I wish people would stop asking me why I don't have a child......it's like the curse of the 30+ woman sans enfant .All of a sudden  people feel hella  comfortable telling you what you should be doing with your womb.So world let me tell you a story of a girl who's greatest dream was to be a Mommy and  a wife.......See I always knew that if nothing else in this world God created me to be a mother and a partner.I didn't know who I'd marry or how much kids I'd carry but I knew my purpose was to love both thoroughly.Now I'm 32 and that has yet to change......I've changed Alot from that teenaged dreamer but my heart still beats the very same.
  See...I told myself long ago that my child/children deserved everything I've never had.....family over baby-daddy/baby-momma,Home over a shack......And so I made a choice at 24......I didn't wanna be a statistic so I chose to be another type of statistic.Now ...... I owe it to myself and my unborn child to succeed.
  ............Fast forward 2016 and it irks me everytime I get told I should have a baby....what am I waiting for.....can u have kids....why don't you just do it now.....😒 Yes I know I'm getting old....Yes I know my clock is ticking. ....Yes I know I should probably have had two by this age....YES YES YES I've said it all to myself so please understand that I've chosen to wait.BY CHOICE. Not by accident or coincidence.So please don't hold me to your standards because I have never held you to mine.One day I'll be a mommy so until then let me live my life.

         Signed 32 year old....nobody's mommy....Yet!.