This is our weekly discussion on K1 Visa and Green Card.

We talk about spousal visas.  We discuss the VERY long process of the NOA2.  Lately, it has been taking MANY months.

One of the links we use is http://www.visajourney.com/content/times/ to determine the how long each part of the process is taking.

You can also track your case on  https://www.uscis.gov/

TRANSCRIPT:

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there it is there it is

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test test test okay there we go

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all right hey guys hey HTI are you doing

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this is Bruce this is our weekly k1 visa

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green card discussion where we answer

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questions live from our community that

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is focused on k1 visa going through the

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spousal visa fiance visa process it’s an

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opportunity for all of us between me to

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talk to one another help each other out

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we’re not lawyers we’re not consultants

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we’re just – these are just a couple who

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have been through the k1 visa process

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and actually Yuri is still going through

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the 10-year visa ten-year green card

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process and becoming an American citizen

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so that is what we’re going to discuss

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let me tell people on Facebook that

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we’re doing this real quick as people

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appear hey dodo hey J Barnes say

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everybody thanks for participating

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trying to get the link for this thing

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can’t remember where they put it I think

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I gotta get it from probably gotta get

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it from here

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if you guys have any questions about k1

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this is the time to ask I might do it

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the marriage visa so the marriage visa

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is known as a CR CR one and there’s one

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called K 3 is better because when you

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apply for it the spouse is also granted

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a two-year conditional green card so it

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cuts the costs and the time processing

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it cuts the application yep since you

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don’t you don’t have to apply for a

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green card as soon as you’re arrived in

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the United States it’s all in one

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application yeah I think you get it when

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you get the visa yeah you get the visa

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and then as soon as they give they send

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out the two-year conditional green card

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okay just inviting other people on

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Facebook the Facebook folks kind of are

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kind of in and out so I decided to just

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keep it on YouTube so if they want to

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join they’re more than welcome to join

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us from Facebook just go ahead and pin

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this post right here and let’s see if

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there’s any questions or comments let me

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see here

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do you do you marry in the Philippines

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and is it valid here in the USA yes it

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is about it so what you do is it’s like

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you have to register first locally in

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the Philippines and go through this

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one-day seminar of getting married and

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then and then they have the lady has to

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get the birth certificate and

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certificate of no marriage and then an

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identification for the for the foreigner

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and certificate of singleness you can

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request for that in your state and then

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I’m I think passport this is okay

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because it’s the second valid

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identification and that’s certificate of

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singleness that you have to request for

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and then you can get married in Seville

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wedding yep

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KP 5 5 s has finally caught you guys you

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guys have misspelled my name oh you mean

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in the in the upper bar there did you

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email emailed me your name I see that

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that bar that’s up top yeah just send me

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just email it to me

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I’m not sure which one is a p55 oh I

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think I do know which one is you well

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just to make sure no no okay Terry

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Miller says Hartley’s be anyway

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we said right yeah can I get you

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in the Philippines an Indian what’s

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going with I won’t soon enough we have

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been waiting for 190 days for enemy –

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you should call us yes so you’re not a

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lot of people are having this issue but

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yours seems to be yeah I would contact

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ship call them here’s one place you can

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you can well you know I’m in a way – so

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how would you check that you can check

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it yes they give you a one yeah let me

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give you a couple resources you can use

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they’ve got a right now I’m on visa

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journey and I’m gonna show you the

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processing times this gives you some

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idea of how long the process is taking

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for each part of the k1 visa process

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this is an average of moving average of

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how much has been taken for people and

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it’s been taken quite a long time for

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Noa – for some reason it says right now

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like let me show you right here it says

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I went to 9f Noa one – Noa – for k1 visa

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is taken roughly 199 days so here let me

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just show you I’m just gonna go ahead

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and send you this link just sort of give

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you an idea of what’s going on

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historically basically people put their

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timelines in people citizens of the

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world okay I’m in this world and the

