2024-05-01 19:10
The year 1976. I was 14 years old and, apart from focusing on studies, I was incredibly involved in stage performance with a local Theater group. Frankly speaking, at that time, my dream was… Read More
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Articles on motivation, inspiration and life management. Most of them are real life stories.
2024-05-01 07:00
The sun had long set, casting a shadow over the home of the Sharma family. Inside, Deepika Sharma sat at the small kitchen table, staring blankly at kitchen utensils in front of her… Read More
2024-04-30 15:12
We humans often think that we are in control of our own destinies. We believe that we can shape our lives however we please, make our own decisions, and control our own fates. However, there… Read More
2024-04-29 09:44
Kushal, a young man in early thirties, used to live in a small village in West Bengal bordering Bangladesh. He was known for his kindness, compassion, and unwavering determination to fight a… Read More
2024-04-28 07:28
As the sun set on another ordinary day, Lata couldn't shake the feeling of dread that had been growing within her for the past few weeks. Her husband, Chandan, had been battling… Read More
2024-04-27 09:39
Emotional outburst has spoiled many of my relationships. Be it on personal or professional level. I could never understand what triggered these outburst, but now I know.I did extensi… Read More
2024-04-26 20:34
In a world where negativity and cruelty often seem to take center stage, it can be easy to lose sight of the simple yet powerful ways we can make a positive impact on those around us… Read More
2024-04-25 08:11
Ratan had married Sanjana with dreams of a happy life together, but little did he know that his fairytale would quickly turn into a nightmare. Sanjana was not the loving and car… Read More
2024-04-25 03:51
It was a cold and dull day, when Sachin woke up feeling a wave of despair engulfing him. The weight of the world seemed to be resting on his shoulders, and the thought of getting out… Read More
2024-04-24 12:09
In a world filled with constant noise and distractions, it can be easy to lose sight of what truly matters in life. We often find ourselves chasing after material wealth, success, and power… Read More
2024-04-24 07:46
During my childhood, in my native place, there used to live a family of husband, wife and 3 children. They were simple people and I had never seen them interfering with their neighbo… Read More
2024-04-23 18:42
During my 15 years of career with Corporate India in different organizations, I could never understand the game of politics in the office. Sometimes the frank opinion I had shared wi… Read More
2024-04-23 18:40
As the sun rose over the horizon, casting a golden glow across the countryside, the small town of Ranipur began to stir. Birds chirped cheerfully in the trees, and the residents went… Read More
2024-04-23 18:27
One of my acquaintances in Delhi named Sameer had always dreamed of becoming a great painter. He would spend hours in his small studio, pouring his heart and soul into his artw… Read More
2024-04-23 16:49
Success is a topic that has been analyzed by countless individuals over the years. Many people strive to achieve success in various aspects of their lives, whether it be in their car… Read More
2024-04-23 14:34
Human life is a precious gift from the creator. During a discussion, one of my friends asked, “Who is the creator of all living beings?”“Very difficult to answer th… Read More
2024-04-22 14:43
Sandeep was once a promising young man with a bright future ahead of him. He was charming, intelligent, and had a contagious zest for life. However, as time went on, Sandeep’s… Read More
2024-04-21 10:53
Deepak and Sudha lived in New Delhi. They had been together for five years and their love seemed unbreakable. They met in college and instantly hit it off, bonding over their shared… Read More
2024-04-20 18:56
Having spent 15 years in job with Corporate India, before becoming an entrepreneur, and few years with an extremely insecure and difficult boss to deal with, let me tell you that it… Read More
2024-04-20 16:15
In the bustling city of Gurgaon, a young man named Anand was determined to make a name for himself in the world of marketing. With a passion for creativity and a drive for success, h… Read More
2024-04-19 10:32
Ravi's life has never been easy. From a young age, he has faced challenges that seemed insurmountable. Born into a broken home, Ravi never knew the love and care of both parents.&nbs… Read More
2024-04-18 19:36
Having experienced a major condition of depression myself for a year atleast, many years ago, I wish none goes through such painful torture of life ever. When severely depressed, one… Read More
2024-04-17 19:43
Not so long ago, in a small village nestled in the lush green valleys of the Himalayas, lived a young boy named Mihir. Mihir was a dreamer, always fascinated by the majestic mou… Read More
2024-04-17 09:19
The sun was just beginning to rise over the horizon as Vandana made her way down the small, winding road that led to the quaint little Old-Age-Home, where she had been working as a c… Read More
2024-04-16 21:50
Long ago I happened to meet someone in a Pub I used to visit during week-ends. In a short span of time I could develop very good rapport with him and at some point asked h… Read More
2024-04-15 20:24
In the small town of Meerut in UP, India, lived a young woman named Diksha. She was known for her beauty and kind heart, but also for her fiery temper and stubborn nature. She h… Read More
