OK its a new year, a new beginning YEAH ! If you are single have you learned anything from last year that you hope to improve on in the dating world this next year ?? I have seen & experienced a lot since my divorce in 2010.  I have been on the dating circuit for research purposes most dates have been pleasant & more than a couple have been unremarkable!!!  Relationships right after a divorce tend to be what is referred to by Psychologists as ” rebound” or” transitional” relationships, they are instrumental & helpful in getting us back out dating but don’t usually last long term for obvious reasons.

 First resolution of the new year, we have heard this over & over again ” don’t judge a book by its cover” I was told by a best GF if you are attracted to someone immediately you should run the opposite direction… ouch!!! But she’s right, many women not just myself  have broken pickers… often times the guys we are attracted to are the ones we should avoid like a pandemic. I am a believer NOW in ” being careful of what you wish for because it may come true”  &  the saying ” You can’t see the forest through the trees” it’s what many of us tend to do… LOOK… but not really see what is right in front of us. So in this new year, give someone not on your radar a chance … go out on a date… maybe a few dates, you might be surprised at the out come, sometimes love is BOLD…  but sometimes love comes softly…  & sneaks up on you when you least expect it !!!

HAPPY NEW YEAR… HAPPY DATING !!!!