nausea! That&rsquo&hell…Read More
2022-09-02 15:31
Presented as clearly as that, it does seem obvious doesn’t it.
People really can live in peace, with trust and concern for others.
They each get to feel valued all the time.
W… Read More
2022-08-29 20:51
The answer is clear. It is solid. It works like magic. It worked in the past. People used to respect each other. People could play. People liked each other!
If I point out the way things… Read More
2022-08-23 13:48
Are we immune to other people’s opinion?
In our best possible condition, are we more, or are we less dependent on the approval of others?
Wouldn’t we expect self-sufficienc… Read More
2022-08-23 13:48
Are we immune to other people’s opinion?
In our best possible condition, are we more, or are we less dependent on the approval of others?
Wouldn’t we expect self-sufficienc… Read More
2022-08-23 13:48
Are we immune to other people’s opinion?
In our best possible condition, are we more, or are we less dependent on the approval of others?
Wouldn’t we expect self-sufficienc… Read More
2022-08-20 17:56
Mankind hasn’t even tried freedom yet!
When we do, we will get the expected result. A happy, fun-loving creature, who desperately needs the love and acceptance of others, and who w… Read More
2022-08-14 13:12
A world without chains!
I doubt there is a person on the planet who can think about this without a powerful reaction!
Just imagine! Each of us began life this way.
All other life li… Read More
2022-08-06 22:29
Creativity requires imagination. That requires connection with our instincts, our inner life, and the world around us.
In other words, our identity. Spectacular imagination requires good… Read More
2022-08-05 15:34
The first damaged person that finds us, can set a series of events in motion that could bring us right back to where we are now!
That’s what already happened.
Assuming we have wo… Read More
2022-08-03 15:33
It means unlearning everything that makes life suck!
It’s accepting that we don’t know what we think we do, and that we are wrong about most social life!
Everyone else has… Read More
2022-08-01 15:26
It comes from giving up our right to live from our own identity!
The world struggles to agree on human rights.
There is no one yet, defending the rights of infants.
This is where al… Read More
2022-07-30 15:35
Have any of you looked at the degree of control over all human life these days?
It’s insane!
I expect there are rules for farting!
Know what else?
It doesn’t work!… Read More
2022-07-27 15:08
We have to buy from overseas, as we can’t make things at home anymore.
Special interest groups, in their zeal and their assumption that they have a monopoly on the truth, have made… Read More
2022-07-27 15:08
We have to buy from overseas, because we can’t make things at home anymore.
Special interest groups, in their zeal and their assumption that they have a monopoly on the truth, have… Read More
2022-07-27 15:08
We have to buy from overseas, because we can’t make things at home anymore.
Special interest groups, in their zeal and their assumption that they have a monopoly on the truth, have… Read More
2022-07-27 15:08
We have to buy from overseas, because we can’t make things at home anymore.
Special interest groups, in their zeal and their assumption that they have a monopoly on the truth, have… Read More
2022-07-27 15:08
We have to buy from overseas, because we can’t make things at home anymore.
Special interest groups, in their zeal and their assumption that they have a monopoly on the truth, have… Read More
2022-07-27 15:08
We have to buy from overseas, because we can’t make things at home anymore.
Special interest groups, in their zeal and their assumption that they have a monopoly on the truth, have… Read More
2022-07-27 15:08
Sustainable, and productive life, has become impossible!
People hurt!
We have to buy from overseas, because it’s gradually become too difficult to make things at home anymore… Read More
2022-07-24 14:12
Each of us started life with an intact, dynamic, explosive, but loving identity.
Others put chains on us.
It allowed them to feel safer!
Now, we no longer enjoy our identity. That… Read More
2022-07-22 14:53
Every one of us are victims. We had no chance at all, of ever keeping our original strength, and power!
This would only be a temporary problem if we weren’t unknowingly driving our… Read More
2022-07-18 13:35
It starts in the cradle!
We don’t get to live our identity.
Every other life on the planet lives from their identity!
