there are people that we are lucky enough to come across in our lives which are unique. some search for Connection most of their lives and do not have the fortune or ability to meet anyone to form these kind of connections with.
there are definitely people in this life that are just Soul mates, regardless of gender. I have 2 female ones. And a male equivalent. It's obviously more complicated when you get a man and a woman together in such amazing conditions, due to our less spiritual and more human genetic pre-conditioning.
the two of us are still finding boundaries of morality, social norms and guilt, but even the process of discovering those boundaries is empowering and amazing in itself. it's a journey of self searching and self growth, while exploring togetherness at levels way beyond individual capability.
you know in movies when you see 2 people together and each of them say the Perfect thing at the perfect time. or the gestures are the perfect amount of Love, tenderness and still giving eachother space and individuality. Or a scene where the guy kisses the girl in the most perfect way at exactly the right time without any of it seeming like a sex scene but just pure love and kindness and connection. you look at these scenes and you think that only happens in moves because real life connections are filled with practicality and routine. but here I am, telling you that they are real. for 5 minutes or 4 hours - but time is a human made up unit that measures change and transformation in nature. today - now is eternity. every moment that every person has is eternity, they just don't live it like that.
he loves me in such an amazing way and he gets and filters out only the best in me, the purest ME at my greatest depths where fear and sadness and negativity just don't exist. just love, joy, bliss and happiness merge and collide.
together with him, i have reached heights and depths of myself that I didn't know existed. and this is not a journey of just self discovery. because it's a journey of connection. it's only through that connection that these things are possible. it's the most enabling and the most empowering kind of connection. something that you cannot achieve on your own and something that makes you realise what Soul Mates are actually about.
it's not about the physical mating, it's not about the psychological mating, where each person is incomplete and co-dependent and needy for themselves as an individual to feel whole. a lot of people are in this state, of constant need and crave to be happy and get those things that they believe makes them happy temporarily. they will compromise and do anything to get a quick fix, just to get a high from being with someone, just to get a little love. but of course you cannot get real love from someone who doesn't love themselves. you cannot get real attention from someone who doesn't have self worth.
it's only when an individual has reached on their own a state of self love and self contempt that then they are able to really reach outside of themselves and give something meaningful to another. and this Complete Soul will also not be able to truly give in a meaningful and rewarding way to an incomplete soul. because that incomplete soul will just be a black hole. there will be no dialogue, there will be no exchange. there will be no giving back.
a complete soul is going to instinctively search for another complete soul because they will know what powerful connection can be formed there. when you come together with another soul that is just perfect in their existence, then maths starts to bend the rules. the connection that you get is more than 2 souls - you get 3, 4, 5 and then infinite souls. that's when you get to take a peak into what infinity really is.
this is where eternity, infinity, time and space are all mashed up, bent backwards and consciousness prevails.
and this is my own experience, my own interpretation. this is what our connection does to me - he peels layers off me that are baggage, unnecessary weight, conditioning, stereotypes and learning; fears and negative associations, sadness, nostalgia and monsters accumulated in a life time and expose me raw to myself and to himself.
this might sound like a terrifying experience to anyone who would be scared to exist in this raw state. but for me, this raw state is so immense in its empowerment, in its positivity and its strength to reveal my true self.
and when I stare into a mirror and see all of this beauty and all of this bliss that is starring back at me just because he has managed to wash me up with the most beautiful kisses, with the most beautiful hugs, with the power of a thousand wise words and his truest souls emotions.
and this is what my life is about. in search for a mirror devoid of anything else but my purest self. a glimpse into eternity and experiencing, not just rationally knowing the purpose of life.
there are definitely people in this life that are just Soul mates, regardless of gender. I have 2 female ones. And a male equivalent. It's obviously more complicated when you get a man and a woman together in such amazing conditions, due to our less spiritual and more human genetic pre-conditioning.
the two of us are still finding boundaries of morality, social norms and guilt, but even the process of discovering those boundaries is empowering and amazing in itself. it's a journey of self searching and self growth, while exploring togetherness at levels way beyond individual capability.
you know in movies when you see 2 people together and each of them say the Perfect thing at the perfect time. or the gestures are the perfect amount of Love, tenderness and still giving eachother space and individuality. Or a scene where the guy kisses the girl in the most perfect way at exactly the right time without any of it seeming like a sex scene but just pure love and kindness and connection. you look at these scenes and you think that only happens in moves because real life connections are filled with practicality and routine. but here I am, telling you that they are real. for 5 minutes or 4 hours - but time is a human made up unit that measures change and transformation in nature. today - now is eternity. every moment that every person has is eternity, they just don't live it like that.
he loves me in such an amazing way and he gets and filters out only the best in me, the purest ME at my greatest depths where fear and sadness and negativity just don't exist. just love, joy, bliss and happiness merge and collide.
together with him, i have reached heights and depths of myself that I didn't know existed. and this is not a journey of just self discovery. because it's a journey of connection. it's only through that connection that these things are possible. it's the most enabling and the most empowering kind of connection. something that you cannot achieve on your own and something that makes you realise what Soul Mates are actually about.
it's not about the physical mating, it's not about the psychological mating, where each person is incomplete and co-dependent and needy for themselves as an individual to feel whole. a lot of people are in this state, of constant need and crave to be happy and get those things that they believe makes them happy temporarily. they will compromise and do anything to get a quick fix, just to get a high from being with someone, just to get a little love. but of course you cannot get real love from someone who doesn't love themselves. you cannot get real attention from someone who doesn't have self worth.
it's only when an individual has reached on their own a state of self love and self contempt that then they are able to really reach outside of themselves and give something meaningful to another. and this Complete Soul will also not be able to truly give in a meaningful and rewarding way to an incomplete soul. because that incomplete soul will just be a black hole. there will be no dialogue, there will be no exchange. there will be no giving back.
a complete soul is going to instinctively search for another complete soul because they will know what powerful connection can be formed there. when you come together with another soul that is just perfect in their existence, then maths starts to bend the rules. the connection that you get is more than 2 souls - you get 3, 4, 5 and then infinite souls. that's when you get to take a peak into what infinity really is.
this is where eternity, infinity, time and space are all mashed up, bent backwards and consciousness prevails.
and this is my own experience, my own interpretation. this is what our connection does to me - he peels layers off me that are baggage, unnecessary weight, conditioning, stereotypes and learning; fears and negative associations, sadness, nostalgia and monsters accumulated in a life time and expose me raw to myself and to himself.
this might sound like a terrifying experience to anyone who would be scared to exist in this raw state. but for me, this raw state is so immense in its empowerment, in its positivity and its strength to reveal my true self.
and when I stare into a mirror and see all of this beauty and all of this bliss that is starring back at me just because he has managed to wash me up with the most beautiful kisses, with the most beautiful hugs, with the power of a thousand wise words and his truest souls emotions.
and this is what my life is about. in search for a mirror devoid of anything else but my purest self. a glimpse into eternity and experiencing, not just rationally knowing the purpose of life.
