2018-08-27 03:43
Love, an emotional drain.Often ends with my heart in pain.Don’t know if the pain’s worth the gain.Time after time my heart’s been slain.Getting me hooked, dropping me so fa… Read More
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Hi there! I am a McGill University psychology graduate. I am interested in helping people with their relationship struggles. Check out my blog!
2018-07-16 00:20
Today, I’m becoming the future version of me.When it comes to you, what I get is what I see.Stuck in your ways, you act so selfishly.I put too much trust in who you can be.Investe… Read More
2018-06-17 23:10
Braces won’t fix that crooked smile.My hurt will not reach your heart.My tears will not soften you up.You just don’t care enough.But I care.You’ll find another excuse to ju… Read More
2018-06-10 15:48
Imagine if I could turn all the hate I have for you into love for someone else. How beautiful would that be?Or, if I let go of the painAnd filled my life with joy.As bad as you were, I… Read More
2018-05-13 22:46
I miss the way you smiled at me.Oh, how smiles can be fake.I miss the way you touched me.Oh, how your touch will repulse me.I miss your sense of adventurousness.Oh, how you will disrespect m… Read More
2018-05-07 00:14
Livin’ in confusion.My dreams a mere illusion.Dilemmas I face.Tryin’ to go at my pace.But life feels like a race.Decisions I must make.Risks I must take.I try to be diligent.No r… Read More
2018-04-24 00:28
The tears I cry over you are temporary.In the morning, my pillowcase will be dry.Tears of pain that I know all too well.I’ve been disappointed many times.That won’t stop me… Read More
2018-04-08 19:04
I realized that I feel slighted easily by people: colleagues, classmates, friends, family and partners. Worse yet, I often hold a grudge. I may never act on the grudge but it festers. I have… Read More
2018-04-02 03:28
“Life is short”, they say.“So live it up each and every day”.Life is short in numbers but not in time.Life outside the box is seen as a crime.Time is portrayed as the… Read More
2018-03-26 00:14
I have been told by men to live in the moment.To do so seems almost impossible to me because of my future-oriented mindset.Yet, (almost) every person that comes into our life, has a lesson t… Read More
2018-03-11 22:41
If I could say something to my 13 year old self, what would it be?Don’t let bullies get to you. One day you’ll have friends who love you.If I could say something to my 15 year ol… Read More
2018-03-04 18:38
Love is work.A work of art.Love is growth.Growth requires nurture.Love is strong.Strong enough to overcome.Love is knowing to let go.Let go of our trust issues.Love is mindfulness.Mindfulnes… Read More
2018-02-11 20:24
I’m tired of living life in a state of fear. Fear of the unknown, fear of making mistakes and fear of being hurt. Most of all, the fear of never finding anybody to love me. I try… Read More
2018-02-04 23:46
Desire is a wonderful sensation. When you desire to be with somebody, your whole body knows it. Your heart beats faster/slower, the tone of your voice changes and your speech changes when yo… Read More
2018-01-28 23:34
With every man I meet, many questions flood my head. Will this man be different from the men in my past? Will he respect me, appreciate me and treat me with kindness? Can I let my guards dow… Read More
2018-01-21 22:40
If only I met you now and not another time,We’d be perfect for each other.But then again, we’d be different people.If only you had more time for me,We’d be perfect for each… Read More
2018-01-14 11:10
Nice guys,Please quit complaining that girls always reject you because “you’re too nice”. First of all, I have yet to meet a man who is too nice. Second of all, you should… Read More
2018-01-07 23:36
With me, what you see is not what you get. I am more than my face and body. I am more than my sexuality. It is unfair how so many men define me by my physicality and neglect to see me for wh… Read More
2017-12-31 22:04
My greatest wish for myself this New Year is accepting where I am in my life. I want to feel content with what I have accomplished so far and continue being grateful for what I have. I no lo… Read More
2017-12-24 21:24
I accept myself the way I am. I don’t need a man to be happy. But I need a man to feel complete. I wish I wasn’t so consumed with finding love but it’s always on my mind. I… Read More
2017-12-17 17:50
I hope to fall in love one day with a great human being, rather than the concept of him. I’m not looking to be with someone so we can prove our love all over social media. I’m no… Read More
2017-12-10 23:41
It seems that people only want to hear about the positive side of love. People don’t want to hear about the hardships and struggles. I get more of a positive reaction when I write abou… Read More
2017-11-30 21:30
Today is my birthday. Not too happy about turning a quarter of a century because I haven’t accomplished as much as I would have liked to. One of my unaccomplished “goals” i… Read More
2017-11-26 04:16
It kills me how a man can change colours from one moment to the next. You build a trusting friendship with him, speak over the course of months/years and one day he just completely ghosts yo… Read More