When we can’t live from our identity, people canno… Read More
2022-07-16 14:45
Sadly, all parties need therapy before this can happen!
Regrettably, we have to unlearn most of what we believe about relationships first!
In the real universe, no life has authority o… Read More
2022-07-13 17:38
What a question. It could go either way, couldn’t it? Either system could work at causing the other.
My feeling is that they happen together, as disconnection from identity causes b… Read More
2022-07-12 12:21
This world is a tough place to be. Emotionally, it’s probability about as bad as it gets.
The reason I say that is because if any of us were to suddenly turn up in a world as it sho… Read More
2022-07-11 12:47
That spark we wish to ignite is our own identity. We have each become forced to give up on it in our early years, to be obedient. We all start out as a dynamo of energy, learning to talk and… Read More
2022-07-10 16:24
To feel that we might be a failure suggests that we are not meeting some goals we have set.
At the same time, it seems that we have doubts.
As infants we all lived from our identities… Read More
2022-07-09 13:55
All the simple ways just move problems around, trading one for another.
That’s because what happened to us is far from simple.
We started out anxiety free, and so completely self… Read More
2022-07-03 13:50
Free people have an advantage. They can go crazy on you!
Unburdened by that heavy cloak of repression, and intimately connected with the spontaneous and unrestricted resources of their i… Read More
2022-07-03 02:30
The sad truth is our accepted ways of raising infants and children causes damage.
We unintentionally cause them to disconnect from their own identity, in an effort to reduce the hurt they… Read More
2022-07-02 16:29
We tried!
But —— We didn’t know how to do that properly, or completely!
Therefore, the results we got, are a pale shadow of what should have happened.
Life has ide… Read More
2022-06-29 19:27
Yes it is!
Believe it, or not, it’s our own identity.
Mankind, over many years has drifted away from nature’s ways.
Mother Nature supports all life in it’s own ef… Read More
2022-06-27 19:51
All life has identity.
From the moment of conception, each person has a firm, fixed identity, that is absolutely unnegotiable.
That provides instincts, and everything that connects u… Read More
2022-06-26 13:46
The best relationship on the planet is between a mother, still connected with her instincts, and her baby.
It’s about trust, it’s peaceful, and if left to mother’s inst… Read More
2022-06-26 13:46
The best relationship on the planet is between a mother, still connected with her instincts, and her baby.
It’s about trust, it’s peaceful, and if left to mother’s inst… Read More
2022-06-24 15:30
Loss of identity, on the other hand, through disconnection, causes feelings of being really unimportant, and then comes struggle and conflict!
Identity drives all life. It provides all th… Read More
2022-06-24 15:30
Loss of identity, on the other hand, through disconnection, causes feelings of being really unimportant, and then comes struggle and conflict!
Identity drives all life. It provides all th… Read More
2022-06-24 15:30
Conflict is the consequence of it’s loss!
Identity drives all life, complete with all the good stuff such as instincts, feelings, and awareness of our environment inside ourselves a… Read More
2022-06-24 15:30
Conflict is the consequence of it’s loss!
Identity drives all life, complete with all the good stuff such as instincts, feelings, and awareness of our environment inside ourselves a… Read More
2022-06-21 14:26
If birds strapped their chicks into the nest, restricting their movements, and refusing to allow them to fly until the parents thought they were ready, then all bird life would be different… Read More
2022-06-21 14:26
If birds strapped their chicks into the nest, restricting their movements, and refusing to allow them to fly until the parents thought they were ready, then all bird life would be different… Read More
2022-06-19 15:17
Our treatment as infants, usually sets up a lifelong struggle for appreciation.
If it wasn’t there, we crave recognition that was always needed. Willing or not, we do that for a li… Read More
2022-06-18 13:42
We have to whittle people down some, before we can be comfortable.
We are all being cheated out of the only life we might ever get!
It’s not our fault. We all suffer from the sa… Read More
2022-06-14 14:10
Confidence comes as fear dissipates. We all had infinite confidence when we started out.
