Any Conflict in our lives takes it’s toll.

That’s what happened to our self-esteem.

What’s the source of conflict? It’s not about fighting over things we want, as one might assume.

Conflict is an Identity trying to be itself, while others won’t let it.

People don’t react until their identity is somehow threatened.

People do that to each other. Nature doesn’t.

Any person fully alive through their own identity, is the best person ever. Kind, compassionate, thoughtful, and full of fun, there is never conflict.

Go ahead and test it. It will have to be with children, the younger the better. That’s because it takes a long time for adults to come back from being defensive, and controlling.

Undamaged children have instincts, and more drive than anybody is going to believe until they see it. They don’t need our interference.

They are already who they are, and nature has provided them with everything they are going to need. Their identity is fixed. They cannot be who we want. All we do by trying to change them is cause damage.

Just like a flower, they only need protection while they bloom, all by themselves.

The results will be a force to behold!

Our suggestions and interference are a direct challenge to their own identity. They have to crush themselves to be as we wish.

The result of that, is the world today.

A person forced to be as others wish, and consequently having been forced to create distance from their own identity, is nothing but trouble.

Without that natural importance of their own identity, they are going to destroy the world, trying to regain their feeling of importance.

That’s who we all are now.

Nature supports every identity in it’s own efforts. She supports independence, and ability.

When we do the same, all conflict disappears. What’s really cool is all the other things that happen with it. There is so much of the world we just don’t see or encounter, while engaged in fighting with each other.

This post is part of clarity-of-innocence.com. Thanks for your interest.

Norm

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