This morning i read the "Losing Hubby" at Star online [Dear Thelma entry] about a Wife finding her hubby's been cheating on her with a so called other woman who's a married woman cum school teacher with 2 kids in tow..


if you're interested, here's the link


There's sadness tugging in my heart after i finished reading, somehow poor wife is in self denial..
Her quote "I believe many more women have this problem but the sad thing is that other women are causing it."
Aiyoh.
She blames the other woman, but none at her hubby?

Ohh..wake up babe, your hubby plays a part too!
If his will to be faithful is so strong, he wont even get into the affair in the first place!
He should have considered the outcome, moreover the pain he's gonna cause.

However, i admire her courage to be patient and to forgive her hubby.
to standby her family, to spare her children from a broken family.
She abstain from tainting the perfect father figure whom her children are so much attached with.
Her hubby certainly DO NOT deserve her.


If the same thing happens to me [touch wood!!], i don't think i could be as noble as her.
I'll probably wring the other woman's neck & cincang [aka multilate] Lexdad's didi..
Although medical science is so advanced, he can forget about re-attaching his penis back.


Ok, it sounds violent.. i know.


Haiz.. who ever says being a good wife and mother is an easy task?