The fear is in revealing personal qualities that we feel are inadequate. We believe these are unac… Read More
2022-06-12 15:47
We have lost our willingness, and our ability, to allow ourselves, and others, to live our own identity!
The cost is a planet full of troubled, hurting, competitive, isolated, and desper… Read More
2022-06-06 20:48
We all leave behind the most precious thing that we ever possessed!
Full connection with our own identity!
Our identity was us! It was our feelings, our instincts, our passion, our tru… Read More
2022-06-02 18:16
There have been countless warnings!
Override the identity of infants and children with demands for obedience, and our world of love and trust turns into a world of conflict, hate, and war… Read More
2022-06-01 16:09
Any conflict in our lives takes it’s toll.
That’s what happened to our self-esteem.
What’s the source of conflict? It’s not about fighting over things we want… Read More
2022-05-31 13:52
Self-care happens naturally.
Instinct, feelings, needs, and interests all work together, causing us to pursue our goals which naturally include taking care of ourselves.
The reason we… Read More
2022-05-30 16:41
Your losing.
Every infant in the world is infinitely happier than you!
So is most, if not all, of the rest of the population.
Honestly, beating everybody else to grab the material w… Read More
2022-05-27 12:23
Anybody allowed to live from their own identity, like all other life does, would never wonder about self-improvement.
That only happens when we are already compromised, and struggling wit… Read More
2022-05-22 12:30
All life is driven from inside!
That’s where headquarters is. It’s the source of everything. Feelings, needs, ambitions, right from wrong, self-esteem, love, (to be continued)… Read More
2022-05-22 12:30
All life is driven from inside!
That’s where headquarters is. It’s the source of everything. Feelings, needs, ambitions, right from wrong, self-esteem, love, (to be continued)… Read More
2022-05-22 12:30
All life is driven from inside!
That’s where headquarters is. It’s the source of everything. Feelings, needs, ambitions, right from wrong, self-esteem, love, interests, (to be… Read More
2022-05-22 12:30
All life is driven from inside!
That’s where headquarters is. It’s the source of everything. Feelings, needs, ambitions, right from wrong, self-esteem, love, interests, (to be… Read More
2022-05-20 16:33
Life could be, and should be, “The Garden of Eden”, with love, trust, and comfort all around.
It really could.
It’s even the normal for humans!
Not only that, it… Read More
2022-05-18 19:23
Having self-esteem is pure luck.
We need the right parents!
We all have a very powerful identity. That’s natural.
Most of us are ashamed of it! Quality of life is therefore… Read More
2022-05-18 19:23
Having good self-esteem is pure luck.
We need the right environment!
We all start with a very powerful identity. That’s natural.
Most of us are unintentionally maneuvered in… Read More
2022-05-18 19:23
Having self-esteem is pure luck.
We need the right parents!
We all have a very powerful identity. That’s natural.
Most of us are ashamed of it! Quality of life is therefore… Read More
2022-05-17 20:08
Every person begins life with the roots of their social and moral skills already intact. Those come with our instincts.
Just like all other life, people need only support, a… Read More
2022-05-08 14:56
Wouldn’t we just love to be who we were meant to be!
There is only one species on our entire planet, that doesn’t get to live directly from their identity!
This is peop… Read More
2022-05-03 14:49
In all of nature, every living thing enjoys complete freedom of life!
Except us!
Mankind is stuck in ideology!
None of us get to enjoy what nature has made possible!
Even when o… Read More
2022-04-29 20:10
Want to escape from 95% (or more), of the conflict and problems we all suffer through?
It can be easy to fix, and that’s because we cause this fighting ourselves!
All we hav… Read More
2022-04-22 17:35
We do it, because this is what we teach every new person!
The way we treat our infants, teaches them that control of others is normal!!!
All other life on the planet, gets full support… Read More
2022-04-11 20:35
Because we don’t bring our young up, to view freedom as a natural condition!
We bring our young up, expecting to be told what to do!
That’s not natural! It’s an alter… Read More
2022-04-10 15:42
It happens to all of us.
