Are we immune to other people’s opinion?

In our best possible condition, are we more, or are we less dependent on the approval of others?

Wouldn’t we expect self-sufficiency to be nature’s preferred condition?

Well, that’s not who people are!

We all need the acceptance of others.

We are helplessly, and hopelessly dependent on it!

All this trouble is happening because of that one single issue.

In these unfortunate times, nobody gets that all important approval.

All of us get our thoughts and behaviors rejected.

It starts in the cradle. Our identity starts us on our all important drive to cope with the world. Our caregivers stop us, and we are made to behave!

That’s absolute Disapproval of everything that we are. No other life does this to their offspring!

Unbelievably, that’s all that’s wrong!

Fix that single issue, and the world unfolds into it’s natural condition of trust, acceptance, and feeling good.

Trust alone fixes just about every problem any of us suffer from. Even poor health turns around if there is time enough, and if it’s possible.

Trust only happens when our existence, and our behavior gets approval!

To a human, trust is the whole world!

Whether we like it or not, we are all hard wired into being super sensitive about what others think of us!

Yes, most of us work hard at not caring!

Considering it though, could it be that we only do this after we have been hurt so much, we want to escape the painful feelings?

This is another way of recognizing the disconnection we all suffer from, in our early years, during these difficult times.

It shouldn’t happen, and it marks the end of our perfect health and inner cohesion.

With the amount of hurt we all feel from having our progress blocked, do we defend against allowing the opinions of others to matter?

The reality? It’s vital to us!

We need approval. Our health and happiness depends on it!

Unfortunately, the approval we each get from others is at an all time low.

The condition of people reflects that situation.

Our reaction to disapproval? Sadness, despair, anger, and then some chosen action to improve the situation, which unfortunately makes things worse.

We are generally stuck with what we felt in our childhood.

If we sensed strong disapproval in our early years, those feelings are going to just keep coming back!

Why is it so hard to do therapy on ourselves without the help of others? Because of our need for approval. Every one of the issues we are trying to resolve are based on someone’s disapproval!

We need the approval of another person equally important. That allows us to integrate the resultant feelings into our inner world. At that point it’s all fixed!

We all have secrets. Every single one, is somebody’s disapproval.

Nowhere else in nature does any life suffer from chronic disapproval! Mankind has invented it!

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Thank you for your interest.

Good luck on your own journey,

Norm

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