There’s a reason Relationship Memes go viral: no matter if you’re single, divorced, married, engaged or somewhere in between ‘em all, they’re incredibly relatable. Most of these one-to-two liners sum up the fight you last had with your partner, the date you went on that went sour fast or the painful conversation you had with your mom about why you’re, yes, still looking for the right person. As relationship memes have grown exponentially in popularity, Instagrammers have taken note, starting accounts that linger in the millions. So, why are they so trendy? Consider these memes the digital equivalent of a sarcastic and pun-filled greeting card, where you’re able to send the right message to your pal who is dealing with a breakup, annoyed with her husband or wondering when the marriage-and-baby tango will finally give them a whirl. If you’re looking for the right phrase to make you feel better or to inspire a hearty chuckle in your best pal, scroll through these for relationship memes so relatable… it hurts:

For the Singles Club….

As the age of marriage continues to creep toward the 30s, more and more folks are finding themselves submerged in the trenches of endless swiping and lacklustre happy hours. When good dates are few and far between, and when hope is hard to come by, consider these relationship memes that will make you (or your friend) feel less alone.

Flirt Alert

Keep your eye on the prize—and try not to stumble…

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This would work on me. (Via @no.fucksgiiven )

A post shared by The official Someecards. (@someecards) on Nov 14, 2018 at 12:54pm PST

 Bueller?

It’s a desert out there. Don’t let the tumbleweeds trip you up…

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I see a lot of handsome bois and cute ones but I have stopped looking/searching bcuz I got like 4 years before I really want a man, since I want a long relationship and some years of living together/engagement before settling down n also a couple years of marriage before I get kids lol, not biologically after 30 tho. So I got tiiime to play around and get my feelings hurt since I catch feelings quick af #single #memes #thoughts #on #relationships #idk #sad #meme #tho #my #heart #n #feelings #get #hurt #realquick #lol #sadmemes #relationshipmemes #singlememes

A post shared by Papa B (@sad_but_rad_memer_club) on Nov 8, 2018 at 12:28pm PST

Um, What?

Repeat after us: you’re not alone. Phone a friend ASAP…

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Who else can relate I NEED A GF HMU GIRLIES #single #singlememes #memes #ifunny #funny #meme #girlfriendgoals

A post shared by OJ (@thereal_ojgaming) on Nov 10, 2018 at 9:18pm PST

Netflix and…?

Go ahead and change your Facebook relationship status…

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Donated by @kelsiesimpkins ! #single#singlememes#lonely#lonelylife#netflix#netflixmemes

A post shared by Jadan (@memequeenof2019) on Nov 17, 2018 at 8:28pm PST

Pony Up

Take a deep breath, chug a little… and go!

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Yep…. #juststare #singlelife #single #singlememes Repost @comedyslam

A post shared by Single (@single_memes) on Nov 17, 2018 at 12:32am PST

Silver Lining-ish

Cat’s out of the bag. But maybe he should go back in.

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#deaddreamsmemes #deaddreams #meme #memes #cute #cats #cat #oldcatlady #catlady #single #singleaf #catsnores #cuteness #catsofinstagram #catsofig #singlememe #singlememes

A post shared by Dead Dreams Memes (@dead.dreams.memes) on Nov 15, 2018 at 8:56pm PST

Chandler Knows Best

Go on, let it out. Let it all out.

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Pretty accurate haha… How's your single life going? #singleandreadytomingle #desperateforlove #singlememes #singlelife # #Repost: Laughing Might Help via Facebook

A post shared by Single (@single_memes) on Oct 26, 2018 at 1:20am PDT

DM to Your BFF

Maybe there’s a group discount at the retirement home?

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