2017-11-19 22:41
I am desperate.Desperate to find a balance between being myself, while not too much of myself.Desperate to find a decent man who will treat me like I deserve to be treated.I deserve to be tr… Read More
2017-11-12 18:18
Dance with me ‘til we have no more energy.Spin me around in circles ‘til we get dizzy.Hold me close against your heartAnd let’s take it from the start.Let’s talk &lsq&hell…Read More
2017-11-05 19:58
I'm strong because I express my opinions, even if it means disagreeing with someone, share my feelings even if that might put me in a vulnerable position and because I don’t settl… Read More
2017-10-29 18:11
He was everything that I hoped he would be, until the moment I met him. Anticipation turned into disappointment, the moment he opened his mouth. This is why I gave up on expectations when it… Read More
2017-10-22 15:23
I was there for you but now I’m gone.Fed up, tired, annoyed, done.Chance, after chance, after chance.Tangled in an endless, nauseating dance.Excuses was all you ever gave me.You weren… Read More
2017-10-15 01:00
I'm really bothered by how awkward and shy I’m around men I don’t know. I have a hard time starting conversations with people in general, let alone men. I don’t like a… Read More
2017-10-08 16:06
I’m working hard to better myself. There are deeply ingrained behaviours that aren’t working for me in my life that I must undo. But I’m willing to put in the effort becaus… Read More
2017-09-29 02:15
Would I date myself? Yes and no. Yes because I have great qualities that would add a lot to any relationship. I'm genuine, honest, caring and selfless. My personality adds flavour to my rela… Read More
2017-09-24 16:29
This New Year, there are several things I want to work on when it comes to my dating life. I realize that there are things I can do to better myself as a partner and things I must look for t… Read More
2017-09-17 15:34
My heart beats to the music's melody.My body dances zestfully.My mind rests peacefully.I smile joyously. I breathe in happiness.And exhale angriness.My heart fills with tenderness.My bo… Read More
2017-09-12 02:12
To explain or not to explain? I can’t decide anymore if it’s better to just ignore certain men or to explain to them why I'm ignoring them first. There are so many instances wher… Read More
2017-09-03 21:10
In order to advance in life, taking risks is inevitable. With love, it's no different. Love is a gamble, entirely unpredictable. Why? Because we put our hearts in people's hands. We think we… Read More
2017-08-25 18:44
I realized something... Maybe my standards are too high. When I talk about standards, I'm referring to how nice I expect others to be, particularly in relationships. I recognize that I mysel… Read More
2017-08-18 17:45
Locked inside my own body,I struggle to be set free.I try to wake up from this bad dream.Already awake, I scream.No one hears me. It's not how it's supposed to be.I'm livin' in my own realit… Read More
2017-08-10 21:50
I used to wish that I could mend some of the relationships I had with men. But I now realize that certain people aren't worth it. Without these men in my life, the stress, frustration and th… Read More
2017-08-02 23:23
You are what you attract. I wrestled with this concept for a long time. I could never understand how someone like me, who is respectful and kind can attract men who are not. But then I start… Read More
2017-07-28 23:54
I dance with the shadow of myself.Bodies, mind and soul intertwined.The wind encompassing us in a bubble.I breathe. She breathes. I cry. She cries.I close my eyes. I meditate. I focus. I fee… Read More
2017-07-21 11:54
Innocent yet mature.Sweet yet cruel.Exciting yet terrifying.Real yet superficial.Breathtaking yet heartbreaking.Bonding yet separating.Fulfillment yet emptiness.Meaningful yet meaningless.Ha… Read More
2017-07-16 01:53
Don't tell me boys will be boys. Because boys should aspire to be more. Women deserve a man. I, a woman am sick of getting involved with boys. I'm sick of dealing with cowards, who don't kno… Read More
2017-07-07 22:59
Love is elusive, an image we create. Even if all our expectations on paper are met, we aren't necessarily pleased with the real life version. Love appears in our life and is so fragile that… Read More
2017-07-04 21:24
2017-06-28 18:25
Is it true that the heart wants what it wants? Should we always follow our heart, when it comes to love? And can we rewire our brain to have our heart desire what's best for us?The heart is… Read More
2017-06-23 13:11
I'm at a loss. I don't know how to feel, act or what to think anymore. Men constantly judge me for the way I am and for my opinions. I'm misunderstood. It really sucks but I learned to just… Read More
2017-06-18 18:59
Do you ever meet couples who've been together for a long time (15ish years+)? Or, old couples who are together and really in love? Do you think "I wish that was me"? Well, I sometimes do and… Read More
2017-06-08 22:20
Here's a poem I wrote.A Dreamy Kind Of LoveLove is the beat of my heartand the smell of a fresh start.Love is music to my earsand candy to my sweet tooth.Love is a smile on my faceand the ex… Read More
