Parenting can not be taught; it is something that can be Learned by experiencing it. Your parents may give you pointers but that's about it and trust me I have learnt it the hard way.
One of the most important message that I learned was; there is a lifetime to do things. As soon as A little while after brat was born (I took time to being a parent) there was this feeling to buy everything possible for him. I wanted books, toys etc, even if they were not appropriate for his age and he played with utensils/ garbage and what not. It was much later that he used the stuff that was bought for him and unfortunately there were some toys which he could not use the way he was supposed to and they got spoiled.
That is why I decided to hold on to my horses and bought things for him very judiciously and realised he was having more fun with his things as well..
A Lesson well learnt....Just don't go berserk with buying things for kids as soon as they are born; take a breather and begin....
That is why I decided to hold on to my horses and bought things for him very judiciously and realised he was having more fun with his things as well..
A Lesson well learnt....Just don't go berserk with buying things for kids as soon as they are born; take a breather and begin....
