Some of yall are upset about Jesse Williams and his marriage ending because he was out here messing with them white women.Yall knew he was just so woke. He said black people were magic. He h… Read More

Yall, I gotta break up with Shea Moisture......they are doing too much.  You're wondering why I'm offended?  This is why.  It's because once again black women are erased. We a… Read More

Photo Courtesy of ABC NewsI just read an extremely naive and misguided post here.  In it, this woman explains how she now realizes black people and white people are treated differe… Read More

If you are in your feelings about women of color being suspect of the Women's March on Saturday and offering criticisms of it, my page probably isn't going to be pleasant for you.I'm not col… Read More

Quit expecting them to see your humanity. They are incapable of it. Demand respect, demand equality, because otherwise, you'll still be there begging.Liberals make this mistake time and time… Read More

Why am I posting this story instead of the one about the four black teens who streamed evidence of their crime against a white disabled teen on Facebook live?There's a good reason.This is th… Read More

2016 has been a hard year.  There were some highlights.  We have a new house, in a neighborhood we love.   Homeschooling for our oldest went well.  My youngest is th… Read More

2016 has been a hard year.  There were some highlights.  We have a new house, in a neighborhood we love.   Homeschooling for our oldest went well.  My youngest is th… Read More

GapKids just released this ad:It's cute, right? So innocent. Full of girl power!!!!! However, some folks didn't see things that way:So why are these people so upset about such an innocent co… Read More

GapKids just released this ad:It's cute, right? So innocent. Full of girl power!!!!! However, some folks didn't see things that way:So why are these people so upset about such an innocent co… Read More

This is nothing new, at least in the last decade or two we have had the black community theorize and explain the current condition of the black community.  The focus is always on relati… Read More

Dear Rabbit,I've had you for over three years now. You're awesome.  You're sweet. You're really smart.  You're also the most beautiful thing in all of my world.  I love you bu… Read More

Note to black ladies:  Don't cry, but you can't have the guy in the picture.  His name is Romeo Rose.  Yeah, I don't think his mom named him that.   He has a websi… Read More

If Trayvon Martin identified as white and George Zimmerman was black, this case would be seen so differently by so many.   If Trayvon was white, he would have been heralded as brave, ta… Read More

Today I read an article on Elle.com outlining the problem with the hashtag #blackgirlmagic.  I have read her points, I understand her hesitation with the hashtag, but I wholeheartedly d… Read More

David Bowie died this week.  I was very sad as I had been a lifelong fan of his music, acting, etc. One of my first celebrity crushes was David Bowie.  I've always been weird… Read More

To adult better.Be a better parent.To surround myself with people who actually like me.Seek help when I need it.I failed at some of these things in 2015, let's hope 2016 is better Read More

I often see people getting defensive when it comes to other people criticizing law enforcement. I somewhat understand that. Their purpose is to serve and protect, and if you believe that is… Read More

Dear white atheists, You are not the new oppressed. Yes, you face discrimination.  Yes, atheism is still not accepted in many parts of the world, including the United States.  Yes… Read More

It's already starting.  My "black girl raised among white people" PTSD is surfacing with my daughter.   Now let me start with this, my daughter is three.  She is a normal thre… Read More

My blackness is a defining characteristic of me. People often want to pretend they live in a world of color blindness in which they see no race, but that is a blatant lie. I see it every… Read More

Well guess what? I'm back. For real this time. For really real. OK, I might not be back, but I'm going to put forth the effort. Come on back, don't mind the construction, I'm just cha… Read More

With the election of Barack Obama back in 2008, I heard many white people get upset and proclaim that "Well he's really biracial, not black." anytime it was mentioned he was the first black… Read More

"In reading The History of Nations, we find that, like individuals, they have their whims and their peculiarities, their seasons of excitement and recklessness, when they care not what they… Read More

As many folks who used to read this blog know, I had a stillbirth back in 2009.  It was one of the most painful experiences of my life.   I have a condition called incompetent cerv… Read More

Oh Paula.  We wanted to believe in your buttery goodness, but alas, the butter made everything too salty.   Now we have the deposition, and it isn't looking good.   Paula and… Read More

This week is Black Breastfeeding Week! The purpose is to spread the awareness of breastfeeding to black women, who typically are the least likely to breastfeed.  Reasons for this is usu… Read More

August is a weird month for me. It’s a month where I can be insanely happy and also a month I can be supremely depressed. August 2009 I should have had Lillian Jean. Lillian Jean wa… Read More

My husband and I have discussed over the last few years that we needed to move.  We've been in the same house for ten years. It's a great starter home, and it's ok, but we want to move… Read More

By now, a lot of people have seen this commercial.  Apparently, a lot of people are upset by this commercial. Why would they be upset about a commercial about cereal?   Because the… Read More

So Tuesday night, Michelle Obama was giving a speech during a fundraiser and was interrupted by a heckler.   The heckler was Ellen Sturtz.  The issue Sturtz was concerned about was… Read More

See these men smiling at your screen. They look so friendly.  They look like they want to spread the good word. They are the upstanding members of their community.  After all, they… Read More

Visit NBCNews.com for breaking news, world news, and news about the economyThe internet is abuzz about little Suzy Lee Weiss and her oped piece in the Wall Street Journal.  To sum it up… Read More

This week, I came across this video. The scenario is that this man is “disciplining” his daughters because they were caught making a “twe… Read More