2018-02-27 03:09
We’re going to take a step back here and acknowledge that I’m stressed. Like, I just ate way too much cheese straight stressed.
But that’s okay, dairy is fine. I may react… Read More
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2018-01-29 03:20
I feel rushed. That makes life really stressful. There isn’t anything immediate that needs to be done but it’s the feeling of what’s to come that is really stressful. That… Read More
2018-01-04 02:46
It took a lot of time to truly internalize that making mistakes is okay. I was comfortable with asking questions even if it made me look dumb for so long and then in my university life small… Read More
2018-01-01 04:37
I’m not actually that stressed in this exact moment. It’s a reference to a kpop song that I remember pretty much every time I’m stressed.
Key word though, is tha… Read More
2017-11-26 05:12
I still can’t believe someone back in high school tried to make me jealous by telling me that she was married to a fictional character I liked.
I was excitedly sharing my enthusiasm a… Read More
2017-11-19 01:09
This habit started in high school. Probably grade 11.
I was stressing out even though I was fully prepared. Or at least that’s how I remember it. I had an exam but I needed to do somet… Read More
2017-11-13 00:27
I was not a fan of purses and though I’ve accepted they are really useful I find a lot of options to be really impractical.
When I’m out I only keep what I need on me in the most… Read More
2017-10-16 02:24
I want to be mature about this but honestly, stomping around like a two year old feels so much easier right now.
One thing I’ve never liked about adults i.e. everyone older than me eve… Read More
2017-10-08 18:09
I know it sounds dramatic but there was a lot of thought put into it.
Expectations – so many from so many people; it almost felt like a curse at times. The dramatization isn’t go… Read More
2017-09-14 02:51
My Dada passed away early last month.
It was difficult because it was a real person I actually knew, talked to and always saw, just gone.
I had a conversation with one of my cousins a few ye… Read More
2017-03-04 16:48
Here’s the deal; sometimes I think woah I must be pretty shit because I never really talk to anyone, vice versa, and so I never really make any friends. That must mean I’m… Read More
2017-02-23 03:50
A while back I had an epiphany:
I can do it. I can buy all the chocolate and candy and chips I want. I can do it today, I can do it tomorrow and I could do it forever. I’m an adult now… Read More
2017-02-03 02:49
*peers over my laptop* I’m still here.
Okay, for some reason I like to torture myself and NOT complete stuff I need for the next day until like 11 pm and instead, I work on things that… Read More
2017-01-27 02:49
You know what’s messed up?
Feeling like shit and not knowing why.
What’s worse?
Realizing why you feel like shit and then realizing it was better not knowing.
Dramatic eh?
I fe… Read More
2016-11-08 03:58
The last few weeks have been a depressing realization for me.
I thought I had a decent handle on things but I realize now that I’ve not been doing enough.
I’ve been talking to pe… Read More
2016-05-24 01:56
It’s always interesting when I haven’t logged on here for ages and I’m not sure if I remember my password. Amazingly enough, I actually remembered; got in on my first try… Read More
2016-03-10 04:37
I’ve literally postponed this for so long so it wouldn’t look like I was throwing shade, but I am. To be fair though, I did want to talk about this for a while.
Victimizing yours… Read More
2016-03-07 02:48
So this is basically a continuation of the last post.
When it comes to depression, anxiety or any sort of down-in-the dumps emotion, people think that there’s a very simple solution. T… Read More
2016-03-05 18:24
I’ve gone out of my way for years to not be apologetic. When I was younger I apologized for everything – mostly because it as much easier to just brush everything off with an apo… Read More
2016-02-20 04:44
There’s always been this pressure for perfection and just being good, at everything that’s really weighed me down, especially these last few years. What sucks is I know half of i… Read More
2016-02-17 05:11
All minorities feel and give off some level of comfort and understanding when dealing with other minorities. We get the struggle, to varying degrees because we have similar but different pas… Read More
2016-02-02 23:51
Today I’m tired and sleepy.
I’ve been going to bed at 12 but have had trouble clearing my mind. So I end up staying up later and then struggle to get out of bed.
I don’t th… Read More
2016-02-02 23:51
Today I’m tired and sleepy.
I’ve been going to bed at 12 but have had trouble clearing my mind. So I end up staying up later and then struggle to get out of bed.
I don’t th… Read More
2016-01-23 19:45
I just finished reading 40 pages of my textbook and when I went to d the first problem I didn’t know where to start.
*sigh*
I hate reading and being like ‘yeah this makes sense!… Read More
2015-12-02 05:11
So I actually haven’t really spoken in class much this term. I feel like I’ve hardly spoken compared to last year.
I’ve been itching to say something in class though. I&rsq&hell…Read More
2015-12-01 04:29
Just two days ago I was talking to my cousin and she was basically letting me rant because I was in a bit of a bad mood and I told her I need to complain for a while and get this frustration… Read More
2015-11-29 22:46
The last couple of weeks have been kind of dark for me, mentally speaking. I’ve actually been doing a lot better in terms of physical health and life but for some reason I have been so… Read More
2015-11-25 15:39
Since I’ve been in university, I feel like I’ve been exposed to so much smoke I can feel it killing me. Now that I’m in a professional college miles away from home I realiz… Read More
2015-11-11 04:06
“Back off,” I say louder than I intended.
“Hey, I’m just saying in case you missed it,” Caren throws her hands up.
“I didn’t miss anything, so back… Read More
2015-11-06 17:16
I’m going to try something new in a few days and I’m still conflicted about it. I’ve wanted to do it for 3 years but either kept changing my mind or wasn’t really sup… Read More
2015-10-31 03:17
A lot’s been happening. I’ve gotten so busy and it’s not the I think I’m busy but I really just can’t manage my time for shit kinda busy. I mean, I could&n&hell…Read More
2015-07-28 18:54
The dull sound of polished wood scraping past each other echoes through the house.
“Where is it? Damn it.” Neith pushes the drawer shut with his hips as he stumbles out his bedro… Read More
2015-07-15 03:46
*I’m dying of embarrassment and I don’t know why*
Hours passed but she had hardly shifted in her seat. You would think you were staring at a photograph if not for her hair that f… Read More
2006-06-07 11:16
Seriously, it’s like everyone wants to disappoint me. I was so sure I was beginning to develop a few potentially meaningful friendships but man was I wrong. Here’s the thing… Read More
2006-06-07 11:16
Right. Ok. Let’s do this. I have come to a very supported conclusion that I have some form of depression. I became conscious of this about two weeks ago and I realized that this was co… Read More
2006-06-07 11:16
I tend to have the worst dreams. They’ll start out fine, about nothing in particular, and then turn into some sort of adventure. I’ll be having the time of my life, it’s li… Read More
2006-06-07 11:16
Mendel presented the results of his work to the members of the Natural History Society of Brünn; the minutes of the meeting record no discussion of his presentation. Mendel’s expe… Read More
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