Just a reminder that I am blogging over on our website now...February Roundup Little Things It's a MarathonOverheard Here Yes it's Valentine's Day...But..Question the DetailsPLUS … Read More

Twenty years in the lifestyle this month. I have been kinky longer than 20 years, but I found words for who I am 20 years ago. I remember doing a search online and stumbling upon an AOL bull… Read More

Life Update in  bullet points...* Destiny - In October, Master and I started seeing someone local.  Her name is Destiny.  Master and I are both head over heels for her...as sh… Read More

A couple months ago, Master bought me some double chocolate malt balls.  I really am not sure why I had a craving for them as it is just not something that I crave ever, but I… Read More

Newest to oldest on withinReality.com blog...His, Not My Own by destinyConsensual Issues Part 2 by MasterMasochistic Judgements by destinyConsensual Issues Part 1 by MasterSlut Taking a Walk… Read More

Just a reminder that I am blogging over on our website now...February Roundup Little Things It's a MarathonOverheard Here Yes it's Valentine's Day...But..Question the DetailsPLUS … Read More

When I was 16, I was involved with a boy who tied me up and spanked me. We eventually had sex.  But I was kinky. I didn't know there was a word for it though until much later. I was 27… Read More

Here is the link in case the video doesn't show up.... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iskxmVrU_dY Read More

First Master and I are good.  I will say that again Master and I are good. We are not breaking up. We have been together for 10 years - through good and bad and each year strengthens ou… Read More

Are you thinking of joining FetLife?  A little nervous and curious what you will find?  What to know some tips on helping your experience be more positive on FetLife?FetLife is lik… Read More

I think a pitfall of  D/s and M/s relationships is thinking that you have to do x,y, z to actually be "doing it right."  But really there is no right way to do a D/s or M/s relatio… Read More

On The Slave Register group on FetLife, there was questions about keeping property in restraints. So thought I would write my answer up as a blog post. Adding some more information to it.&nb&hell…Read More

I have had this blog entry about half done for about a month and I was missing some key points to it. So would open it up and work on it when things came to me. But one other thing that was… Read More

This past weekend we were at a local event and I just briefly mentioned something that happened to me years ago.  I went to look in my blog to see if I could find mention of it and I co… Read More

I have been blogging 13 years today.  Here is my first blog entry....October 27, 2000Blogger Here I Come... This is my first post to my blogger...woohoo lolI created a new name for mys… Read More

Here is a conversation we had tonight...I am perving on porn and send Master a link to a photo....me: Do you see something familiar in this photo...?Him: Oh well it was only that… Read More

We are going to a kinky gathering tomorrow.  I was checking my list of things to pack/bring....Pasta SaladSpoon for saladBrowniesM&M'sPlates, silverware, mugsKettleHot Cocoa and Tea… Read More

You know he can just get into my head and spin it in many directions that I think up is down. It is so so...well frustrating...because I will be going "huh what just happened" and be complet… Read More

This is one of my soap box issues I am writing about.  I will also state by putting something on the internet I do know that I will get opinions that differ from mine and I am fine with… Read More

Master had a rare appointment this afternoon where he had to wear a tie. I set his clothes out and hung the tie over the closet doorknob. This is the convo we had as he got dr… Read More

I am posting (with permission) an essay by my good friend Jouet to our website. It is titled Sustainable Service - here is a quote from it:  "Because “service equals reverenc… Read More

photo of Rocky Mountain National Park.I haven't done a life update in a long time so thought I would throw out what is going on....* Last weekend Master took me a place that had special memo… Read More

Yesterday kaya wrote about shopping at Goodwill over on FetLife. At first I "hearted" the post and then I realized Goodwill was in the title. See this is Master's fun at Goodwill, but not so… Read More

I love Master. I pretty much worship him.  I can't imagine being with anyone else.  I get obsessed with certain things about him every so often.  Today we were traveling to a… Read More

Master does exercise authority over most things in my life. Some of them are things he told or trained me to do and expects I will obey and fulfill them without him having to go over it ea… Read More

The folks in the UK get to see Season 4 soon.....here is the trailer Read More