2017-06-04 19:43
Dear Diary,I have mixed feelings about meeting the one. I want to be truly deeply in love with someone but at the same time I feel like it's not my time. In addition to my mixed feelings, I'… Read More
2017-05-28 19:42
Dear Diary,Maybe I'm not meeting great guys because maybe I'm giving off negative vibes. That is, maybe my negative vibes discourage nice guys from approaching me. Or, maybe my vibes indicat… Read More
2017-05-21 15:58
Dear Diary,I've noticed something interesting, as a single woman. Being on my own doesn't bother me as much as not being with someone. Let me explain. I can manage being on my own. Even more… Read More
2017-05-12 21:00
All I needed was for you to staybut you just walked away.I needed you to hold me tightbut you were out of sight.I cried all night.We carried on, despite the neglectbut a trail of hurt is all… Read More
2017-05-07 18:35
From every lesson I grow.I have my high points and my low.Whatever love brings my way,I know I'll be okay.I stand tall,having been through it all:challenges that are big and small.I lea… Read More
2017-04-30 21:56
I'm not needy but I'm in need. In need to be with someone who accepts me, otherwise I'll feel misunderstood. In need to be with someone who provides me with a safe space to express my feelin… Read More
2017-04-23 13:58
Either it always follows me or I always follow it. It's a being in itself. It's a dark force. It consumes me. Once I inhale it, I must exhale it. It stands between me and my happiness. Drama… Read More
2017-04-16 01:59
You had a disagreement with a guy you've been dating. You two stopped talking but deep down inside you wish he would make the first move, call you and resolve things with you. When he doesn'… Read More
2017-04-09 16:18
I want to find love. I've tried to look for it. I've tried to wait for it. In the process, I learned to love myself and focus on my relationships with my family and friends. Yet, my heart ye… Read More
2017-04-02 13:40
It's normal to make mistakes. Yet, it takes maturity to learn from them. Extracting the lessons will give you insight into your self. Instead of living in regret, apply this knowledge to imp… Read More
2017-03-26 21:08
I'm a hopeful pessimist. This means no matter how many negative experiences with dating I had, I believe that there must be someone out there who will be a good match for me. Also, I'm reali… Read More
2017-03-16 22:25
Anger is a unique emotion. Unlike many other emotions, it's not always as it appears to be on the outside. Anger often covers up our pain. Sometimes, we don't know how to deal with all the p… Read More
2017-03-12 18:02
It may feel like time is passing you by as you're anxiously awaiting that special someone. Your peers may be getting engaged/married, while you feel like you're so far away from that p… Read More
2017-03-05 00:40
In dating, I realized that being a "nice girl" has negative consequences. While I'm pretty assertive, I often find myself in vulnerable situations. Problem is, I either protect my heart too… Read More
2017-02-24 21:59
When dating, it's easy to overthink every little thing that men/women are saying/not saying and doing/not doing. When it comes to love, people say/do things they might normally not. Even the… Read More
2017-02-19 00:23
We all want to feel appreciated by our man and we deserve it. It gives us a sense of security and comfort. If he doesn't appreciate you, he probably has the wrong intentions. Following are s… Read More
2017-02-12 21:55
I'm a strong woman. Experiences made me strong. Having gone through many difficult things, I learned to be more assertive and I have a much clearer picture of what I want in a partner. Consi… Read More
2017-02-05 01:06
You finally meet someone who you really like. Someone who's patient, considerate, selfless and who gives you a lot of attention. Yet, you've been hurt so many times that you can't help… Read More
2017-01-29 20:14
So this cute guy asks you out. You're really excited and immediately start imagining how the date will go. And you may even start imagining him as your boyfriend/husband. While it's importan… Read More
2017-01-22 01:02
The saying goes "just be yourself". But many people pretend to be someone they aren't, as they're afraid that their true selves will be rejected. This is counter-intuitive, as most people wa… Read More
2017-01-15 04:41
Are you fed up with putting yourself out there, only to find yourself single once again? Trusting someone new after having been let down many times by others is difficult, yet essential to f… Read More
2017-01-07 23:46
Following are some things that men shouldn't do to the woman they're dating and the reasons why. 1. Don't ignore her texts. Texting allows you to multi-task, so as busy as you may be, you ca… Read More
2017-01-01 00:34
No one wants their heart broken and most people don't enjoy breaking hearts either. It's difficult to let go of someone you trusted, opened yourself up to and shared intimate details with. A… Read More
2016-12-25 01:16
