I was 50 years old when I moved into my first assisted living home, my spouse and I had been checking several out in the Seattle area years before---just in case they came I needed one we would be prepared.
That they came after I had spent five days and nights in the ICU at a local hospital for never identified virus, or something.
I was very weak, she was very weak, we could no Longer take care of each other,
That is why people move into these homes they could no longer take care of themselves. It is a reason many will not except.
Sometimes their children or family members can no longer, or no longer wish to take care of them. That also is easy to be in did Nile love because it hurts, I saw a lot of that displayed in anger at number one.
That is why I can't repeat enough it is so important to prepare for where you will take your loved one in advance. Involve them as much as you can. But don't kid yourself either, you can no longer take care of them by yourself.