By,
Shubham Srivastava.
Ever thought that why does hard work not always pay off ? Where almost everyone is giving one's best then why the desired results are so rare to get despite working hard ? The answer is as simple as the question itself. The thing is, though we work hard yet we don't know that whether where we are putting our hard work is worthy or worthless. If a person feels always Complacent, no matter in which situation he/she is then this question might not arise but for those people who always feel that something is missing or something more is needed to feel complete in oneself then yes, this question will arise quite often. Nevertheless the question arises, people continue to work hard but they never search for solutions and after someday the same question again arises. It is like a cyclic process which the larger proportion of humanity is not only facing rather suffering too.
The desired result and the hard work which one is putting must be interconnected. It's not always about giving one's best rather it's about either being complacent or being rebel. Did it sound absurd but it's not.There is also a third term which we can call "rich in destiny". Let's take it one by one.
Being complacent has always been the best thing but has always been the hardest to get too. When you feel complacent then you don't need anything to derive your happiness from itself because you have learnt to separate everything from your happiness. Yeah, there will be times when you won't feel blissful, you will be tested because of certain reasons but those times will come rarely in your life in comparison of those who don't feel complacent. There are exceptions when you want to feel affected like your family's well being and it must be like that. When you feel complacent then it doesn't matter that whether your hard work is paying off or not, you have made peace with everything. Acceptance of everything has become the utmost reality of your life and this is how it should be.
Resources and reasons are the things which matter when you want desired result. Being rebel is an option which comes to play when you want something to do and your family or peers pressure expect something else from you. When you strive hard for the same thing which you want then it will most probably Thrive. No matter that how much courage,determination, time, hard work and sleepless nights it takes but it will thrive eventually but if you have been made to desire something else which you don't actually desire because of your family or peers pressure then it will most probably not thrive irrespective of your courage, determination, time and hard work. So there are two ways here, either you choose to suffer because of your family's (parents')
decision which have been forced on you or being rebel and decide to do things your own way. The latter is more convenient, though it will be hurtful for some people who are your benefactors but it will be only for a brief amount of time but the earlier way is something which you will suffer your whole life.
The third one is an exceptional case where everything goes your way, your family, peers and result and this is the situation when it is called "that person is rich in destiny"
Though life always gives second chance but options are very limited here. So it will only come as a blessing when you don't keep repeating mistakes of putting your hard work in something which you actually don't want. On this note, start striving hard and it will thrive eventually. You have to learn the lessons and as i said do it your own way.
May god bless you!! Bbyeee.......
Ever thought that why does hard work not always pay off ? Where almost everyone is giving one's best then why the desired results are so rare to get despite working hard ? The answer is as simple as the question itself. The thing is, though we work hard yet we don't know that whether where we are putting our hard work is worthy or worthless. If a person feels always Complacent, no matter in which situation he/she is then this question might not arise but for those people who always feel that something is missing or something more is needed to feel complete in oneself then yes, this question will arise quite often. Nevertheless the question arises, people continue to work hard but they never search for solutions and after someday the same question again arises. It is like a cyclic process which the larger proportion of humanity is not only facing rather suffering too.
The desired result and the hard work which one is putting must be interconnected. It's not always about giving one's best rather it's about either being complacent or being rebel. Did it sound absurd but it's not.There is also a third term which we can call "rich in destiny". Let's take it one by one.
Being complacent has always been the best thing but has always been the hardest to get too. When you feel complacent then you don't need anything to derive your happiness from itself because you have learnt to separate everything from your happiness. Yeah, there will be times when you won't feel blissful, you will be tested because of certain reasons but those times will come rarely in your life in comparison of those who don't feel complacent. There are exceptions when you want to feel affected like your family's well being and it must be like that. When you feel complacent then it doesn't matter that whether your hard work is paying off or not, you have made peace with everything. Acceptance of everything has become the utmost reality of your life and this is how it should be.
Resources and reasons are the things which matter when you want desired result. Being rebel is an option which comes to play when you want something to do and your family or peers pressure expect something else from you. When you strive hard for the same thing which you want then it will most probably Thrive. No matter that how much courage,determination, time, hard work and sleepless nights it takes but it will thrive eventually but if you have been made to desire something else which you don't actually desire because of your family or peers pressure then it will most probably not thrive irrespective of your courage, determination, time and hard work. So there are two ways here, either you choose to suffer because of your family's (parents')
decision which have been forced on you or being rebel and decide to do things your own way. The latter is more convenient, though it will be hurtful for some people who are your benefactors but it will be only for a brief amount of time but the earlier way is something which you will suffer your whole life.
The third one is an exceptional case where everything goes your way, your family, peers and result and this is the situation when it is called "that person is rich in destiny"
Though life always gives second chance but options are very limited here. So it will only come as a blessing when you don't keep repeating mistakes of putting your hard work in something which you actually don't want. On this note, start striving hard and it will thrive eventually. You have to learn the lessons and as i said do it your own way.
May god bless you!! Bbyeee.......
