Every man on this planet should know how to Turn a girl on. Sooner or later you will be in a position where you are with a girl that you like, conversation is going WELL, but she is not turned on, she doesn’t want to have sex with you.

Unfortunately a lot of guys find it incredibly difficult to turn a woman on and that’s why they don’t get laid. They simply do not know how to.

In this article I will show you the best way to turn a girl on sexually with both verbal and non-verbal techniques.

How to turn a girl on…

when she thinks “Let’s just be friends”

Every man through his life he will encounter famous “Let’s just be friends”. Why let’s just be friends happen? It’s actually really simple. Girl does not see you as a sexual partner. She is not turned on, she does not want to have sexual activities with you. Her Body and mind ids not telling her “I want to fuck this guy”. Her body and mind is not turned on.Let’s just be friends is a result of it. If you don’t know how to turn a girl on you will hate yourself later.

In 90% of cases this happens because guys don’t know how to talk with girls, they make them bored and uninterested with their logical conversation and facts. She is talking to you, but she does not feel anything. She does not feel your masculinity, she does not dream about your dick. The beauty of female mind is that you can turn it on whenever you want it. Its like On/Off switch. I have spent years in cracking and understanding how female mind works and I have found many flaws, tricks and backdoors.

I have found really easy way how to get them horny and how to turn girl on.

 We all know that in order to seduce a woman, you have to seduce her Mind and Body separately. Because if she likes you mentally but she doesn’t feel anything in her body she won’t have sex with you. She does not “feel” it. She likes you, but as a friend.
On other side if you turn on her body, but she doesn’t like you mentally, again you achieve nothing. She will be saying “I am not sure.” or  “I do not know you yet.. its too fast”.

The only way you can truly seduce a woman effectively and get her turned on and have sex is if you turn on her mind and body together at same time. Good news for you guys is that I have solutions for both of it and I will share it with you guys in this amazing article. I will show you how to turn a girl on and how to  implement into your game. Let’s start with the body first.

How to turn a girl on physically

Let’s talk about how to turn a girl on with your Touch ( with your hands). Yes smart ones of you will say, that’s easy, play with her tits, kiss her, grab her for ass… and that’s all correct, but little bit uncalibrated. Can you imagine doing that with a girl you just meet on the bus station or girl from your class? Yes that’s the problem. It’s too sexual too soon. It’s not calibrated. Freak out will happen.

By doing so you can look like a retard or creep. You don’t want to go sexual too fast. First thing you have to do is to start touching her non sexual zones. She has to get used to just being touched by you. Let’s call those “Green zones”.
 As you are talking to her touch her every so and then. You touch her on non-sexual places. Accidental touch as you do gestures, or do a high five, or hug her, do little push -pull games (I hate you & then you hug her) or opposite, I love you and push her away).

The whole point of you doing this is to she get her used and  being comfortable by your touch. This takes 5-10minutes This is crucial step before it gets more sexual and we move to core of how to turn on a girl. See this step as a “Foundation” that you will base you “let’s get 
her turned on”.

Let’s talk more about “green zones”

What are Green zones on her body (non-sexual areas)?

Arms, shoulder, hands, upper back, face. These are areas of the body that are common to be touched in a regular daily conversation. We all do it when we talk with out friends, girlfriends, parents, coworkers. Give her a time to get comfortable with your touch before it becomes more sexual later. 
One thing I have to warn you about is that you never look at the place where you are touching. There is some creepy feeling she gets when you look at place where you touch. For example, you want to touch her shoulder, then you look at shoulder ( break eye contact), and touch the shoulder.

This is something that I have seen lot of guys do it wrong and scare the girls. Do not do this. Instead keep eye contact while touching and keep talking to hide it.

If you look at place lets say shoulder, it will look like you are doing it with purpose, there is a reason why are you touching it, she will start analyzing it and it simply won’t look natural.
 To make it look normal and natural do this : 
keep eye contact and occupy her mind with a story, jokes, conversation. And then apply physical touch.

This way her mind won’t process it, but body will get used to it. This is a trick I use all the time and it works. This you have to do in only first few times to get it going. The more you progress and the more she is turned on, the less you will have to hide it.
Spend some time on “green zones” and get her as comfortable with your touch as possible. If you do not get her comfortable with “green zones” she wont let you progress and turn her on.
Let’s move on. Once you clear Green zones, you can move to “yellow zones”.

