Hey

I don’t understand girls/women, they always say they want a nice, decent, loving and caring guy, but MOST guys know when it comes to dating the “Nice” guy usually end up being rejected and being told “You are too nice”, i am pretty sure that you have heard girls say that before. Don’t get me wrong, i do love girls, but i am also tired of seeing good and hardworking guys being dumped for “bad boys” that have no respect for females. Have you ever heard about a girl that has a boyfriend that cheats on her, has three kids by different girls, physically and verbally abuses her, never responds to her calls or messages and yet she never dumps him? and if she dumps him she always runs back to him, have you ever met a girl that’s always running back to her cheating boyfriend? think about it. I like to browse through dating websites, and what i noticed is there are many girls in their late twenties and early thirties with kids that are looking for husbands, this made me wonder, why are they seeking husbands now? are the “bad boys” not good enough anymore? then i realised the only reason they want a husband, is because they are looking for someone to raise their kids, they are basically looking for a “Nice” guy that they never wanted in the first place that has a good job and that can take care of them and their kids. Its strange, the guys that studied hard throughout college were called “Nerds” and “Geeks” and were always made fun of and could basically never get a date, but now that the “Nice guy” have a good job, now suddenly all these girls in their thirties that has probably slept with 100 guys want a “Nice guy”. I mean, what do these girls think about good guys, now that they have been whored out by so many guys, they are ready to settle down WTF!. What decent guy is gonna want to settle down with a girl that has been whored out and that has three kids from different guys and to top it, she gave natural birth to all of them (that is just too much looseness for me, if you know what i mean). I done some research on the internet about why girls like “bad boys” and i came across an interview which glamour magazine had with Rihanna, glamourmagazine asked Rihanna what does she look for in a man, and her response was: “Definitely the high-risk [men]. I don’t like cream puff, corny guys. Usually they are the nice guys, the ones that won’t hurt you. They’ll pull out the chair for you and the whole nine yards. Everything is perfect and boring… I like the risk, i like the edge. That’s the thrill for me”. According to glamour magazine the singer said she will never date a “Nice” guy because she can’t see the point in having a relationship that is “perfect and boring”.

When i read that, i think to myself maybe girls don’t want to be treated with respect and the only way for a guy to get a girlfriend is probably to disrespect her.

If you want to read the interview glamour magazine had with Rihanna, go to http://www.glamourmagazine.co.uk