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Wallis life in Terry

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HD candy I’m thinking of my friend

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Michael I’m thinking about visiting the

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Philippines for the first time how long

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can I visit you can stay there for 30

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days

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without a visa but then if you plan to

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stay longer then you have to get a visa

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at the immigration so Frank I just sent

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you another another link and what you

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want to do is go to this site and you go

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to check case right here see that link

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right there and you put does my fiancee

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up there is a date on the letter of

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intent to marry after she signs it

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should you keep all your Western Union

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receipts for proof of immigration the

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few you should keep them and the reason

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why is because the West it’s gonna prove

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that it’s proof of support yeah there’s

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a date on it yeah you put a date in it

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for intent to marry letter okay thank

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you hey folks hi Percy HT said should

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you keep all US and yes he should

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that’s proof of support Terry Miller

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said for the marriage part do I need to

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be present or no you don’t or care my

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girlfriend already have it set up before

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I show up in the Philippines yes yes

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people do it that way because it’s too

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expensive and you don’t know when

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they’re actually it’s too hard to pay

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most people can’t fly there just to go

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to the interview yeah you can have your

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girlfriend

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arrange things before you go things I’m

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sorry I misunderstood you Terry I

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scheduled a marriage before you go there

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Frank Sara said I’ve been doing that and

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his shows received only yeah so look at

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the first link I showed you

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that’s the wannabes a journey calm and

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that’ll show you the running average of

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what people are expect this expected

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wait you’re not alone it does suck I

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don’t really know what’s going on to be

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honest with you I can only speculate but

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I could tell you it’s been going on for

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about a year now wonder if that’s a

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coincidence I don’t know Frey Sierra

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says I’ve been doing that okay let’s

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read that one Robert sorry said but

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first I would have to meet someone good

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for me yes yes HT says I want to go

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first class but I’m paying like $3,500

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even if you’re rich plus gifts for her

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good save that that’s an investment

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Terry Miller I mean you can get a

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townhouse Terri said yes arranged

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Terry Miller says Filipino Cupid calm

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Robert Oh somebody asked a question

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about what site to go to Robert are you

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doing that for any coach yeah

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Rizzo says same site I met my grow on

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that’s where we met let me give you the

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link not necessary you don’t have to do

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this but it does give me there Dante

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says hey there I’m gonna be visiting the

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Philippines in baccala City for the

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first time this may do you guys which

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one are you eating are we reading tea no

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you know Robert

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now you skip his message he said I’m Han

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they’re in Filipino Cupid but

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seventy-nine messages in two days is too

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much to start through well you can’t

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read their profile and see this

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you gotta separate the wheat from the

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chaff I mean yeah if someone says I’m a

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simple girl skip that please know what I

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did what I did was I just read the

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profiles like you’re you just say yeah

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you know no you can’t you can’t that’s

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empty to me it really takes time you

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really can’t go off the profile alone

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but that is a good start that’s not my

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simple girl look because you have to say

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you have to talk to her period you have

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to get to know him you have

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talk to me this takes time I mean

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everybody I also look at what kind if

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they have a job if they don’t have a job

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don’t talk to them because then you’re

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likely to be become their ATM if they

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don’t have a job that means all they do

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is chat all day maybe they have a

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business uri god yeah if they don’t have

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a job then they’re gonna say they’re

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businesswomen so brutal man I see why

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you get so many trolls because you and

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your sister man you guys are just brutal

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well in the Philippines business women

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can help you know skip it

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Lucas says Yuri is 4,500 enough to bring

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my wife 45 a month or you mean bring her

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in the United States or living in the

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Philippines 4500 USD bring her life oh

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my gosh like this changing 4502 bring

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them with the galen yeah yes about right

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that includes the ticket travel

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expensive most of the expenses that is

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the application fee the medical fee the

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k1 original k1 visa fee with a green

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card

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she’s a green card – uh-huh she’s gonna

