How often have you been in a Situation where you have to pick one between two of your favorite things? If you say not many, god really has blessed you! But otherwise, majority of the human race has been into this numerous times. With “things” it’s still easy, the challenge occurs when you have to choose between either ways of reacting to something you feel vulnerable about.
At different stages in your life, you will encounter situations where you really aren’t sure of the consequences. Should I marry this guy or that guy? Should I tell my parents I want to quit engineering/medical/CA etc.(Basically whatever you did not want to Pursue by your choice)? Should I tell my partner what annoys me? Should I leave my job to pursue my dreams? Should I follow my heart or mind? Should I this or that? Tough it is.
How many times have you “Should..ied”? Yes, It is annoying to find yourself in this zone. But the positive side, you have them. Choice is a privilege that not many enjoy ;). The key to this zone I feel is acceptance. Accept that there are things you may not have answers to. Instead of reacting right there and then, wait. Think through. Stop judging yourself; you may not have answers to them now, but surely you will have them sometime. And even if you don’t, leave it to time. It will help you decide on your priorities. How? Try it to know it ;)
