It happens to all of us.

Surprisingly, it begins in infancy.

From day one, we struggle to be independent, accepted that way, and to be heard that way!

What we really get though, is to have all of that ignored.

Instead, we become forced to accept direction, and are expected to be obedient, under the threat of punishment!

Any person growing up where their real Identity is not respected and encouraged, has no chance at all of ever understanding what their rights are, as compared to others!

How could they?

Nowhere else does that happen. All other life gets support in it’s own efforts!

It’s not hard to demonstrate that this is really all that’s wrong in the world of mankind!

It should be no surprise to anybody, that what we set up at the beginning of life, is going to determine the nature of our future world.

And it does. And it has! Do you like what we have created?

If we make people feel weak and helpless in the beginning of their life, what do we get? An entire population of people who feel weak and helpless.

Why would that be a surprise to anybody?

Make people feel strong and powerful in the beginning of their life, and what do we get?

People so strong, they don’t talk about self-esteem. They don’t feel threatened by others. They don’t enter a race to be richer, or more important. They just live, undamaged, and deliciously happy.

Heck, even making the adjustment of respecting animals as their real selves, turns the whole world from gloom, into sunshine. Plants too, possibly.

It really is that simple. There is a good reason why we don’t see that simple Truth, but not seeing it doesn’t make it untrue!

When we see a person, who can freely and easily share their feelings, we think they are wonderful and exceptional. Look further though! Look for the person who had the Wisdom, to allow them to do that!

This is what is missing. People with the balls, to allow others to own and live their own identity!

Children are not our playthings! They are equal to us in every way, except full development. They are far beyond us in instinct, inherent racial wisdom, and pure imagination. They are on a no holds barred mission to understand and survive. They require only the room to do it, and the encouragement. As for love, they are the teachers, us the students.

Given respect for that, every relationship becomes as magic, as it should be, and used to be!

Our identity, (which is who we are), always wants to speak up, even now! It wants equality on the world platform.

All life has identity. No life can be anything else but that! This is the source of racial wisdom, and instincts. Also morals, needs, and interests.

Want more energy? Want less distraction and more focus. Want clear thought, and not chaos?

Try to stop fighting with the truth!

Accepting truth usually takes us to a struggle over who we are trying to be! The vast majority of us fight endlessly, in an attempt to be the person we decided to be.

Of course, we can’t be who we want to be. We are already ourselves. Unfortunately, we lost contact with who that is.

One absolute truth needs to be said. The person who we really are, is the epitome of human life, with full access to inherent wisdom. Anything we are trying to be, doesn’t even begin to compare with the quality of that!

We already have an identity. We literally cannot be anything else. Whatever we try, is only a process of hiding those qualities that we don’t want.

The quality of that real identity of ours is light years beyond anything else we could ever possibly be trying to be!

What happened to cause us to not know who we are? We became punished into behaving differently than our identity was directing us. The process caused us to become ashamed of those real qualities, and we had to hide them.

Now we have become ashamed, to be the one in a million, awesome person, with qualities beyond comparison, the way we started out. Most of us will never get to rediscover those qualities.

Somewhere, somehow in life, we are the best of the best, at something. Otherwise we never would have won the lottery of being born.

If we cannot express our uniqueness, people don’t recognize it.

What we say, comes out with no confidence.

Others don’t listen!

Fighting back, poisons our souls. We get locked into a battle.

And, all the while we just want to be ourselves, but the road is blocked.

Expression of anything real, has been actively discouraged, from the moment of birth.

How do people, with a life such as this, ever even get up in the morning? Identity is foggy, and uncertain. What gets said sounds weak and unsure, because that’s the real, but secret situation.

People don’t listen. Well, long ago, most never got to enjoy their own identity either, and therefore cannot use racial wisdom and instincts, to differentiate truth from fiction. To them, there is usually no difference between those speaking from the heart, or those just talking about random ideas that don’t fit together.

People, in these times, right from day one, don’t get to live from who they really are!

All life naturally lives from it’s identity.

Except people.

We aren’t allowed to! That’s a problem. It causes hurt within every person, and causes a disconnection from natural wisdom and morals.

Believe it or not, this ban on real identities is the source of our planet wide conflict. Testing the concept, by allowing and encouraging the identity of others, demonstrates an end of conflict, every single time.

Respect someone else’s identity, and all conflict magically disappears. The most unlikely confirmation comes from motorcycle clubs, of all places.

Lies

Why can’t we tell the difference?

Our identity can.

We stopped sharing our feelings, because of the hurt of not being allowed to speak from our real selves. We lost contact with our identity. It’s true, we don’t know who we are.

As we stopped sharing our feelings, we lost them. We don’t know what our feelings are. Without feelings, which were our guide, our identity was left with no way to guide us.

How can we access our real self, at least long enough to recognize other people, for who they are?

We can’t! That means others cannot recognize us either.

Those most disconnected have the advantage of speaking more easily and freely. Without connection, the gift of gab has no restrictions. This shows up on social media.

A Rant about Diplomas!

We successfully deal with problems for half of our lives. We sometimes reach a point where we need to ask for help.

Who do the experts listen to? The nearest person with a diploma.

Natural ability, and a proven track record of solving issues, carries no weight at all.

This is a waste of resources, and an insult to competent people.

That seems to be life today.

Any person can live their life dealing successfully with many issues, and not only be unrecognized for it, they often find themselves completely ignored, in favor of someone with a diploma. Many quietly do the absolutely best work available.

The diploma proves only that this person understand what is believed at this very moment. It will change next year.

The best will change with it, always at the leading edge of understanding. The rest will live off of their diploma.

There is also wisdom in the world, and some basic ground rules, that are not going to change. There are also those people, so well connected with their identity, that they have instant natural wisdom. Others cannot compete with that, diploma, or not!

Why are people so competent, not recognized?

They sometimes are, but only by the very best people in life. It takes confidence to see truth. That helps.

This only happens with supremely confident people though.

Helpless people never recognize truth. They manage by believing others, usually going from one to another, and they also seem to rely more on paper that shows formal teaching.

What seems to be happening, is that those people with the most natural inner power and security, recognize real talent, diploma, or not.

This post is still under construction. Thanks for your patience!

Norm