2024-04-14 10:36
Long before India's independence, in a small village nestled in the valley of the Himalayas, lived a young man named Manjunath. He was known throughout the village for his gentl… Read More
2024-04-12 21:39
In the bustling city of Gurugram, where skyscrapers reached towards the sky and the hustle and bustle of corporate life never seemed to slow down, there lived a woman name Anamika.&n… Read More
2023-12-11 08:41
This Life, human life, despite its ruthlessness, more often than not, is a just a game that we must play to the best of our capacity, ability and skills.We must understand that we ar… Read More
2023-11-09 14:09
Making others feel better, makes you fell better. Just a word of genuine appreciation. Or a genuine gesture of true recognition. That's all.I am not getting into the science of feeli… Read More
2023-11-06 17:07
Surrender to the flow of life instead of resisting it, to live a magical life. Nature has already devised a plan for you. Have patience and let it manifest when right time comes. It'… Read More
2023-10-30 09:27
Perception is dictated by belief system, which in itself is developed by what we observe and perceive as reality in and around us.When I meet a CHRO, who drives the discussion unknow… Read More
2023-10-27 09:29
Le chal mujhe zindagi zaha Tera man kare,Zinda yein lash mera kare bhi to kya kare.Ab tera hi Hawalei hein meri yein zindagi,Aage karna kya hein hein ab tera hi marzi.Na koi gila na… Read More
2023-10-25 07:24
Losing all hope was freedom.” ~Edward Norton in Fight ClubMy latest realization is just opposite to what I have been believing through-out my life, up until now, and it is: Sto… Read More
2023-10-23 16:37
When one embraces the path of Spirituality, it doesn't matter who they were and what they are now in terms of materialistic achievements.Whether you are the owner of a Multi-billion… Read More
2023-10-22 15:26
What we are looking outside is already existing inside. I am talking about peace of mind. Peace is not a piece of being better than the rest within your circle of influence. It is th… Read More
2023-10-16 07:33
Jo bhi Paana tha wo to maine paa Liya;Jo bhi khona tha wo bhi to kho Diya.
Aab aur koi bemishal Tamanna nehi hein;
Zindagi ne khulkar bahut kuch diya hein.
Chota sa shaher se nikla t… Read More
2023-10-15 09:54
I would like to share with you an interesting conversation I had today morning with the VP-HR of an MNC, a new client of mine.Discussing in details about Paramhansa Yogananda and his… Read More
2023-09-10 07:15
When Destiny ignores you, have patience. Understand that she is testing your endurance limit. When she opens up her treasure, sky is the limit.The latest example is Sunny Deol and th… Read More
2023-08-30 11:49
This post and none of my earlier posts on the role of Destiny and Karma, governing our life developments, are depicting a pessimistic observation of life.
What I write is my point o… Read More
2023-08-28 16:44
Message for the young generation below 45 years of age:
I had attended the Satsang at Kriya Yoga center of Paramhansa Sri Yogananda today morning.
Amazing experience!
Joining the 1s… Read More
2023-08-18 09:04
Look back. Just 15 years ago. What were you? Did you ever think that you would come this far, either way, up or down in life, where you are now?
This is not a routine post, I mean… Read More
2023-08-13 20:25
As a Recruiter, first as an employee of one of the largest Executive Search organizations in India way back in 1996 to 2000, and then as the Founder of the most popular Recruitment F… Read More
2023-07-28 16:00
Mistakes happen. Wrong decisions too. Look at your own life: Too many mistakes and lot many wrong decisions.Did you stop functioning there after. Did you stop living since then? Did… Read More
2023-07-07 11:54
It was a cloudy evening and I could complete all the pending works for the day before 7 PM. Feeling relaxed, I decided to visit my favorite near-by pub for a few drinks. I have been frequent… Read More
2023-07-02 07:19
I really enjoy talking to my pet, Cooper, since he always listen to whatever I tell him with an occasional smile. Trust me, dogs do smile. Never, ever, he tries to get into an a… Read More
2023-05-07 15:45
The foundation of our existence is HOPE. Hope is the Engine of Life that helps us keep moving toward our destination. Perseverance, Persistence, Patience, talk about anything, all are… Read More
2023-04-12 17:01
An amazing book I had finished reading yesterday at one go: "Dopamine Detox." It is written by Meurisse Thibaut.The conclusion of the book, as summarized by the author, is as follows:"Y… Read More
2023-04-04 12:53
Nothing works, nothing really works in your favor, unless you have an intense Desire to make it happen in life in a big way.Even a sky rocketing desire would lead you nowhe… Read More
2023-04-03 16:13
Karma karo, phal na moth sacho, ka Matlab hota hein 500% Karma karo. Itna Karma karo, ke phal tumhari jholi mein aa gire. Gita has been misinterpreted by so many, bit by bit, gr… Read More
2023-04-01 13:27
"Come on, come on, move fast," a high-pitched voice was getting closer every moment. It was around 11 O'clock in the night and most of the students at freshers Hostel were relaxing… Read More
2023-03-31 07:38
When you start liking someone, do you ever try to find out the reason behind: Why you like that person? No, you don't. Because, liking is the manifestation of a unique shade of your… Read More
2023-03-30 13:45
Why people get so angry in normal condition also?