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apply for that in May

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yes yeah if you saved like three grand

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to start and then you’re doing the k1

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visa actually you ready to say that much

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in the first just save a thousand during

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the first two three months cuz you’re

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waiting on the anyway one anyway and

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then so just keep saving until she goes

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to the interview which is after seven

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months or or six months okay Dante six

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eight nine six says hey visit the

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Philippines in Bacolod City for the

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first time this may do you guys happen

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to have any suggestions on do’s don’ts I

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should do so I’m not offended be

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courteous I mean please thank you excuse

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me yeah yeah or say F word because for

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some reason Filipinos really get annoyed

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with what we made a video I’m gonna send

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you the video we did and then just be

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polite be respectful you know and don’t

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dumb if you’re gonna meet your

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girlfriend don’t don’t keep opening the

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door and smiling with other girls

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because that’s that means you’re

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flirting you know they’re real jealous

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they’re pretty jealous I mean it is so

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different you know it’s just really

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different there but let me send you a

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video that we did about when you go

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there and being polite

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we called it learn Filipino how you can

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kind of go above and beyond to be

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extremely respectful I bet my girl on

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the line too okay justic said just meet

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the girl don’t just have a virtual

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relationship yeah yes Wallace laughs at

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HT my wife and I had to take our

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marriage contract to our City County

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Building the lady said if not no one in

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the US will know you’re married it will

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only show you’re married in the

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Philippines okay I didn’t know that

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asking URI how hard was it to New Year

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Philippine passport for the first time

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after you came in this year that was

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annoying

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I have never nude my password year I

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need to do that but but we’re not

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traveling this year anyway so it expired

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last year and with Philippine passport

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Filipino there’s five consulates in the

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United States that’s assigned to each

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state in u.s.

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so for Colorado we are assigned to go to

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San Francisco and I cannot renew my

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passport in Chicago which is closer to

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us so your Filipino wife has to search

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for her

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Philippine Consulate just search in

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Google and search Philippine Consulate

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and then they have divided the states

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and she just cannot go any in any

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consulates as closest to her she has to

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go to the appropriate one that’s because

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they’re not gonna entertain us if we go

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to the wrong one so

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they process like Philippine style very

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slow and not and always required us to

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bring original certified documents I

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don’t like that I don’t know why they

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keep asking us for original stuff when

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they’ve already seen it before or if

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they have it in their database the

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Philippines it’s just horrible even when

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it’s already the United States okay what

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should I do

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instigator I’m about to mail in my

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i-129f but not sure if she will stay

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working abroad but I want to hurry up

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with paperwork and worried about

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interviewing Hong Kong if she goes back

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to pH well she should make up her mind

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first

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yeah that’s a when is our intern where

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is it gonna be where yeah you really

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can’t follow the documents mercy mine

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are hokum because if she’s gonna stay in

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Hong Kong then yes you can have her

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interview there but if she plans to

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leave like seven months from now then

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her interview should be in the

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Philippines because that’s the time when

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she’s gonna be appearing for the

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interview six seven months from now and

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hey Yuri hi Andy how are you what’s good

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[Music]

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– Yuri after seven months and five days

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we got in the way – yeah

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[Music]

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after seven months here that Frank yeah

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seven months in five days they finally

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got there anyway – I don’t know what the

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hell’s going on but ours didn’t take

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that long your guys is your process

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between Noa won and Noa – is taking

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longer than our entire process only took

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three months I don’t know what’s going

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on guys but it’s been going on it’s been

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going for about a year that’s been

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taking this long it’s been taking longer

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and longer and longer

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amazing yeah I’m gonna be visiting my

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girlfriend there but I don’t think

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she’ll be introducing me to her family

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there cuz her dad that’s not like

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foreigners well you should prove

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yourself first to her anyway I mean

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sometimes there’s no proof there’s no

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there’s no pleasing family you know what

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I mean like you guys should get married

