If you hop in a car and start driving without any Idea where you’re going, will you get to where you need to go?
How could you?

Do you hop into bed with a hottie and get hyper with little to no idea why or where it’s taking you? It doesn’t matter if it’s with a newbie or the usual, the thriller or the habitual, the question still applies.

So what should you do?

Have a brain shutdown and enjoy the moment?

Take a guess and muddle on?

Or…

Go find the real turn-ons and set an intention or two – more caring, keeping eye contact, taking turns to pop first, taking advantage of some spontaneity, actively initiating something adventurous, a really daring date… The goals don’t have to be right, they just need to be what you want at the time.

That way you learn.

You can ask others and take the risk the answers might be relevant.

Or you can listen to your inner-self (learn how to do this in the e-book Follow my Knows).

To ask the right questions, it makes sense to know more about your basics.

Particularly the ones you take for granted.

Like sex.

There are lots of books and advice available about the how to be a super-gymnast or a thrill-junkie but how many let you in on the real secret?

Sex and passion are unique for each of us – there’s no standard issue formula or how-to manual for your personal fulfilment and satisfaction.

That’s for you to find.

That’s where Asking Kaz comes in.

Your sex profile gives you the most important tool in your ardour arsenal – your compass to your own personal pleasure centre.

There’s nothing more basic than sex.

Don’t leave it to chance.

Here’s to lovin’ and learnin’.