Surprisingly, it begins in infancy.
From day one, we struggle to be independent, accepted that way, and to be heard that way!
What we really get though, i… Read More
2022-04-06 12:37
It’s all about our identity!
Every life has an identity.
It carries instincts. Also racial wisdom.
It guides life, by creating feelings.
Nature’s way is for all life… Read More
2022-04-05 15:49
Before acting on anything, make sure it’s true! Acting on an incorrect assumption, can, and does create atrocities, 50 years or so down the road!
People love to tell us things. When… Read More
2022-04-02 12:49
Our real identities are in prison!
Every one of us has a real identity. It contains instincts as well as racial wisdom, and everything else that makes us uniquely us, such as our special… Read More
2022-03-27 15:56
Most of us have accepted our world, the way it is.
No matter how bad things get, we go on assuming it’s all inevitable, and quite normal.
We blame some basic weaknesses, in mank… Read More
2022-03-24 20:28
These days, hurt is everywhere!
Nature has ways. Nature has wisdom, and nature has experience.
Nature supports life by respecting and assisting it, in its own efforts.
All life live… Read More
2022-03-23 12:36
Infant needs can be met in such a good and natural way, that hurt doesn’t happen, and conflict never starts!
When nobody hurts, conflict, and even war, just doesn’t happe… Read More
2022-03-20 13:15
Use force or deceit just once, and watch it all go away.
We ask, “what happened”?
Thousands of people, immediately turn up with thousands of different answers. None of them… Read More
2022-03-17 22:23
Yes, we do have a choice! We can be what others wish all right, but we give up everything important in our lives, when we do it.
Most people are unaware, that we cannot be what others wis… Read More
2022-03-11 12:48
We each claim our own place in this universe!
We decide our own value. We pick out for ourselves, our own relative importance.
Where we place ourselves, determines the issues we will s… Read More
2022-03-09 23:05
This post is a repeat of “We can stop wars, right now”, but presented in a more positive manner. It seemed that it might be easier to read.
We need to support the natural iden… Read More
2022-03-09 17:57
The critical thing to do, is to stop placing hurt into every person.
That puts us back into our best and most trusting and loving condition, and the entire planet benefits with each succe… Read More
2022-03-07 15:36
Yes, we do!!
Is there conflict? Well, we made it happen, just as surly as if we wanted to!
All life comes from inside!
All identities are fixed, for life, at conception.
For ev… Read More
2022-03-07 15:36
Yes, we do spread hurt!!
It’s not supposed to be like this! Pain-free people are loving!
The problem is – We are not pain free! Not by a long shot!
Is there conflict? We… Read More
2022-03-07 15:36
Yes, we do spread hurt!!
Is there conflict? Well, we made it happen, just as surely as if we intended to!
All life comes from inside!
All identities are fixed, for life, at concept… Read More
2022-03-07 15:36
Yes, we do!
Is there conflict? Well, we made it happen, just as surly as if we wanted to!
All life comes from inside!
All identities are fixed, for life, at conception. For every l… Read More
2022-03-05 14:36
Mankind has not been paying any attention to our most exciting quality, which is also our joy of living!
Consequently, mankind doesn’t have the wisdom to make rules, that will actua… Read More
2022-03-05 14:36
Mankind has not been paying any attention to our most exciting quality, which is also our joy of living!
Consequently, mankind doesn’t have the wisdom to make rules!
Our rules, a… Read More
2022-03-05 14:36
Mankind has not been paying any attention to our most exciting quality, which is also our joy of living!
Consequently, mankind doesn’t have the wisdom to make rules!
Not rules th… Read More
2022-02-25 16:21
A universal truth, regarding freedom, does exist!
Let’s bring this into the light, before we begin our story.
Freedom is natural. It’s the way of all living things, except… Read More
2022-02-25 16:21
A universal truth regarding freedom, exists!
Let’s get past it, before we begin our story.
Freedom is natural. It’s the nature of all living things, except mankind. Volunt… Read More
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