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for you yeah I’m out and I hope she

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understands that because you you can’t

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go in you can’t always get approval from

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everybody in the family but if you guys

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are it depends on people’s sensibilities

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I mean I know that in America we do

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stuff regardless of what our family says

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but you know in some parts of Southeast

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Asia it’s not it’s just not that way if

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you can’t get the family’s buy-in and

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you sometimes you can’t you’re not gonna

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make it

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well you know you should you should have

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a good relationship with her first

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anyway because you’re marrying her not

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if it works yeah not her family but also

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it’s good to have a blessing from the

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parents but I think if if her dad sees

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that you know you’re truly serious

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you’re not just there for a quick you

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know right there’s a bad a ship some

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people have a very bad I stereotype of

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all foreigners because foreigners go

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there because they see bad things

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yes windows go there to just use women a

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lot of times and so if you’re a father

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you know you know what you know the deal

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is you got a daughter you don’t want

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your daughter marry

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fucking jackass yeah you’re not I’m

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saying I’m sorry excuse my language but

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this is serious like if you have a

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daughter you and you and you think that

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every foreigner is just gonna use women

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why in the world would you want your

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daughter marrying a guy who uses women

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there their interpretation of us is as

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bad as some of the stereotypes that they

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have here of Filipinos and it’s because

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trolls and it’s because guys that go

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over there and just use women for sex we

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just have a bad name over there because

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of guys because of guys he respects like

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these trolls you guys didn’t know Harper

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crossing is a YouTube YouTube channel

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called artsplace so if you go to youtube

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check them out Art’s place it’s

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conservative talk radio gone to YouTube

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he’s also an ex comedian who’s met the

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likes of some some awesome comedians

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like Louie Anderson and some other

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classic artists so yeah just check them

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out at artsplace Thank You Arthur

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Carlsen or appreciate it yeah but I mean

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you don’t you just I understand some of

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the hate that they have for foreigners

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because some of the some of the guys

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that go there they give all of us a bad

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name like the good guys they give all of

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us a bad name you know and it’s just a

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shame so if I was a father today I

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wouldn’t want my daughter’s many of no

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foreigner this snow

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I would I know how it feel I’d be like

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no okay let’s see here let’s see here

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nice world oh sorry

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okay HDS I’m ready to get the plane I’m

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getting paid this week finally all the

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Oh make sure that said hey Bruce and

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hurry what’s up hi dad ignoring this and

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the other money coming is enough and

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it’s enough to pay Bruce mortgage comes

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the jokes don’t be taken back Andy just

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[Music]

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driving home wallace life says passport

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fees for a book is going up what for a

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book is that for the Philippines or for

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the US must be for the US Arthur said

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he’s got a sunset video with my drone –

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what we call the ESA as they will tell

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you that if they have not passed your

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date there is nothing they can do

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processing sheet say processing occurs

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first and that was just ridiculous

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you pay a fee to fer them in the process

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and it takes them almost a year I mean

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we are very happy for you they finally

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got your Noa – yeah that’s such a long

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time of waiting I would like to

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apologize on behalf of my dumbass

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government for taking so long that is

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for the guy that asks about reading yeah

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that’s Frank I’m Frank if you’re still

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on lenez world just kind of answered

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part of your question let me repost it

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hold on second me we repost his question

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here if you didn’t get that car my

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questions are kind of flowing up pretty

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fast here but

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he’s got some great insight into this

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because he’s in the same boat where he’s

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waiting he’s waiting and waiting and

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waiting for it to go through so there it

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is I just reposted it let’s see here

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all right there I was about to buy a

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drone but I don’t know if I catch I

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crash it it takes some practice

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hey LaBelle how you doing man

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yeah that’s good it’s for everybody cuz

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I got I got five siblings Arthur says

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you guys do great work thanks for your

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help

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thanks thanks Thank You Arthur for that

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donation man I really appreciate Barry

