Children need to keep the inner strength they were born with! It’s critical for them!
Unfortunately, we aren’t encouraging, or even allowing that any more!
That’s what’s wrong!
The conflict and hate we see now is simply the consequence!
Without their inner drive, people can’t remain fully functional!
LIFE!
Life is far different from what we assume!
First of all, every life is already complete at conception!
A maple tree seed has everything it will ever need to become a tree.
It just needs a good environment to grow in.
Creatures are similar. They only need support and encouragement.
They are already themselves at conception!
They don’t need help developing.
They don’t want help.
They only want respect for being exactly what they are.
They need and want to develop all by themselves!
What they want is acceptance and approval to be themselves and grow!
NATURE
Throughout nature, the young are encouraged to become self-sufficient.
They are encouraged to grow through their own resources.
When they do learn, they listen because they want to.
They do it through voluntary compliance. Their own drive and power are encouraged in every way possible.
That’s not what we humans are doing!
Infants!
Infant children are no different!
Throughout life, they are going to need the inner Strength they were born with!
Their inner power is the most important tool available to them!
Without it, they cannot live their own identity!
Without their natural power, they can’t connect with their own feelings!
Without it, they can’t connect with their instincts!
Without their self-esteem, as we call their power, they lose most of their all-around awareness, both within their bodies and throughout the environment!
Without their own inner power, Children have lost everything most important in life!
They are helpless, left with only thinking to get by with!
The purpose of life and the joy, along with all sense of right and wrong is also missing. Our identities and instincts normally provide those.
THE SURRENDER!
We can see the despair as an infant loses the battle to be themselves.
We begin with a face that looks like this!
I expect we all know we are never going to see a face such as this, showing so much pure joy, after they get a little older!
Well, that shouldn’t happen!
We are causing the change!
SELF-ESTEEM
We can keep faces looking just like this by providing what new life really wants and needs!
At the moment we provide only what we decide to provide!
The disappointment, the withdrawal from joy, and the hurt are all easy to see if are ready to see it!
None of this is natural or normal!
The conflict that develops should be a clue to us!
The intensity of development is another clue! Their heart just isn’t in it anymore!
A good example is the speed with which Infants learn to talk and walk.
We will never see that rate of learning again.
Why? Partly because we unintentionally shut it down!
PROOF
The proof is easy for anybody ready to see it.
With any newborn, switch tactics and watch.
Support their own efforts, and allow them to go with it!
Be prepared for an entirely different world!
A world of energy, cooperation, and love!
WE CREATE TOO MANY MONSTERS!
Our support causes infants to be cooperative, kind, and loving!
Without our support though, when we overpower their own path, they lose inner connection.
When we treat them as slaves, order them about, and expect absolute obedience, we create monsters!
This is obvious to anybody willing to see.
Wherever infants and children are the most controlled, throughout the world or within families, there is war and never-ending conflict!
On the other hand, wherever infants and children are supported and encouraged for their own efforts, we get lovely people!
This is predictable and can be measured!
We can take any civilization, no matter how loving, and turn it into hate and war, just by overpowering the inner drive of the young!
JUST IMAGINE WHAT COULD BE POSSIBLE IF WE FULLY SUPPORTED THE SELF-DRIVE OF OUR YOUNG!
Children are astonishingly capable under these conditions!
We needn’t wait for maturity. It’s always there.
Conflict doesn’t exist! How could it?
Cooperation and love are natural for humans.
We are only missing that now because our kids become damaged when left without their own power!
All life needs its own power!
Shall we discuss health? Imagine the effects of living without inner strength!
It leaves us helpless! Anxiety becomes the normal condition!
That’s why the troubled are leading the world now! Strong and morally responsible people are rare now!
We can make one more with each child that we allow to grow from within in the normal way for all life!
The more children that can escape their childhood with their self-drive and inner power intact, the better the world is going to become!
Thanks for listening!
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Take care,
Norm Cormier
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