Hello,

Different people go through times where they get hurt, betrayed or lied to… these experiences can make it difficult for us to love and trust other people again.

When we give our heart to somebody and they smash it into a million pieces, we put up walls to protect ourselves from getting hurt. We don’t open our hearts easily, we get standoffish and keep people at a distance.

The problem with putting these walls up, is we also prevent opportunities for friendship and love to come back into our lives.

To get over these trust issues requires you to discover what specifically you are afraid of and then to re-frame it into new learnings that give you the opportunity and freedom to move onwards with your life.

So let me ask you…

What exactly is preventing you from creating new relationships? What are you protecting yourself from? What are you personally afraid of?

Now we have discovered what the problem is, let’s re-frame it into something more positive…

1. Think of the problem you just discovered…

2. Imagine yourself at the beginning of the Situation and imagine going through the situation again, but this time, notice some things you could have done differently… maybe you could have exercised more patience, understanding, self assurance, security, forgiveness, love or self comfort… and complete the scenario to the end.

3. Now, rewind the scenario back to the beginning… Imagine going through the scenario again, but this time, imagine doing things the right way, with positive feelings, positive attitudes, positive behaviours and with all the positive things you have learnt, and imagine everything turning out perfectly in the all ways you would like it to.

This technique will give you a new perspective on the situation, allowing you to feel better about future relationships through the discovery of finding solutions to relationships difficulties. Your mind should feel more lighter than before.

You should accept what has happened and accept the situation fully and completely, this will help you to acknowledge everything and deal with everything without compromising your self esteem.

Then you can proceed to meet somebody better with a brighter attitude and outlook on relationships, because you have re-framed the past situation to make it represent something more beneficial for yourself.

I wish you all the best in your relationship success,

Nicholas

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