2024-04-11 15:44
Let this be the last time that I am stupid in love!To quote Bob Marley, 'The biggest coward of a man, is to awaken the love of a woman without the intention of loving her.' No intentions are… Read More
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My personal blog about love, life and everything in between
2023-11-19 10:25
Your love life is determined by choices -your choices.To a larger degree, we need to stop putting our fate into the hands of tarot cards, horoscopes, and even prophecies Read More
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Learn to understand the position of people in your seasons.Some people are not meant for the summers and springs of your life because they weren't there through the winter. Read More
2023-11-09 06:01
Dear beloved, we've come to that point where we are at the tip of the Coca-Cola
bottle. Bonjour mes amis! It seems like déjà-vu writing about friendships yet
again. However… Read More
2023-09-04 00:06
Thou shall move onto the next!
And then 'If You Leave' by Destiny's Child and Next starts to play. Gosh, 'The Writings on the Wall' remains my favourite Destiny's Child album. The concept of… Read More
2023-08-29 11:52
Getting to know someone is an intentional action that requires up-close and personal interaction!
Interact tete-a-tete!Bonjour mes amies! Comment allez-vous? Je suis comme çi, comme … Read More
2023-08-19 16:35
Life is worth living to the fullest but you must choose to live.Phew! I'm going through the most, I need divine intervention. Since I'm currently not a fan of anything romantic, I am living… Read More
2023-08-17 14:24
Mr. Right isn't perfect, but he makes the relationship worth it.Bonjour mes amies! Comment allez-vous? What's the French phrase for, "I'm decent?" You will let me know as we progress. How ha… Read More
2023-08-17 14:17
Find love in the most unexpected places......and in unusual faces. As someone who's been avoiding warm, fuzzy and so-called 'romantic', I found my 'perfect find', I think. Imagine a romantic… Read More
2023-08-17 13:29
Be the person whom you want to spend the rest of your life with.Porque eres el único cuerpo con el que estás atrapado para siempre! With that said, it's good to have our feet b… Read More
2023-08-17 13:23
Por qué me siento así, mi amor?Lo podemos culpar a Cupido! Bring on the tissues, and a tub of ice cream, and Amarula cream. Cupid really picked on me and not at the best… Read More
2023-07-26 22:11
You can only experience the flight if you are the pilot of your own plane.Bonjour, mes amies! Comment allez-vous? To be honest, je suis comme çi, comme ça. I'm turning on my Sp… Read More
2023-06-03 19:02
My contrite heart is resuscitated and my blood's pulsating...
...AGAIN!
I've got a crush, and I feel kind of alive. J Lo's 'Feeling So Good', starts to play in the background.
I'm not… Read More
2023-04-09 11:16
No intentions are still intentions and usually cruel intentions!
'Little Miss Muffet, sat on a tuffet, eating her curds and whey.Along came a big spider,who sat beside her, and frightened po… Read More
2023-01-30 08:06
"Check the sign at the door,You are no longer welcome here anymore, And take with you, your suitcase of 'I am sorry," Eloya Somaine.There's nothing worse than wearing disappointment li… Read More
2023-01-30 06:53
Human connection is deepened by proximity and access to each other.Bonjour mes amies! We made it to the other side, welcome to a new year. It is with the hope that this will be an evolutiona… Read More
2023-01-12 12:37
No matter how broken you are, a meal of love is what you need.For the first time in a long time, I will admit on this platform, I will admit that I cried. I felt humiliated and hurt. Mariah… Read More
2022-12-28 08:12
Effort equals to reward, and effort is the real charm.It's the last 'Man Crush Monday' of the year, and it would be a deservice to all my MCMs not to take this journey together. Gosh, this h… Read More
2022-12-28 07:48
Manifestation is mindset and action combined to achieve the desired results.This is my last year of being single Read More
2022-12-28 07:08
A little Christmas magic is all we need to change our lives.I love binge watching holiday films. They give me that fuzz and hope for something better. This particular season I need more than… Read More
2022-12-21 23:02
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2022-12-21 22:47
Kea lumela hore ke rata lintho!And most of the time it's bad for my process of becoming. So I'm trying to be subtle, but... I met a ghost from my past. Not an unpleasant one at all. jus… Read More
2022-12-21 22:45
2022-08-30 02:11
I don't want to make it a thing, but I think that I see my friend differently.Yep! I had a halo moment with one of my closest and dearest friends. I've always appreciated him as a decent hum… Read More
2022-08-21 11:42
