2019-02-04 20:55
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No Contact
No Contact and walking away from our narcissistic mother and toxic family of origin is an excruciating thing for daughters to have to do. For those of us who hav… Read More
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2019-01-24 20:53
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Dear Daughter…
When a daughter is born to a narcissistic mother, she lives in a constant state of anxiety and unrest.
Rules in the toxic dynamic can change regularly… Read More
2018-09-28 22:26
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Gaslighting | Emotional and Psychological Abuse
Gaslighting – “I never said that…what a vivid imagination you have”
Gaslighting is a form of e… Read More
2018-06-15 12:05
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It is very rare to speak to a daughter of a narcissistic mother, who has a strong healthy and balanced relationship with her father. When his daughter is born, the fa… Read More
2018-04-07 11:57
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Nothing changes a woman more, than the incredible journey that embarking upon motherhood brings. From the initial finding out that you have this tiny helpless life growing… Read More
2018-03-29 13:08
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Firstly I want to begin by clarifying that Grooming is when someone builds an emotional trust with your child, with the intention to abuse or exploit them. This encompasses… Read More
2018-03-25 13:19
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So many adult daughters of narcissists meet who they believe is the love of their life at a young age, marry them, and then too many years later make the painful discovery… Read More
2018-03-25 08:44
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A narcissistic mother enjoys observing the triangulated sibling unit that she has set up for her children. She revels in the competition between her children for her attent… Read More
2018-03-05 20:13
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Abuse by narcissistic mothers, comes in many forms. This includes neglect, physical violence, and emotional and mental abuse, sexual abuse that encompasses grooming, ritual… Read More
2018-03-04 19:39
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Siblings are an integral part of narcissistic supply for the narcissistic mother. The Scapegoated daughter due to her position of vulnerability and powerlessness as a child… Read More
2018-03-03 18:55
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Many daughters of narcissistic mothers unconsciously search for ‘surrogate’ mothers, to fill the role of the mother they never had, and so desperately needed wh… Read More
2018-02-18 11:29
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Narcissistic mothers are very angry people. Everything angers them. A narcissist truly believes she is special, has unique qualities and talents, and is the most attractive… Read More
2017-09-15 07:58
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Daughters raised by unloving mothers carry a weight within them, that becomes heavier and harder to carry with every year that passes. Regardless of how cruelly we have bee… Read More
2017-09-06 19:54
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A narcissistic mother has many tools inside her Toolbox. All of them are used by the mother to create carnage, drama, pain and destruction.
The one I’d like to highl… Read More
2017-09-04 15:51
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If you were walking through the park, and you saw a woman having her bag snatched, and being pushed to the ground by a thug – human nature would dictate that you go t… Read More
2017-09-03 17:10
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While in my mid twenties, I began to get really fatigued, easily and from nowhere. Particularly however, if I felt stressed. Not the type of tiredness after a hard day at t… Read More
2017-08-28 21:08
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The importance of a child’s close relationship with a caregiver cannot be overestimated. Through relationships with important attachment figures, children learn to tr… Read More
2017-08-28 21:03
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Dissociation is often seen in children with histories of complex trauma. When children encounter an overwhelming and terrifying experience, they may dissociate, or mentally… Read More
2017-08-28 20:56
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Even though no specific lab tests exist that can diagnose NPD, some may be ordered, such as X-rays and blood tests.
The aim here is to rule out possible physical illnesses… Read More
2017-08-28 20:52
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It’s human nature to be selfish and boastful now and then, but true narcissists take it to an extreme. They don’t just have extra self-confidence, they don&rsqu&hell…Read More
2017-08-28 20:37
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Individuals with this disorder exhibit a lack of ability to empathize with others and an inflated sense of self-importance.
Definition
The hallmarks of Narcissistic Persona… Read More
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