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Oh Bruce

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yeah I’m sorry guys I kind of got a

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little cousin about that I mean I just

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feel passionate about it because I I

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just it’s just such an embarrassment

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that foreigners go over there and just

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treat people like trash you know and

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then expect to be treated like royalty

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when they go there it’s like man you

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can’t go over there and dish and

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disrespect people and be arrogant and

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then expect people to treat you good you

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know that’s real HT said because a lot

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of women I met thought I was trying to

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date them for some booty all-star

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because of the way that they do with

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what we do over there you know it’s just

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a shame Oh Frank got the message okay

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from Melinda’s well great great great I

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met some of my girlfriend’s family holy

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cow Filipinos have huge family yeah no

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kidding

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yeah instigator said I was lucky I went

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I went on the seventh with of this month

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and the whole family loves me he loves

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me and I do as well that’s great that’s

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great it’s great news

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gossamer attractive statements they’re

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insecure I’ve never seen such a huge

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family and well big news yeah

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cccc Howard took us 11 months for her to

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get so for those fiance’s was been

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abroad if your fiance has worked in

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another country then tell them to get

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the police clearance ahead of time

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because it takes a while yeah so while

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you are waiting for Noa to some

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countries really take a while so like

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but I’m glad she’s here Howard Howard

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said you really do great work thanks man

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Alexa hey Alexa how you doing Todd

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Howard says yeah I really hate those

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guys and I don’t want to be a part of

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that crowd man me too I mean I was I

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remember in the military that’s all

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people talk about Philippines this

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Philippine that they’re all talking

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about going there and getting some and

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it’s funny is when I went there I had a

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whole different perspective on the