Stop trying to control everything and start experiencing the slow burn.Hello single ladies! Comment ça va mes amies! Je suis bien! Gather around, today we are having coffee and tea. I… Read More
2022-08-20 15:27
When you find what you are looking for, why wait? She finally made it! Congratulations to the now Mrs Jennifer Affleck. Jenny from the block is officially Mrs. Jennifer Lynn Afflec… Read More
2022-08-20 13:49
Let art offer you introspect and choose a different imitation of life!Honestly, I wanted to 'sing my life' with Summer Walker's, 'Still not over it." For those who understand my eclectic tas… Read More
2022-08-20 11:00
My relationship with hair extensions will never be the same!It's spooky season and what a time for all things that make your stomach churn, and eyes pop! For most of this series, I review ro… Read More
2022-08-20 10:48
Disney has etched some of the best songs that create a magical world, and even life!For as long as this blog has existed, my readers know that I love Disney movies, and the soundtracks. Desp… Read More
2022-08-17 20:52
If you want something different, you have to do something different!Woo, Jennifer Lopez really grated the cheese on this rom-com but I love it! Yes, this Valentines day, J Lo reminds us of a… Read More
2022-08-15 22:26
Always write your own love story...So here I am painting my story on a canvas. Today I decided to do something slightly different. Whilst I binge watched the entire first season of , 'How I… Read More
2022-08-12 17:21
Below are the seven ways that you are self sabotaging yourself. I call it 'killin' me softly' and not in the Roberta Flack way.1 . Suppressing emotions (specially anger) 2. Stress… Read More
2022-08-12 17:08
If you decide to ghost, then stay dead!I'm riled up and thinking WTF? Who the he'll does he think he is? Trying to walk out of the tomb like the Messiah! Degage!But I also realised tha… Read More
2022-08-12 15:52
Sometimes the end is a new beginning! It's a new year! To be more precise, the year of our Lord two thousand and twenty-two. According to the Hebrew calendar the year is 5782. The… Read More
2022-08-12 15:10
Maybe it's just me giving up, but I'm just tired.Today is actually the due date for a project. I haven't even finished it. I've pressured to complete it, but I don't have zeal for it. Deep d… Read More
2022-08-12 14:57
Let's get ready for a renaissance of life!Following that rather intense article, I want to end my week on a high note. It just so happens that it's Bey day! Not Beyoncé's birthday but… Read More
2022-08-12 14:03
You might miss out on enjoying what's around you because you're rushing to the infinite finish line!I'm exhausted at this moment! Some days I kick myself for having missed opportunities due… Read More
2022-08-12 13:01
I will cook, I will clean, suck your d**k........and drink! Bonjour mes amies! Comment ça va? Je suis comme ci, comme ça, but with hope the universe will hear my plea. Gather a… Read More
2022-08-11 21:13
Be an active participant in getting the relationship that you need and deserve!Bonjour, mes amies! Comment allez-vous? Gather around queens, this is a conversation for us. Can someone please… Read More
2022-08-09 21:12
To be honest, I need to take charge of my own energy!I'm at the polar opposite of the energy spectrum right now. Part of me is like an Energiser bunny full of life, and the other part of me… Read More
2022-05-02 19:10
Because we are the creations of the Creators, the port is within us!*making a crucifix sign*'Dear God.Please cut me some slack. I really need a breakthrough...' *watching out for a lightning… Read More
2022-05-02 18:55
'What if I,had a thing on the side/Made you cry/Would the roles change,or would they still apply/If I,played you like a toy/Sometimes I wish I didn't act like a boy...'-Like A Boy,Ciara.Like… Read More
2022-05-02 18:55
"Girl.He's a lil brownsugar!",a friend of mine said.Hey girl,you know me,I have got a sweet tooth.Brown sugar.Raw,sweet,gorgeously brown.I love brown sugar.Talking about brown sugar,today's… Read More
2022-05-02 18:49
Ever watched a tv show,only to feel completely useless after that.Look at it this way,an 8 year old belts out ''i will always love you",or a 14 year old who can play seven musical instrument… Read More
2022-04-16 20:20
MPV.....my point of view!Getting around.'Ya,huLady hwese hunopera wagara pakadoma!'.My daily dread of moving by public transport.I don't know what is worse,being stuck in a traffic jam in yo… Read More
2022-04-12 16:07
Friends!'So noone told you that life was gonna be this way*clap,clap*/Your job's a joke, you're broke, your love life like DOA...'-The RembrandtsFriends. I loved that show and I enjoy watchi… Read More
2022-03-27 10:56
Let's Just Get That Clear.I have popped some popcorn for all of you because today's MPV might be quite entertaining.Pulpits are not only found in church,but the world is a pulpit.Wherever th… Read More
