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How Can I Be Enough?

Ok I’m just going to start out by saying this is a rant. If you do not want to be yelled at via a blog post leave now. Actually on seconds thoughts don’t leave because your all gonna agree with what you hear.

Why is Society so unfair towards women today?

They say that everyone is beautiful the way they are.
Unless they aren’t tall and slim and have perfect skin and an amazing fashion sense and are overall flawless.

If they tell women that they don’t need men to be happy,

then why do half the newsagents magazines sport headlines that all BOAST about exclusive scoops on couples and drama in celebrity lives?

Why are we teased if we don’t have our first kiss by graduation? Even is we haven’t lost our virginity by our mid 20s?

Everyone is put down in today’s society.

If your smart your a nerd. If you struggle with schoolwork your “thick” or “stupid”

If you don’t where makeup your “ugly”
If you do your “fake”

If your like feminine things your “girly”
If you wear camo jackets and jeans your a wannabe

If you listen to rock Music and other “masculine” types of music your a “fake fan”
If you listen to pop music your “typical” and “a sheep”

It’s unfair. We have to be something. We have to either wear makeup or not. There’s no in-between so either way we get teased and called names.

People are judged straight away from what they look like and not what’s inside them.

I signed up to one of those pen pal things because I wanted to experience different cultures from other peoples points of view.

I put up a picture of myself and the first message I got on the website was “Hey I’m (name) from (City), Italy… Oh my god your so beautiful I wanna see you on a webcam”.

This was a 14 year old boy.

This just shows how today’s society has driven us young peoples first impression to always be of what’s on the outside.
I doubt he even read my about page where I put my hobbies and likes.
The first thing he saw was what I looked like and that was enough to get him to ask me to Skype him. (I declined of course because I was just looking for someone to exchange friendly emails with)

I believe that we can – together – take action against this judging.
We can throw it aside completely and just know people for what’s in their hearts and their uniqueness.

No one fits a category, therefore isn’t it just obvious that we should not be put in them?

Just remember that even the smallest action can fight even the biggest threats.

Sorry for the long post. I’d better get to sleep now because it’s 10:30, but I needed to get this off my chest.

Just remember what the message of this post is.

— Always Dreaming xx ❤




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