It kills me how a man can change colours from one moment to the next. You build a trusting friendship with him, speak over the course of months/years and one day he just completely ghosts you. You try to reach out to him but he ignores you! I wonder, is a man who does this worse than a man who plays you from the get-go?
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If I were to state the main things I look for in a man, consistency would be included. I want to know that a man won’t just disappear on me. I want to know that a man will give me reason to trust him. I want to be with a man who is emotionally stable and won’t run away from me because I am intimidating at times. I’m tired of wondering how soon things with the next guy will end.
How is a man ok with opening up to someone, sharing all these moments and all this time together, only to suddenly walk away from all of it? How can a man be so selfish and not care about how his sudden disappearance makes the other person feel? Why is it that the rare times I’m actually interested in a man and see any sort of potential he disappears before even giving us a fair chance?
Why does it feel like the universe isn’t in sync with the effort I put into finding a great man? Why is it so difficult to find a man who’s values and goals are in sync with mine? Why do I feel hepless when it comes to my love life? Why do I always find myself alone and disappointed?
Love,
Faigy