2022-02-14 21:18
'Learning to love yourself, it is the greatest love of all." - Whitney HoustonThat song really hits home. One of my favourite Whitney Houston songs. My father would play this song and encour… Read More
2022-02-14 19:55
Stupid Cupid....Stop picking on me!Love. Rudo. Uthando. Upendi. Amour. Amore. A wonderful, powerful thing, something we all need in all its forms, Agape, eros, etc. But I am not going to del… Read More
2021-04-28 15:49
I dreamt of him again, and this time he broke my heart.......AGAIN! How does one have AM dreams at 10.29 pm? And so vivid, that you experience the intense emotions. Hello single ladies… Read More
2021-01-05 11:56
It's not selfish to want more!It's actually the 25th of December! Oh you thought that I would take a break from blogging. Not at all. Today, we watch a movie together. Let's find what holida… Read More
2020-12-24 17:51
C'est la vie!It's wind down time and hopefully we are getting into a better season.The overbearing relative:The verbal incontinent relative:The Negative Nancy:The judgemental relative:The co… Read More
2020-12-23 21:49
We are perfectly imperfect!Bonjour mes armies, comment ça va? Je vais trés bien merci! Bring your glasses of your favourite poison and let's chat. We are drawing to that time o… Read More
2020-12-20 05:36
Can my reproductive system just catch a break!Batho! Bothata ba hau ke bofe! Hello single ladies, how are you? I'm fine and making slow progress. It's still progress!Gather around quick… Read More
2020-12-17 16:42
I will be the autocrat of my reproductive state!Finish and klaar! Bonjour mes amies, how are you, single ladies? I stand here proud...I should treat myself. While adulting is ghetto, I'm pro… Read More
2020-12-15 16:03
Muchos gracias Corona...Out of all the times to be socially distanced...the holidays! I hear heavenly hosts singing right now. I never imagined that I would enjoy the idea of actually avoidi… Read More
2020-11-23 12:48
Some days I feel like these film makers are observing my life...But then again there are seven billion people, with some I can share similar stories. Of late I've been living in my own… Read More
2020-11-04 12:01
Looking at my nails and how I’ve made a meal out of them…I need a break! The past three weeks have been extremely exhausting to say the least. I decided to come to this pl… Read More
2020-10-06 19:06
Maybe not today, but someday you will mend and breathe. Breathe with a smile on your face, and tears of joy. As the good book says, joy comes in the morning. There's so much to say, at… Read More
2020-09-24 16:29
If I'm not the one that you want, then maybe I'll be the one you need. But if your priorities your wants, then I'm not her. Hello single ladies, Beyonce wave! How are you? I'm fee… Read More
2020-09-24 14:36
"Anyone can be number one but not everybody is first," -Billy Dee Williams Imagine I woke up without any idea of today's blog. I feel fatigue and the day seemed longer than most. But af… Read More
2020-09-19 18:37
Confidence is the key to success in everything!So stop stressing about your flaws! I don't remember when I last enjoyed a chick flick. I mean the ones whose story line aren't about people of… Read More
2020-09-19 18:01
Never despise a chicken on top of rooftops!Oh my, I felt like a fortune cookie right there. I'm never the one to jump onto trends. I proudly stand as the few who aren't phased by FOMO. Howev… Read More
2020-09-17 18:53
I want to make my own 'poor choices' in my lifetime....... at my own hands and of my own free will! Ever since I was a child, I despised being told what to do. I'm the rebellious type in a p… Read More
2020-09-16 15:45
The journey of a healthy, secure human being entails peace and maturity!Many perceive the state as complacent and dumb! Don't get it twisted, this sanity will keep many alive. I have been ex… Read More
2020-09-09 19:37
The best plug is when you are switched off!Oh my, how refreshed I feel. I really needed a detox. When you go through an emotionally taxing period, you just need to take a break from it all… Read More
2020-09-07 22:16
The difference between a basic female and a high value woman is her conversation.And anybody who knows me is cognizant of the fact that I can't stand basic broads. Forgive my French! Hello s… Read More
2020-09-07 14:46
"Can I call you on your birthday? Just to make sure that you're okay" Birthdays can bring out the real in all of us. Happy Friday and it happens to be the Queen’s Birthday. Yes Be… Read More
2020-09-01 12:49
Female friendships need to come to the place of acceptance through individual differences Otherwise we will continue to write the narrative that women cannot get along. Female friendshi… Read More
2020-08-31 12:17
