The approval we need though is for acceptance of our own identity.

What about the approval we get for being what others want us to be?

Doesn’t that help us?

Nausea! That’s what that gives us!

It puts us into nausea!

That can and usually does get worse. It gets so bad we disconnect from our own feelings, because they feel so bad!

This is the secret to life. It’s the secret to happiness. It’s the road to utopia.

Ignoring that simple truth is the road to war!

We need Acceptance. Outside of basic necessities, this is it! This is everything that matters most to us in our lives!

Even warmongers kill and destroy, all for what reason?

To be admired!

This epiphany alone explains just about everything we most urgently question about life!

Why then do people behave in ways that make them lose acceptance?

Because in their very early years, these behaviors are what got them the approval they craved.

Why not adapt to the new situation, and do what brings us acceptance?

If undamaged, we can do that.

If we hurt so bad we have already disconnected somewhat from our feelings, which is what happened to most of us, we can no longer adapt. We need to regain integrity and cohesion first.

This explains the condition of our present worldwide environment!

None of us receive approval for who we really are!

Our civilization has been on a trend. We have, step by step, been interfering with our children’s Identity.

All life is it’s very best when self-driven. This isn’t an option! It’s a critical imperative.

Bit by bit, we have overridden the self-drive of our young.

By bit, our social environment has become more lonely and defensive! These have happened in exact step!

Of course they have! How could they not! There is no longer any acceptance. No approval. Absolutely no appreciation for the only person we can ever be!

The people that fight their way to becoming born, are already the best of the best. We are not going to improve on that hard earned selection, by making our children into what we think works better.

Believing we can, is arrogance on a ridiculous scale.

We actually think some of our thoughts, without any real research at all, can work better than the world’s hard won natural selection?

The results of that experiment? This environment is exactly what we have made!

It doesn’t even work for the rich. Their failed relationships, and suicides, along with their murder rates, probably exceed that of the poor.

Everybody hides in secrets. Everybody hurts. Life is crazy, and getting worse!

This is what we have made. Everybody comes up with their own solution to fix things, and the world fights over those ideas.

There is a solution. It’s not my creation. It’s about stopping the destruction!

We allow identity. We support it. We approve of it. We allow our infants to power their own development in the natural way.

We respect their identity.

That fixes everything.

It repairs the entire world. Community and trust return!

The evidence exists. Proof is easy. Back off, and respect the real identity. You are not going to believe what happens next. You are going to be astonished at what a 1 or a 2 year old can actually do.

Then, hopefully, we can make sure this mistake can never happen again!

Thanks for listening! Good luck on your own journey.

This post is part of the blog, clarity-of-innocence.com

Take care,

Norm.

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