The aftermath of a break up is bad no doubt, and one question most people in this Situation ask themselves is "how do I get her back." When one is in this state, the thoughts and imaginations of all the nice and sweet times you savored together begin to propel you to take steps on how to get your love back.

However, the plan of actions don't work most times either because they were taken spontaneously after the break up, or because too much emotions was attached to it.

When thinking about "how to get her back," my advice for guys is to first of all make sure that they have emptied themselves of the break up pains and emotions attached to it, otherwise they won't be able to think right and achieve ''get back'' success. Take time out to enjoy your life, savor every moment of your time. Go to wonderful places like beaches to cool and relax yourself, as well as seeing and appreciating the beautiful works of nature. Forget about relationship for now, and give yourself a real good treat.

In the long run your horizon will change, and this will give you a better picture of your relationship, and how to go about getting your ex back, if that is what you want.

If your decision is to get her back, it is important you take things steady, don't rush, she might be dying to receive you in her arms also. Women are emotional, they attach all their being to their relationships, and so won't mind a re-union because it is like a part of her is in you.

Hey! guy, take things slowly. If your re-connection is meant to be, start by being friends with her again. Move closer to her, become more intimate, share with her some of the good times you had together. Give her time to be fond of you once again, watch and ask for her love again.

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