2020 has sobered us to grief ...If you ask me how I am right now? I'm not okay! Last week my mind took a walk in the morbid alley. Too much news of death, but the biggest blow had to be open… Read More
2020-08-27 19:37
Paying homage to Aaliyah!Where were you on 25 August 2001? I remember there was a blackout in my neighborhood due to power cuts. I sat outside with a couple of neighbours as we chatted. We w… Read More
2020-08-27 06:35
I know that I have dug at the bottom of the barrel.... ...because my very own coochie ain't got respect. I laugh amiably at the Instagram page The Kouncil. I relate that for most… Read More
2020-08-22 15:35
Let go of all the nonsense and stop getting in your way!Hello single ladies, comment ça va mes amies? Read More
2020-08-22 15:33
A baby mama is a woman who yearns for unconditional love, not just from her babies...But with a man who understands.From surprise news to relationship blues, four coworkers in different stag… Read More
2020-08-22 15:32
Life is that unsolicited education!Stay in school y'all! Read More
2020-08-22 15:31
Lady, treat her like a lady......you'll make a good girl crazy if you don't treat her like a lady," Diana King. Hello single ladies, (Beyoncé wave). Read More
2020-08-22 15:28
Some love stories end tragically, yet beautiful....... especially when they are for the greater good! Read More
2020-08-22 15:27
Whatever I said, whatever I did, I didn't mean it, I just want you back for good"Lyrics by Take That, yes Gen Z, a British pop guy group that were there before One Direction. I'll admi… Read More
2020-08-22 15:17
My hair continues to be the politics of the day!I'm just coming from washing my hair because of the itching scalp. Winter isn't kind to my sensitive skin and scalp. I would like to express m… Read More
2020-08-22 15:17
He is my muse...... and in the myriad of things, I once was his. Today can I be philosophical and slightly deep? Hello single ladies, Beyoncé wave! How have we been? I am decent. Hone… Read More
2020-08-22 15:15
Wayment...there's a 'Kissing Booth 3'?I finally watched the highly anticipated sequel to the Netflix original, 'The Kissing Booth'. Picking up from where we left off, Noah is at Havard Unive… Read More
2020-08-13 17:12
"When the dick touches the heart, it means that it's affected not just physically but emotionally," Amanda Seales.Single ladies, come right round with your glass of wine, and box of tissues… Read More
2020-08-13 14:32
True activism is a deliberate decision to make a difference in people's lives......daily! I'm sick and tired of the keyboard ninjas who keep bullying individuals who won't take part in their… Read More
2020-08-02 12:42
Love is more of a choice than a feeling......It is a choice that takes courage no matter the circumstance.The biggest challenge between a man and a woman is never the 'chase' because a man c… Read More
2020-07-28 11:25
You don't need give everyone your piece of mind, because will have none of it for yourself.It's Monday and I'm spectating the repercussions of mismanagement of social media. We have so much… Read More
2020-07-27 18:23
This movie is so ridiculous and cheesy...Yet we do crave the romantic comedy element in our lives Read More
2020-07-27 18:23
Be willing to do the work, and work it out.The internet is having a diversion from the status quo as they decipher the word, 'Entanglement'. I won't lie, Mr Keyzz 'Entanglement with August'… Read More
2020-07-27 18:18
Understanding who you are and what you want for yourself is the ultimate secret Read More
2020-07-27 18:16
My gosh! In the week that my ovaries are screaming baby, I almost caught a nasty case of 'Fuck boy'...A.k.a you didn't earn this nookie! Ola my single ladies (Beyoncé wave). It's been… Read More
2020-07-27 18:11
Adolf Hitler once said, "If you tell a big enough lie and tell it frequently enough, it will be believed."At a sensitive time as we are in, why am I quoting one of history's most vile man? T… Read More
2020-04-26 15:25
The thin line between real life and fiction in romantic relationships is, you need to put effort in your attractiveness.You can't be noticed if you are hiding. Another Friday, yet the days n… Read More
2020-04-26 08:17
So, I stalked him and read his writings...I'm intrigued! Now don't judge me...I think having so much free time on social media led me to curious lane. You know like that Ne-Yo, "I just wonde… Read More
2020-04-25 16:22
In the cliché of life being short, confessions of attraction towards your crush hurt less......than keeping it inside. Hello my single ladies, Beyoncé wave! How are you doing?… Read More
2020-04-25 14:29
Can we take the risk to learn to love even when we don't know how to and come out winning?Beyoncé wave, hello, single ladies! Let's check in on each other, how are you? I'm sending yo… Read More
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