Compromise is key to a healthy relationship but that doesn't mean compromising your values and all your expectations away. It's important to strike a balance between compromising and stickin… Read More
2016-12-18 00:59
That feeling when he/she doesn't text/call you back or does so late...The frustration, anger, sadness, etc. And I'm not talking about a person who does this occasionally but someone who does… Read More
2016-12-09 18:53
When is the right time to kiss/be intimate with the guy you are dating? Even if the guy gives you as much time as you need, should you still wait a minimum (or maximum) amount of time? The a… Read More
2016-12-02 00:14
My number one wish for myself is to be happy and find serenity in my life. Unfortunately, I repeatedly find myself in the same sticky situations, which prevent me from fulfilling this wish… Read More
2016-11-27 04:19
When you break your arm by slipping on the ice, you put a cast on it and let it heal. You become more careful on the ice but you don't avoid it altogether, as you need to get to places. Howe… Read More
2016-11-20 01:14
One day I was notified on facebook that a guy who I'll call "D" accepted my friend request. I don't know this guy and figured that I must have accidentally added him. Nevertheless, I was int… Read More
2016-11-08 19:28
Is the saying "what doesn't kill you makes you stronger" true? Just because we overcome something, it doesn't mean that we become stronger. What actually determines whether we become stronge… Read More
2016-11-01 21:02
What took you so long?! Endless days and nights passed by without you by my side, causing me to feel frustrated and lonely. One thing I did know was that you'd be a very special man. Someone… Read More
2016-10-28 12:56
Should the three strike rule apply to wrongdoings committed by your partner? In other words, should you give him/her three chances to redeem himself/herself? Such wrongdoings doesn't include… Read More
2016-10-20 22:59
So you've been talking to this person on an online dating app for a very short period of time when just like that he/she asks you out for drinks. Would you agree to the date?Let's assume you… Read More
2016-10-13 15:49
2016-10-13 13:19
Breaking up is hard. Whether you're the one who ended the relationship or were broken up with, it's a difficult position to be in. This may lead to the feeling of loss and hopelessness. But… Read More
2016-10-07 04:24
2016-10-07 02:19
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2016-10-06 05:03
It was the Jewish New Year this week; a time of reflection and renewal. Also the time to make meaningful and reasonable resolutions. Being the analytical-minded person that I am, I'm constan… Read More
2016-09-29 17:01
1. He aims to be the best man he can be.It's not easy to change one's behaviors and habits. But if a guy can envision being with you in the long run, he'll want to be the best he can be… Read More
2016-09-22 17:43
No. You can only motivate him to do so.It's a huge and common mistake to think that a woman can change a man. Yet, you can only motivate him to change on his own. And even if a guy… Read More
2016-09-15 14:52
While being in a relationship is great, being single is great too! This article isn't meant to discourage people in relationships but just to boost the morale of sappy singles. I know, you'r… Read More
2016-09-06 02:40
Don’t you just hate it when a guy tells you that you’re “over-reacting” or “too emotional” and “you just have to relax”? These words make me f… Read More
2016-08-30 14:55
Not necessarily and here is why. From a young age girls are told to respect themselves and only give themselves up for the “right” man. Yet, I don’t believe that this will… Read More
2016-08-26 04:04
As requested, I asked men to tell me what's the number one thing that attracts them to a woman. I told them that their answer can involve something physical or something non-p… Read More
2016-08-19 17:30
Listen closely men because in the following article I will tell you what women told me they love most and what they hate most that a guy does in the early stages of dating/when getting to kn… Read More
2016-08-09 19:31
2016-08-09 13:42
You speak on a weekly basis. A guy who cares about you will want to know how you are doing on a regular basis. This means that you both talk about what is happening in your respective… Read More
2016-08-09 13:39
As requested, I asked men to give me tips on how a girl can know that a guy is interested in her. Here is what they said: It’s complicated. Love is not straightforward and so it’… Read More
2016-08-03 17:16
You speak on a weekly basis. A guy who cares about you will want to know how you are doing on a regular basis. This means that you both talk about what is happening in your respective… Read More
2016-07-29 13:00
Isn’t it really annoying when guys won’t say “sorry” after they’ve wronged you? I used to think that if only I reasoned with them, they would get on their hands… Read More
2016-07-27 15:45
I think saying “no” to a guy is the hardest thing for me in a relationship. I don’t like conflict and I try to avoid it, even when I have a price to pay. Further, I tend to… Read More
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