It starts in the cradle!

We don’t get to live our identity.

Every other life on the planet lives from their identity!

When we can’t live from our identity, people cannot remain healthy!

We fragment!

That’s all that’s wrong with our violent and troubled environment!

All other life encourages the efforts of their offspring!

Everything went bad when we stopped rewarding our young for their own competence, drive, and abilities.

It’s been getting worse ever since, and for the very same reason!

Their power has to come from within them, and not from us.

If we can only get that through our heads, we can have our kind world back.

If we can’t, things will keep getting worse. How much worse can it get before the end of mankind?

It really is that simple!

Proof? That’s easy. Look at situations with lots of control. Then look at situations with lots of freedom.

Try it on a small family scale! Allow your kids to live free, driving their own efforts.

It will take a little while to regain the trust we lost. The younger, the quicker that happens.

Others will wonder how you managed to accomplish such a loving family. Such motivated, happy, and clever children.

Then, they will tell you you are doing it wrong!

You must order your kids to be obedient, like they do!

Well, if our plan is to declare war on our own children, then we certainly are doing it wrong!

But if our plan is to raise the strongest most loving children, then we are doing it right.

Is it a coincidence that this is how nature does it?

We don’t have to listen to the media. We can listen to our own identity and Instincts.

The consequences of that one simple action of demanding obedience, have swept the world!

It has created this chaos.

Our natural environment is kind and trusting. We can sense that, if we slow down and just feel how it should be. We can also remember how we used to feel.

Refusal to accept the identity of others has become the theme of each of us.

That’s because this refusal of identity happened to us, and we will hurt until we can fix it, if that’s possible.

That means we all feel under attack from others. It means we don’t want to allow anybody else be themselves, not if we can’t.

None of us are going to trust anybody! Not in the real and natural way. What we call trust these days is a pale shadow of the real thing.

With all of us being like that, what kind of world would this make?

This one!

How do you like it?

This sick environment has nothing to do with who people really are.

It has everything to do with who people become, when not allowed to be who they are.

Who they really are is kind gentle, and full of fun.

WHY?

How did this happen?

It all started when we stopped bringing up our young through the instincts of our own identity.

We began to experiment with methods suggested by others.

It sounded innocent enough. Make them eat. Make them learn things.

It was a mistake though.

The critical quality of every human got ignored.

Identity is the driver of everything. It makes a person who they are. It’s their power, their motivation, and their grasp of the environment.

Take that away, and the person loses everything most important to them.

We took that away!

Bring it back, and all this trouble goes away!

Of course following the advise of others over our own instincts didn’t work.

Control of our young ramped up really fast because of the many problems our own actions generated.

Listening to further ill advised suggestions of experts on how to fix it added to the destruction. The advice was always, more control!

We should have been listening to our identities and instincts.

We still can!

Because of all the trouble, we can’t easily feel our instincts any more!

But, we can try.

It’s going to require work and concentration. We are going to have to face our worst fears and allow them back into who we are. The more we can accept into our inner world, the more of our identity we get back.

In our infancy, we accepted everything. For most of us, this would be our finest moment.

We were completely who we were!

We all want that back. Hopefully, we want it for our children as well.

It causes gentleness, not trouble. The authorities are wrong! Imagine that!

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Thank you for your interest. Good luck on your own journey!

Norm.

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