Hiding behind a device has made it INFINITELY easier for all of us to be, for lack of a better word, “flakes”. I don’t mean flake as a judgment of someone’s charact… Read More

A lot of men tell me the hardest part of meeting women is not having a friend to go out with. They say… All their friends are in a relationship or married. Or their buddies don&rsqu&hellip…Read More

The idea of “getting permission” in dating has become a hot social topic the last few years. Many women are adamant that they would not allow someone to make a move on them with… Read More

When I first started dating, nothing was more exciting than the rush of flirting with a new girl over text. It always felt like the start of something good. I also remember that nothing wa… Read More

Even though millennials are having less sex than past generations, there’s no denying we’re in a hookup culture. Marriages are starting later and later. More men and women are… Read More

There’s no denying that some people NEVER seem to change. You probably know someone who’s been stuck in the same destructive cycle for a long time. They may make small adjustmen… Read More

Back in May, an old friend emailed me to invite me to a private island he co-owned with some other guys. They were planning to meet up on the island and take on a few carpentry projects to… Read More

Last week, I wrote about the incredible success men experienced at my confidence retreat. Many of you requested a future retreat that focused on charisma — arguably the best social s… Read More

Pictures courtesy of Sarah Katharina Photography You may remember my Conquer Confidence retreat I hosted with Julian and Kristina from LoveLifeSolved in Majorca, Spain this past August. Afte… Read More

It’s a story as old as time… Attractive young woman feels on top of the world. Then, she hits one or more major turning points such as: Her existing relationship ends and she f… Read More

Next Wednesday, the online dating space will undergo a massive change. My prediction is that it’s going to get a lot harder for the guys who aren’t equipped to deal with it. Be… Read More

Being scared often stops us from taking action to get what we want out of life. We don’t introduce ourselves to a new girl. We don’t send out resumes to get a better job. We don… Read More

Let’s talk about sex, baby… Or at least HOW you get into more sexually charged conversations with new women. It can be intimidating to take your conversation to that… Read More

You knew this article was coming… I went out with a client this weekend and saw swarms of people playing Pokemon Go in Boston. Walking down streets, sitting on benches, strolling thr… Read More

We are constantly faced with challenging decisions in life. Frequently, we choose the safe path because it’s the easiest path. It’s the one that offers the most protection. It… Read More

Today my friend Pete from Beard Strokings is going to teach you exactly what to say for the first 60 seconds of conversation in any situation. When Pete first e-mailed me, he… Read More

It’s hard to keep a positive attitude in dating when you’re not getting the results you want.  It’s even harder not to blame yourself for your lack of success and fee… Read More

Our parents taught us the value of education. We were pushed to study hard, get into a great school, and achieve that fancy piece of paper. Most of our generation entered this world proud… Read More

My close friend Jason Connell is dangerously charismatic. After meeting him only twice, my fiancé felt so close to him, that she asked him to officiate our wedding later this summer… Read More

Don’t you wish you could feel confident and outgoing walking into any room? Imagine being the type of man with an unshakeable presence that instantly commands attention. It’s t… Read More

Problem: You’re talking to a new girl, and you don’t want her to think you’re too available (and therefore desperate.) Solution: You take a long time to respond to all typ… Read More

  Ask any parent about their child’s inquisitive nature and they’ll tell you how kids question everything. They want to know all about the world around them, where they cam… Read More

In my previous article, I tried to convince you why going for a kiss on dates is always the right choice. Some of you thanked me for the insight and the perfectly-timed reality check. Other… Read More

Is there a girl you like that you’re just dying to know if she likes you back? Have you hung out with her time and time again but things are still ambiguous? Do you rack your brain… Read More

Few causes have such passionate followers as the anti-porn movement. With the recent Time Magazine cover, everyone seems to be calling for the destruction of pornography. Advocates of this… Read More

This is a guest post by Julian Reisinger , co-founder of LovelifeSolved.com. In 1961, MIT meteorologist Edward Lorenz was working on a mathematical model to describe how air moves… Read More

Note: This is my unbiased review of Roger Love’s The Perfect Voice. It is an audio system focused on making you sound charismatic, confident, and sexy. There I was driving to work and… Read More

A lot of men are constantly worried about upsetting a girl. They’re terrified that if they create any kind of tension — they’re going to lose their opportunity with her. S… Read More

I was sitting around the table with a bunch of people who had “made it”. They were experts in their respective fields, six-figure earners, and successful entrepreneurs who&rsquo&helli…Read More

A lot of guys determine their worth based on how many women they’ve slept with. It shouldn’t be that way, but it is. So naturally, guys who are less sexually experienced feel in… Read More

  The other day, a friend was telling me about some of his wild romantic experiences. A few minutes later, he turned to me and said, “Actually, I’ve got to get something of… Read More

This is a guest post by Dave Perrotta, the founder of PostGradCasanova.com. I’ve been lucky enough to live in four different countries and travel to several more. (Vietnam, Colombia… Read More

  Over the last few years, my fiancée and I have met a lot of new people. And we’re genuinely curious and love discovering what makes people special. After hanging out wit… Read More

When I met my girlfriend, we hit it off immediately. We had a few great dates and really started to connect. Then one day she suddenly began acting kind of distant. My expectation fo… Read More

Our mind is incredible at constructing artificial limits. And while these beliefs begin as imaginary, they soon manifest into actual obstacles. When you tell yourself that you can or can&r&helli…Read More

I’ve written a lot about rejection. I’ve told you how to reject someone in a healthy manner. I’ve talked about strategies for coping with rejection in the moment. I’… Read More

I’m sure you’re thinking…”But they’re women! They must understand what other women want!” Nope, not necessarily. I’m not saying that you shouldn… Read More

Every day we’re forced to make decisions that impact our lives. Most of the time, we don’t think twice about them. Moments like… Grabbing what you want for breakfast. Choo… Read More

When you think of someone cheating on their partner…what words and feelings come to mind? Asshole? Douchebag? Slut? For most people, cheating is black-and-white. It means you’r… Read More

  Men love a good challenge. When we have to work for something, we see it as more valuable. We tend not to appreciate what’s handed to us as much. Think about every good story… Read More

  Many people have told me how hard it is to make and maintain friendships in their adult lives. Their best buddies move away, everyone has full-time jobs, and couples spend… Read More

No psychic powers here. Just real talk. Romance is a touchy subject. And it’s almost impossible to get unbiased romantic advice because there are so many emotions involved. Egos can g… Read More