514
00:31:29,720 –> 00:31:33,440
Philippines you know like I saw the

515
00:31:31,279 –> 00:31:36,559
poverty I was like oh my god there’s

516
00:31:33,440 –> 00:31:39,649
children in the streets with no shoes

517
00:31:36,559 –> 00:31:41,990
and clothes on and for me that was the

518
00:31:39,649 –> 00:31:44,870
thing that was the highlight I just saw

519
00:31:41,990 –> 00:31:47,360
like abject poverty I’m like man all

520
00:31:44,870 –> 00:31:49,159
these guys could talk about was the

521
00:31:47,360 –> 00:31:50,929
women but look at the poverty and look

522
00:31:49,159 –> 00:31:52,940
at the culture also there’s like people

523
00:31:50,929 –> 00:31:54,260
are so still so happy they’re like I

524
00:31:52,940 –> 00:31:56,330
just saw a whole different side of the

525
00:31:54,260 –> 00:31:58,580
Philippines and I just wish there are

526
00:31:56,330 –> 00:32:02,419
more people that get like you guys that

527
00:31:58,580 –> 00:32:04,190
can respect the culture you know and

528
00:32:02,419 –> 00:32:06,710
also appreciate the women as well and

529
00:32:04,190 –> 00:32:08,539
not disrespect people and that goes for

530
00:32:06,710 –> 00:32:10,760
any country I hate when Americans

531
00:32:08,539 –> 00:32:12,590
especially go to other countries and

532
00:32:10,760 –> 00:32:14,539
disrespect people and then expect to be

533
00:32:12,590 –> 00:32:18,200
treated like God’s gift to the world

534
00:32:14,539 –> 00:32:20,029
it’s just embarrassing to me HT

535
00:32:18,200 –> 00:32:21,380
logistics says and you know it does take

536
00:32:20,029 –> 00:32:24,049
a toll there’s some people some

537
00:32:21,380 –> 00:32:27,360
countries hate our freaking guts because

538
00:32:24,049 –> 00:32:29,760
of that I’m trying to meet the mother

539
00:32:27,360 –> 00:32:31,230
this time and I’ll take take them to a

540
00:32:29,760 –> 00:32:35,460
knife sulfate man that’s great that’s

541
00:32:31,230 –> 00:32:39,230
how you do it started not liking nice in

542
00:32:35,460 –> 00:32:41,429
general to like four years after like

543
00:32:39,230 –> 00:32:45,059
because you have bad experiences right

544
00:32:41,429 –> 00:32:49,080
yeah and just like arrogance and it’s

545
00:32:45,059 –> 00:32:50,460
like I did not like that I was just like

546
00:32:49,080 –> 00:32:52,580
starting to not like it

547
00:32:50,460 –> 00:32:56,960
I mean first time I saw it was in Korea

548
00:32:52,580 –> 00:32:58,860
Americans acting so stupid and I’m just

549
00:32:56,960 –> 00:33:01,200
thinking to myself this is just

550
00:32:58,860 –> 00:33:03,059
embarrassing man it’s so bad at one

551
00:33:01,200 –> 00:33:05,340
point that they told us the government

552
00:33:03,059 –> 00:33:07,860
told us say you’re from Canada because

553
00:33:05,340 –> 00:33:12,860
people hated us that much that do a lot

554
00:33:07,860 –> 00:33:12,860
with the Iraq war too but that happens

555
00:33:15,350 –> 00:33:24,030
long distance and in the future but in

556
00:33:21,030 –> 00:33:26,790
the process I’d like to get his respect

557
00:33:24,030 –> 00:33:29,850
but don’t know how to go about it if he

558
00:33:26,790 –> 00:33:33,000
hates foreigners well you know have that

559
00:33:29,850 –> 00:33:36,480
just have respect and treat your

560
00:33:33,000 –> 00:33:39,210
girlfriend nice you know and then and

561
00:33:36,480 –> 00:33:42,120
then she’s gonna start talking about you

562
00:33:39,210 –> 00:33:46,049
about how nice how respectful you aren’t

563
00:33:42,120 –> 00:33:48,600
alert and then her dad’s gonna listen

564
00:33:46,049 –> 00:33:51,660
yeah and I think they watch you and

565
00:33:48,600 –> 00:33:54,120
starts considering until as a father

566
00:33:51,660 –> 00:33:56,490
like if you if he knows he you’re taking

567
00:33:54,120 –> 00:33:58,290
care of his girl his little girl he’s

568
00:33:56,490 –> 00:33:59,760
he’ll have to respect you you know I

569
00:33:58,290 –> 00:34:02,549
