Your perspective is how you see yourself, others, and the world. And your experiences and exposure to other views has a way of influencing yours — not always for the better.  From… Read More

When a married man falls in love with another woman, he discovers just how complicated life and relationships can be. And he’s likely to fight it. The consequences of infidelity are fa… Read More

What are your most prized possessions?  And what makes them so?  You might say, “my prized possession is an old espresso maker my mother gave me when I moved out.” … Read More

Note the words “in love” — as in “infatuated,” “smitten,” or “lovestruck.” We’re talking about an unemotional man who only acts th… Read More

The big day comes, along with the big question: “What should I do for my birthday?”  You remember (at least vaguely) what you did for last year’s birthday. This time… Read More

You’re looking for interesting things to do as a stay-at-home mom. You have some ideas, but you’d like to see a more expansive list of your options.  You want a project that… Read More

If you’re like most people, you get distracted during meditation, especially if you meditate for long stretches (but even if you don’t). So, maybe you’ve already looked int… Read More

Is it healthy to enjoy being alone?  No matter how many friends you've made or how well you get along with family, you're just one of those people who prefer to be alone.  And you… Read More

When you realize that you're in love with a married woman, feelings of excitement, worry, and guilt could afflict you all at once.  Whether you're in the middle of a full-blown affair o… Read More

Life's simple pleasures have the power to buoy your spirits and sprinkle joy into daily life.  These lovely moments nourish your soul and remind you that the little things do matter mor… Read More

Look up “erotic games for couples,” and you’ll probably find quite a few things you wouldn’t want to see popping up on your screen at work (let alone on your kids&rsq… Read More

Are you bored with your boyfriend? And is there at least a chance that the feeling is mutual? Or is your need for excitement or novelty pushing him away?  It's not unusual for couples t… Read More

At your wedding, you pledged to love each other forever. Both of you meant those words sincerely, but as time goes by, the joys and hardships of life can make spouses grow indifferent to the… Read More

With the growing number of couples card games out there, how do you know which ones to try first? You know exactly how much spice you’re looking for, which is a good start. And maybe y… Read More

One of the most popular hobbies by far is collecting items — either because you enjoy them or because they have market value that’s likely to increase over time.  You probab… Read More

Do you have a bad attitude? I mean, how can you tell, really? One person’s bad attitude is another’s comic relief, right?  Turns out, not so much.  You’re just ge… Read More

You want to better understand empathy and how to apply it in your life. And one of the best ways to do this is to read quotes about empathy from those who understand it better than you do.&n… Read More

  The Emotion Scale Works Parenting kids with out-of-control emotions is difficult. If you’re frazzled and your emotions flare up, I have a solution for you and your children.&n… Read More

There are times when someone’s dominant behavior puts you at ease — not because they’re literally dominating you but because their strength of character and presence makes… Read More

Anyone who has made a round trip tour of today’s most popular dating apps understands the importance of services vetting members to get better matches. eHarmony used to have a 450 ques… Read More

You have your reasons not to get married right now — if ever. And it’s not as though you need to be married to be whole or happy.  Maybe you’re at the point where you… Read More

Do you have a sense that you’re lacking in some essential way?  You never feel good enough, accomplished enough, attractive enough, smart enough, or whatever you believe that lack… Read More

No matter how many times someone tells you, “If he loves you, he will come back no matter what,” you still have doubts. If he gave you any signs he was likely to return, you didn… Read More

How do you know if a man is hiding his feelings? You're not a mind-reader, after all. And if he has feelings for you, why doesn't he simply admit them?  Or are you imagining things? May… Read More

You’ve been hearing a lot about the importance of unity — from different viewpoints. But hardly anyone is articulating just what unity is exactly. It was never meant to be a divi… Read More

Sometimes, you want to say more than what a bouquet of flowers can convey. When you want to remind your wife how you feel about her, consider sharing a love poem — written by yourself… Read More

Those early days of meeting a girl or starting a relationship with a woman are exciting. After the initial flush of enthusiasm, however, you notice that she seems abnormally clingy. Her beha… Read More

You’re determined to keep it together, bracing yourself for conflict. But when someone you love is angry with you, you hear it in their voice and see it in their faces. And, ready or n… Read More

  How Diverse Families Make Friends Our Melting Pot Culture is filled with racial and ethnic treasures. When we extend a hand in friendship to one another, opportunities flow-in. Bu… Read More

Being in a controlling relationship is something most people try to avoid.  Most folks value their independence and don’t want to be micromanaged by their partners — or anyo… Read More

Let me guess, you’ve been using the Tinder for a few weeks (or months or years) and for reasons unbeknownst to you, you’re getting no matches on Tinder. It's frustrating to see t… Read More

Your sensitivity is an essential part of who you are. It’s what makes it so easy for you to empathize with others. But sometimes, that sensitivity can make life a lot harder than it ha… Read More

Cathartic as rain can be, it just gets to you, sometimes. And what you want is a word of encouragement that takes your rainy day and turns it into exactly what you need.  That’s w… Read More

   Good Questions Help Kids Think Parents, positive attitudes about people differences begin with you. Because what you think transfers to your children. What they think will c… Read More

When it comes to being goal-oriented vs task-oriented, you can find plenty of interesting perspectives favoring one or the other. The good news? They’re not mutually exclusive. At leas… Read More

You’re looking at intellectual hobbies you might enjoy — because you need a sharp mind for the work you do. And if you’re going to spend time and involve other people (i.e… Read More

Has someone recently complained that you are arrogant?  The news might have hurt because you perceive yourself as a pleasant person. You probably had a knee-jerk reaction to reject the… Read More

You and your partner have been through a lot already, and you want to show your appreciation for all the good he’s brought into your life. You’re looking for messages to make him… Read More

Can a marriage survive without emotional intimacy? If you’re asking yourself this question, chances are you’ll have mixed feelings about any quick answer.  Maybe you can mak… Read More

How do you know if a girl is serious about you? She puts you to the test.  Her mission, whatever her methods, is to determine whether or not you are relationship material — and wh… Read More

What are the first signs of attraction when two people have a strong, unspoken connection but aren’t quite ready to admit it?  That depends on who you are and what’s at stak… Read More

Let’s talk about the hardest part of any Tinder profile - the bio. Yes, pictures are important but a good bio can be the difference between a right and a sad left. The best Tinder bio… Read More

If you’re looking for something to talk about, few things are as useful as knowing the other person’s random likes and dislikes — particularly those you share with them.&nb… Read More

Comparison-itis getting you down? No one’s happy when they’re busy comparing themselves to others (or vice-versa). And there’s no need to torture yourself that way.  Y… Read More

What comes to mind when you hear the word “self-sabotage”? After all, everyone does that to some extent. We like what’s familiar. We want comfort and harmony.  Some of… Read More

When was the last time someone told you, “You are amazing”? Or when was the last time you told someone you care about how incredible they are? Somewhere down deep, you know it&rs… Read More

Raise your hand if the inside of your closet looks like a window shop of an Italian store with a fine selection of purses, handbags, totes, and backpacks. What if you didn’t have to pu… Read More

You’re looking forward to meeting someone and hoping to have a conversation you’ll both enjoy. Naturally, then, you’d appreciate a sampling of great conversation starters f… Read More

How many different ways are there to say, “Have a good evening”?  Since your choice of words and overall message depend on the nature of your relationship, you've probably a… Read More

You like being the one who’s always thinking of funny random things to say. Getting your friends and family to crack up at what comes out of your mouth is a highlight of each day. … Read More