Just went out to a shop for getting some print out. Since there was a formatting involved, I requested him to do so and agreed to p… Read More
2023-03-30 13:42
Reading this book - The Atomic Habits - and applying its wisdom in my life, I am developing so many good habits: Walking for 1 hour everyday, walking up early morning to name a few… Read More
2023-03-30 13:38
Few years ago, after getting down from Metro Rail at Chattarpur Station, New Delhi, I was looking for an auto-ricksaw.I was standing on the pavement across the main road. With people… Read More
2023-03-29 09:40
What I am posting is extremely controversial, but blatant truth as well.It's about the subject of my next book.Long ago I met a guy in a pub I used to visit frequently. During several rounds… Read More
2023-03-29 09:36
What is meant by success? Is there an universal definition of success?
Can we pin point, yes, reaching that particular milestone is called
success?
For an animal, primary success… Read More
2023-03-29 07:07
My horoscope is before me right now.Reading it after 40 years is shaking my belief that we are the creators of our Destiny -- what Swami Vivekananda said long ago.If everything is pred… Read More
2023-03-28 07:49
The foundation of our existence is HOPE. Hope is the Engine of Life that helps us keep moving toward our destination. Perseverance, Persistence, Patience, talk about anything, a… Read More
2021-10-26 11:03
Hold onto IT!
Don't let IT slip away from your life, even if its sharp corner is
piercing through your flesh, digging deeper and deeper inside your
bones.
Learn to endure unbearable… Read More
2021-02-13 16:27
Can we walk over brutally assassinated dreams of living a normal life?Can we forgive destiny for snatching away our fundamental emotional rights?Can we stop blaming others for not le… Read More
2021-02-12 18:37
Having interacted with and interviewed more than 10,000 plus senior and mid level professionals in last 25 years of career in Executive Search, dissecting their profiles from various… Read More
2021-01-22 19:15
None boards a sinking ship in the journey of life, everyone bows down to the power of drive.
All Happiness lessons are fine in black and white print, but a warrior decides his destin… Read More
2021-01-17 09:44
I met him in one of my favorite pubs: The Orient Tavern, Vasant Kunj. I still vividly remember it.I was sitting in a corner table, drinking my favorite brand. He was trying to be com… Read More
2021-01-13 16:38
Do you really know, what you want to do in life? If you know, are you doing it? If not, why not?Whatever may be your age, you must do what you want to do. You must start working on t… Read More
2021-01-06 17:31
Driving on any highway, speeding past a continuous stream of vehicles moving in opposite direction, you never know about the next moment.You never know, how would your future unfold… Read More
2021-01-05 21:53
Guest Post By S RajagopalThe first disappointment came, when I was removed from the team which visited a factory. I was 8 years old at that time, and did not wear an ironed shirt.The missing… Read More
2021-01-04 19:55
I am a Recruiter and an Entrepreneur, running my own organisation "Lis & Rim Consulting." Apart from identifying the best available candidates for my clients, I spend more t… Read More
2021-01-04 19:42
More than 3 decades ago, I cleared my 12th board examination with 8 grace marks in English. Despite scoring pretty well in science subjects, which ultimately ensured my admission… Read More
2021-01-04 19:26
Sharing your life experiences with others, you're not doing any favour to them.Sharing the stories of ups and downs in your life, you are not asking for anything in return.Sharing th… Read More
2021-01-03 18:17
"The Devil whispered in my ear, 'You're not strong enough to withstand the storm.' Today I whispered in the Devil's ear, "I am the storm.'" -UnknownI am not a professional Life Management… Read More
2021-01-03 11:43
Adam Grant, the author of best-selling book "Give And Take," interviewing Daniel Pink.Now you may go through how Daniel Pink summarizes his best selling book "To Sell Is Human" in a story… Read More
2021-01-03 08:49
Normally we feel uncomfortable, while being criticized. In fact, we are unable to tolerate anyone criticizing us.
We never try to find out, whether there were genuine reasons for someone fin… Read More
2021-01-02 16:52
It's the evening of 31st of December 2020. The New Year 2021 is just a few hours away.I am at home with my wife and Pet Cooper. Both the daughters have gone out to celebrate New Year with th… Read More
2020-12-29 18:10
In 1915, deep in the jungles of South America, the rising conflict between two rival American fruit companies came to a head. Each desperately wanted to acquire the same five thousand acres… Read More
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