It’s natural, that when parents are trying to help their child change risky behaviors (like substance use or behavior problems), they sometimes become what we call “misaligned,” or out of synch with each other.But the more agreement you can reach with your Partner about expectations, the less stressed you will each feel, the happier you will be, and the more likely you both are to be able to be consistent as well as positive with your child. There are many ways to start the process of becoming more of a team with your partner. To get the ball rolling here is a list of 5 options that we know parents have tried and found helpful.