Florists are like hair dressers. The best out there share your vision of what you want, and help you achieve your Dream. The worst out there take your vision, toss it in the trash, and give you what they think should be your dream. Though their Arrangements may look appealing, they aren’t what you wanted, or expected. But unlike a bad hairdo, terrible floral arrangements at your wedding won’t just “grow out.” You’ll be stuck with the memories for the rest of your life, not to mention the bill.
Your only hope, then, of ensuring you get your dream floral arrangements at your budget is to be very specific. Of course, as with all of your vendors for your wedding, you need to be very choosey from the get-go. Contact friends and family who have had weddings in the recent past and build a list of prospective florists. Research and interview your short list to narrow your selection down. Even when you whittle your list down to only one florist—and even if this florist comes with lofty credentials—you still need to be very particular about what you want and need.
You may not be a botanist, or know the difference between a hydrangea or a hibiscus. But you know what color combinations you like, right? And you probably have an eye for the shape of the flowers you want. Be sure to find these color combinations and specific looks in magazines and in other photographs. Bring a whole collage of the flowers you like with you when you meet with your florist, along with a whole collage of those you do not want.
A great place to find these pictures is in the florist’s own portfolio. Of course, you can’t tear these photos out, but you sure can let the florist know which of her set arrangements do it for you.
Lastly, take advantage of the florist’s expertise, as well. You are paying her for more than just snipping flower stems. Fill her in on the details of your ceremony and reception, including the other decorations in the reception hall or church, the style and color of the bride’s and bridesmaids’ dresses, the color of the groom’s and groomsmen’s tuxes or suits, and any other detail that you have settled already. Based on this information and your tastes, your florist should be able to concoct some potential arrangements. Then remember to be very specific when selecting one of these arrangements for your final pick.