Yellow zones are slightly more sexual.
 Neck, ears, hair lower back, hips are yellow zone.
 
Yellow zone is where game is actually played.
 I usually spend some good time there while talking to a girl in a bar, club or some social event.
 My hand just slides from upper back to lower back and I move it around the body. It’s never an constant touch, but you talk, remove your arm, then place it again, then drop it, then spin her, touch her hips.. It’s a game. Its something totally normal as you talk with her. But what happens in her body, is she is starting to feel more and more sexual.

Her body is getting turned on more and more. And that is a beauty of design of female mind and body. Anyone can turn her on. 

Did you know that 80% of sexual partners woman had in her life time, she didn’t choose / she  wasn’t sexually attracted when they met first time. Instead guy turned her on and had sex with her. We guys we can’t have sex with a girl that does not turn’s us on. Girls can do this. This is why good techniques and game is important.

You can literally be able to seduce and turn on any girl out there. 

Spend good portion of time on yellow zone. Let her “cook” inside. Yellow zone is a bridge from “non sexual to sexual”. Do not hurry, play with her hips, smell her neck, whisper to her ear, blow warm air around ear as you talk to her.

This is one of my favorite things to do in loud clubs, because it’s a perfect excuse to get closer to her ear and neck. It becomes socially acceptable to be close to her, have a hand around her wrist (lower back), and touch hair, neck, ears…

Loud club = really easy yellow zone escalation

You have to understand that female skin in 1000x more sensitive than mans (ours) skin is. Every touch she feels more intense, more powerful. As neck is one of sexual arousal zones, hips as well, someone touching it, it will get her sexual and turned on. It’s a normal natural thing. It’s an physical reaction. That’s why “foundation of green zones” is crucial. She feels comfortable to be touched by you and then you escalate to more sexual touch and now she feels comfortable + sexual. This is the key of seduction. Key of how to turn on a girl. As you are doing this you do not want to trigger any “alarms” in her head. Everything has to happen smooth…

Game is played in Yellow Zone

This is one more reason why learning how to dance is really smart move to do. Girls love to dance and for you as a player, it gives you easy way to escalate and turn her on while touching her (dancing with her). I believe that every player should learn salsa and know how to dance. It takes you 2-3 months to learn it and stays with you forever. Look, dancing allows you to touch whole her body sexually under “pretext” of  we are just dancing.

Results come in Red Zone

What are red zone areas? I think it’s clear by now, 
lips, tits, ass, legs, pelvic area..

She will let you touch this body parts only if you did a really good job in yellow zones, .
 The Only way to progress to  red zone is kissing. Kissing is a turning point in seduction. 
Kissing is actually a bridge between yellow and red zones. If you are kissing her and making out with her it’s normal to touch her tits, its ok to play with her ass. It’s normal to escalate.

If you didn’t kiss her yet, it’s not ok to play with her tits or ass. Simple as that. So kissing is your way in to red zones. Kissing is one of key elements on how to turn a girl on. I am not going to cover how to kiss a girl because you can read it all this amazing article here covering  how to kiss a girl. It’s an must read as well. So once you are kissing  her, you can move your hand to ass and explore other areas of red zone.

Remember this rule: 
The more to red you go, the more private you should be. Girls do not like to look slutty and sexual in-front of her friends or in public.

To not hit her alarms again, slow down and take care of logistics. There is so much you can escalate in public. Some girls have no moral and social norms, and they will be ok with it (rebels), but majority of girl won’t feel comfortable being too sexual in-front of other people. 

Sometimes if you do it wrong, girl will comment, “why are you touching me?” or she will command you to stop touching her.

This usually happens in first stages, first minutes in green zone or yellow zone. I am sure it already happened to you. What works best in this situation : “baby, I can’t control my hands around you…you are so damn hot/sexy… look at them are not listening to me… look, bad arm, bad arm.. (be playful and slap one of your arms”) and then continue with process.
Formula = blame it on her and how sexy she is. You can’t control yourself around her. They love it!

How to turn a girl on Mentally – Dirty Talk

We talked a lot about Physical aspect; now let’s talk about verbal’s – The conversation. Both are actually equally important to success. 
The idea is to let her mind flow together with body. If her body is getting sexual, mind should follow.