mean if he’s a man you’ll have to

570
00:33:59,760 –> 00:34:04,140
respect you so that’s that’s how I would

571
00:34:02,549 –> 00:34:06,390
treat it you know like you take care of

572
00:34:04,140 –> 00:34:09,179
his daughter he’ll he’ll respect you

573
00:34:06,390 –> 00:34:10,950
because he has to because he loves his

574
00:34:09,179 –> 00:34:11,609
daughter and he knows that he she’s in

575
00:34:10,950 –> 00:34:13,950
good hands

576
00:34:11,609 –> 00:34:16,139
so I mean that’s how I would that’s how

577
00:34:13,950 –> 00:34:19,139
I would feel regardless of how I felt

578
00:34:16,139 –> 00:34:21,899
about a guy that my daughter was dating

579
00:34:19,139 –> 00:34:24,020
if this guy took care of my daughter

580
00:34:21,899 –> 00:34:28,649
that’s what and she and she’s happy

581
00:34:24,020 –> 00:34:30,990
right I’m happy and now that right there

582
00:34:28,649 –> 00:34:33,030
will melt his heart Terry says in all

583
00:34:30,990 –> 00:34:34,169
fairness some women are looking for men

584
00:34:33,030 –> 00:34:37,850
for money that’s true

585
00:34:34,169 –> 00:34:39,110
it’s not just men but I definitely agree

586
00:34:37,850 –> 00:34:40,580
from

587
00:34:39,110 –> 00:34:42,740
this point of view yeah absolutely there

588
00:34:40,580 –> 00:34:45,290
are definitely women looking for guys

589
00:34:42,740 –> 00:34:47,600
for the same for the same reason that

590
00:34:45,290 –> 00:34:50,180
God this did there is shallowness I’m

591
00:34:47,600 –> 00:34:52,000
just I guess what what really makes me

592
00:34:50,180 –> 00:34:56,660
mad is guys go over there trying to

593
00:34:52,000 –> 00:35:00,230
deceive women to get I mean I just I

594
00:34:56,660 –> 00:35:03,590
guess since I’m an American guy right I

595
00:35:00,230 –> 00:35:05,630
just expect a lot more from us you know

596
00:35:03,590 –> 00:35:10,100
they go there to deceive women that’s

597
00:35:05,630 –> 00:35:12,170
true and when they finally like settle

598
00:35:10,100 –> 00:35:21,530
down with the wrong woman then they

599
00:35:12,170 –> 00:35:22,820
blame and then that’s when they say how

600
00:35:21,530 –> 00:35:25,520
about all the guys that go over there

601
00:35:22,820 –> 00:35:27,470
doing the same thing you know yeah it’s

602
00:35:25,520 –> 00:35:28,970
a two-way street but yet you know Terry

603
00:35:27,470 –> 00:35:31,820
I do agree with you there are definitely

604
00:35:28,970 –> 00:35:34,190
a lot of scammers over there men and

605
00:35:31,820 –> 00:35:37,040
women you know and in between everything

606
00:35:34,190 –> 00:35:39,380
in between but I’m just I just I I guess

607
00:35:37,040 –> 00:35:41,780
I help hold us to a higher standard I

608
00:35:39,380 –> 00:35:44,870
just I expect more from from us you know

609
00:35:41,780 –> 00:35:46,940
I mean as American guys I just expect

610
00:35:44,870 –> 00:35:50,270
more but it’s just been disappointing to

611
00:35:46,940 –> 00:35:52,730
be honest with you Michael says I’m 62

612
00:35:50,270 –> 00:35:55,160
year old black widower I want to meet a

613
00:35:52,730 –> 00:35:57,350
woman close to my age and I hear a lot

614
00:35:55,160 –> 00:35:59,900
of younger girls saying age doesn’t

615
00:35:57,350 –> 00:36:02,690
matter but I think it does where is a

616
00:35:59,900 –> 00:36:11,750
good place as a wise man where’s a good

617
00:36:02,690 –> 00:36:13,960
place Michael Michael uh you know I

618
00:36:11,750 –> 00:36:17,780
wasn’t the same mindset you know and

619
00:36:13,960 –> 00:36:19,670
condolences man as widower there I was

620
00:36:17,780 –> 00:36:21,800
in the same but I was divorced but I was

621
00:36:19,670 –> 00:36:25,580
really looking for someone my age being

622
00:36:21,800 –> 00:36:26,930
I was like 30-plus at the time and I was

623
00:36:25,580 –> 00:36:35,210
really looking for somebody who was more

624
00:36:26,930 –> 00:36:39,740
mature and I found her who was very

