Life comes from inside!
That’s how life works.
As long as this is accepted and allowed, everybody is just fine!
But, that’s just not allowed anymore!
All our problems begin when our lives aren’t allowed to come from within!
This has happened to each of us!
Nowadays, we get told what to think and how to act.
Once this has happened to us, the way we see others has changed!
We see others through a haze of feelings.
We no longer see them as they really are!
This is a handicap. We cannot react normally to anyone.
We regard everybody through how we expect them to interfere with our own inner life!
Men can become helpless in the presence of women. Women can be terrified of men.
People become terrified to speak up at all!
Boundaries
Some of us get tired of the way others send us through emotional roller coasters.
We seek therapy! We learn boundaries!
We impose limits on how much others are allowed to interfere in our own inner lives!
What are we really doing?
We are setting our minds to no longer allow others to influence and alter our inner lives.
It’s a little unfair because not everybody has that intention.
But, sorting it out while vulnerable is impossible. Some of us just have to block everybody, until we gather some strength!
Health!
Health is never having had others interfere with our inner life!
This doesn’t happen in these times. We all become victims.
We suffer from low self-esteem, which is really the loss of our inner strength!
We cannot have inner strength while others are not allowing us to live from our inner drive!
Conflict!
Conflict doesn’t exist until someone interferes with our inner world!
People are not naturally hostile and aggressive. That only happens when someone overrides our inner life with their own theories!
By taking over the lives of our children, mankind has invented resentment, rebellion, hate, greed, war, and isolation for all of us!
Recovery!
Basically, recovery is regaining control over our own inner life!
Doing that reconnects us with our feelings, instincts, natural inner strength, and pure joy!
We cannot do that without moving back and rejoining reality!
What is reality? It’s Living from our own inner world.
While doing that, self-doubt doesn’t exist!
We all began life living from our own reality.
Health, joy, and our own inner strength return when we move back!
Few, if any of us are living our own reality!
How do we move back?
We dump everything that has disorientated us!
It is very painful to discard the many values we have accepted as reality, over our own instincts, feelings, and perception.
These all have to go though, as we settle back in to our real identity!
We all hold off reality on many fronts! Dropping each one is agony!
This is all tied up intimately with our health! Our best health comes from living from our own identity and inner life!
This is when we get our real lives back!
This is therapy! We let go of living for the approval of others and begin living from our own reality once again.
Finding our way back!
Thanks for listening!
This post is part of https://clarity-of-innocence.com. You may need this to return, and even that may not allow it. There are many who don’t value the inner freedom of others.
Good luck on your own journey.
Take care,
Norm Cormier
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