If the mind does not follow, she will stop what is happening on her body. As a dating coach, I have seen many seductions fall apart on this. Guy was progressing physically very well, but mentally girl didn’t like him and she just stopped him. And in many cases you will see that, body responding very well to you, but her mind not.

Solution is Dirty Talk

This is how you turn on a girl’s mind. While you are talking with woman, make sure your conversation is quality and you go wide and deep. If you still struggle with conversation, read my article on how to talk to woman. Conversation should go smooth, this is foundation again. On top of that foundation, every few minutes you should whisper something sexual to her ear. Mixing normal conversation with sexual.

“We are talking about music, but I have to tell you, you have such a nice legs, they are so driving me crazy” 

and then you go back to conversation, and continue talking like nothing happened. What this will do is it will send an impulse to her brain; this guy is sexual, he likes me, he wants me, I am sexy to him. Change the topic and let her unconscious cooks. 

5-10 minutes later you do it again.

“You have such an nice high heels, I really like them… I would remove everything from you… but these heels, they would stay on”

 And then shift back to your normal conversation. This is a 101 of a Mind-Fuck. You are playing with her left and right hemisphere of the brain (both logic and emotions are engaged).

I have tried this to hundreds of woman around planet and it worked every single time I did it. Dirty talk is simply amazing Technique. This is so effective way on how to turn a girl on! Always whisper sexual things to her left ear!
With years of testing this, I found that there is an difference between whispering to  left or to  right ear. And I found that whispering to left ear produces more intensive and sexual emotions in her mind. It intrigued me so I did a research and found that left ear is connected controlled by right hemisphere of the brain.

And we know that right hemisphere of brain deals with emotions so it all made perfect sense. Everything you whisper to her left ear goes directly to her emotional part of the brain bypassing critical mind (logic) in some way. If you only know what I am thinking about right now, you would blush…

Rules of dirty talk and how to turn a girl on fast

1. So how to turn a girl on? It’s easy if you do it smart. Calibration is the key here. If you over do it you can scare her or make it sound awkward. Slowly get more and more sexual with her. Each dirty talk line you say should be 15-20% more sexual than previous.

 Give her mind to process sexual thoughts yo place in her mind, and then move on. step by step and she is yours. Time is on your side here.
2. Verbal’s should follow non-verbal’s
. Your Dirty talk lines should follow your physical touch. If you are saying, “you have such a sexy legs.. (place your hand on her back). This will as well create confusion and chaos in her head, which allow you to get her even more turned on. Make sure that your words go along with your touch. You want to avoid situation where you are doing 5th dirty talk line and you still haven’t touched her at all. This would be creepy.
3. Change the topic after your deliver dirty talk line
. After you deliver your line to hear ear, pull back, smile, and totally calm change topic to something logical, like travel, sports music, food, drinks, hobbies…

Formula for how to turn on a girl & dirty talk

(COMPLIMENT  ON HER BODY ) + (YOUR SEXUAL EMOTIONS)

Instead memorizing lines what to say, you should be able to create your own lines for the moment when you are with a girl. Follow this simple  formula and you will always have something to say, something to whisper.

A) Find an body part or something  you really like on her. maybe something that’s turning you on or you find it sexy.
Like dress that  fits her nice or she has amazing ass you really like, or she has those sexy tight jeans… whatever, look at her and find what you like on her.

B) Create an compliment out from it.
Example :
– You have such an sexy ass
– I really like those tight jeans

C) Add your sexual feelings on it or action ( express how its making you feel)
 Example  :
It’s distracting me from this conversation; 
It’s turning me on; it’s driving me crazy
; I can’t control myself

D) Combine it together into an sentence. Example :  

You have such an sexy ass, I can’t control myself
-You have such a sexy legs, when I look at them my blood is going to all wrong places.

-I really like those tight jeans I am losing control over myself when I look at them.

Keep mixing normal conversation with Sexual and notice how her panties are getting wet. She will be fighting with it, resisting it. Its all good, just keep whispering Sexual things into her ear.
This is how to turn a girl on, turn on her body and turn on her mind together you will  get her wild;  Now go out and make some girl happy.

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