625
00:36:35,210 –> 00:36:41,330
mature in her 20s but I mean you can

626
00:36:39,740 –> 00:36:43,560
find him in dating sites is really the

627
00:36:41,330 –> 00:36:48,380
ways to go but I would say

628
00:36:43,560 –> 00:36:54,390
for 62 I would say date a woman is 45 40

629
00:36:48,380 –> 00:36:56,790
40 to 50 fine and also go to dating

630
00:36:54,390 –> 00:36:58,710
sites dating sites is the way place to

631
00:36:56,790 –> 00:37:00,330
go these days and the reason why is

632
00:36:58,710 –> 00:37:02,490
because it’s like a cat it’s like a

633
00:37:00,330 –> 00:37:04,620
catalogue book there’s so many people to

634
00:37:02,490 –> 00:37:06,390
choose from but take your time cuz

635
00:37:04,620 –> 00:37:06,810
there’s a lot I would say treat it like

636
00:37:06,390 –> 00:37:08,640
this

637
00:37:06,810 –> 00:37:11,580
85 percent of the people who approach

638
00:37:08,640 –> 00:37:13,110
you online are scammers not scammers but

639
00:37:11,580 –> 00:37:14,370
they want something from you and if they

640
00:37:13,110 –> 00:37:17,430
don’t want something from you just not

641
00:37:14,370 –> 00:37:19,710
compatible treated as 85% of the people

642
00:37:17,430 –> 00:37:25,380
who you come in contact with on dating

643
00:37:19,710 –> 00:37:28,050
sites are not compatible with the right

644
00:37:25,380 –> 00:37:30,090
this that’s money that’s not love yeah

645
00:37:28,050 –> 00:37:31,530
just treat it like that be very

646
00:37:30,090 –> 00:37:33,210
skeptical as what I’m saying

647
00:37:31,530 –> 00:37:35,580
you know what I mean and then and then

648
00:37:33,210 –> 00:37:37,230
be practical about it talk to them for a

649
00:37:35,580 –> 00:37:39,870
long period of time and see if there’s a

650
00:37:37,230 –> 00:37:42,150
connection and and I would say throw age

651
00:37:39,870 –> 00:37:45,540
out I mean me and URI kind of have a

652
00:37:42,150 –> 00:37:47,070
different mindset but I I was looking

653
00:37:45,540 –> 00:37:53,960
for a woman who was around my age too

654
00:37:47,070 –> 00:38:00,390
right but I found her and actually when

655
00:37:53,960 –> 00:38:06,000
for Filipinos 15 years age gap it’s okay

656
00:38:00,390 –> 00:38:12,150
see for an American because of how we

657
00:38:06,000 –> 00:38:15,090
erase you know some women but if it’s

658
00:38:12,150 –> 00:38:18,780
beyond add like if it’s let’s say 30

659
00:38:15,090 –> 00:38:20,910
years 40 years I mean that’s hard yeah

660
00:38:18,780 –> 00:38:22,650
that’s horrible yeah that’s hard that’s

661
00:38:20,910 –> 00:38:25,650
hard I’m gonna say it can’t work but

662
00:38:22,650 –> 00:38:28,340
that’s that gap is yeah one time when I

663
00:38:25,650 –> 00:38:31,770
went back to the Philippines in 2016

664
00:38:28,340 –> 00:38:33,540
this is lady me your friend has a 30

665
00:38:31,770 –> 00:38:40,650
years garrulous they’re married have to

666
00:38:33,540 –> 00:38:49,590
leave with a kid right anyway your story

667
00:38:40,650 –> 00:38:54,210
I seen 65 or 70 years old walking and

668
00:38:49,590 –> 00:38:57,210
then a few meters from him was the lady

669
00:38:54,210 –> 00:39:09,750
walking faster

670
00:38:57,210 –> 00:39:15,960
what they together it’s like and I was

671
00:39:09,750 –> 00:39:17,310
like I’m just looking if you’re

672
00:39:15,960 –> 00:39:18,960
embarrassed about it

673
00:39:17,310 –> 00:39:21,150
Michael I want to show you a good video

674
00:39:18,960 –> 00:39:23,540
man from from our good friend of ours

675
00:39:21,150 –> 00:39:27,390
yeah you know I’m talking about

676
00:39:23,540 –> 00:39:30,860
postcards from Cebu he’s a he’s an older

677
00:39:27,390 –> 00:39:34,500
gentleman kin and he married an older

678
00:39:30,860 –> 00:39:36,780
Filipina and he’s got this great video

679
00:39:34,500 –> 00:39:39,030
where he talks about the dangers of

680
00:39:36,780 –> 00:39:40,740
marrying a younger lady and I think his

681
00:39:39,030 –>