Valentine day is the first festival that comes in a calendar year for any loving Couple. It comes every year on 14 February and is celebrated by exchanging gifts between the couples.

Couples try to meet each other at any cost to spend the day and create memories. It is found that a couple loves each other and vows to live and die together when they are in courtship. But the love seems to fade away when the couple gets married. And, the hope for its revival are least when they are blessed with kids.

The place of love is taken by complaints, critics and fights after the marriage. This might be the reason that most of the jokes are made on married couples.

7 Tips to the Valentine Couple to solve Complications after Marriage:

1.Give Respect to each other’s Relatives

Its normal that husband and Wife criticize each other’s relatives when fight with each other. Words like “your mother”, “your sister” etc. are used during arguments. Avoid this habit of yours. Try to convince each others that you would give respect to each other’s parents and relatives if get the same.

If a wife has any problem with her in laws, it’s husband responsibility to talk with them instead of just ignoring it or asking wife to jeep quiet.

If efforts are not taken to solve the issues in the beginning, the chances are that the couple would lose the faith in discussing and solving problems.

2.Appreciate Each Others Efforts

Mostly husband and wife ignore the love, care and the efforts made by each other considering it to be their duty. This is Really very wrong. Don’t ignore the efforts just because he or she is yours.
In a relationship both the partners should have equal roles and share of responsibilities.

Never miss a chance to appreciate your partner even in front of others too. This will make you to find more good things in your partner. Always remember that as a wife you should also praise your husband rather than expecting from him always. Never blame your partner if have any problem.

3.Give Breathing Space to Each Other

Partners often complain about not giving space to each other. A husband feels his wife talks on phone all the time and tells the secrets to them. A wide feels her husband is giving more time to his friends outside.

It is important to give breathing space to each others. Don’t compel your partner to share with you his or her passwords or PIN of credit cards, email id etc.

Allow each other to ho out and spend some quality time with their friends when they want. But giving time to their home should be the first priorities. Many times, one if the two or tuners always go out with friends and does not give time to the family. This is also not good and disturbs the peace of the family. Learn to give space but never ignore the partner.

4.Behave yourself in front of Kids

Husband wife often fight in front of their kids without giving a thought that they might imitate them. If you want your kids to learn something good, first present yourself doing that.

If you teach your kids not to fight and use abusive language but yourself do that, they will do that for sure.
So please make a rule that you will never fight in front of your kids, no matter how angry you are. If you are not at par with your partner on any topic, please talk with each other behind your kids. It is observed that kids are more aggressive and of crime behavior if their parents fight in their presence.

5.Share Your Responsibilities

It is found that a husband never helps a wife in the kitchen saying it’s her duty. She spends all her time their alone and often feels tired. Husband wife stops appreciating efforts and do not try to share the responsibilities with each other.

Friendship, love and equality is very important in any relationship. Give others rest by taking his or her share of responsibilities. Or, you can both do a thing together, this will complete it more faster and you would get more time to spend with each other.

6.Give Space to Each Other
Problems come when you stop giving time to each other as you used to give before marriage. Consider each other your the same valentines as earlier. Still love and give some time to each other.
Give surprises and gift as you would do before your marriage. Couples enjoy their Valentine day with pump and show but when they get n arrived, they stop showing love.

Avoid making your living life monotonous and keep on the fire of love burning in your heart.

7.Manage your Money Matters together
Discuss your expenses, savings and monetary planning by sitting together.
Involve your wife in your financial discussions even if she is not working.

If both are working then also one has complaint that the other partner spends more. You can open a joint account and put your savings their for future. Also, make a home budget for monthly expenses and try to follow it to avoid any extra expenses. A singly penny saved will reward you in your future.

Always remember married life will be smooth only when both the partners and open to each other and also respect from heart. Real valentine day meaning is the way you treat each others under pressure and adversity in your life. Live your life with each other but with dignity, love and equal share of responsibilities.