Today I am not going to write about any chapter of some story but some facts of our real life! You know what friends, actually we all have a story to tell…a story which is unique to all of us…but the fact is that we all have some common Phase in that story…Can you guess what??

A wonderful phase of happiness and smile when we cherish and a phase of Darkness where we actually find ourselves lost!!

We all think at some point of time during the phase of our darkness that why me??

But we never ask during the phase of our happiness that why me??

The fact is that we all think about our hardships, darkness of our life in such a large way that we forgot that somebody else somewhere might be even in more pain, darkness than us. They might be fighting a worst battle than us.

I know a friend of mine who lost his mother. Even I know a friend who has lost his father and mother both. Loss of parents can’t be measured anyhow. Both are in tremendous pain and their loss can’t be filled with anything but the question is who is struggling more?? 

We are all blessed that we are educated and we have a job…But on the other side somebody is even struggling for it…Recently I attended a Marriage Ceremony of my sister…Everyone was well dressed...everybody was laughing and enjoying a lot…just like a marriage ceremony house should look like…But among the middle of those I saw a little boy serving cold drinks to the guests. He was going to each and every one with a tray…in his hand and asking them to take one if they needed it…He got gentle “no” from somebody whereas a very rough and misbehaving “no” from somebody else. But he carried on with a gentle smile on his face though he neither received a single “smile” or “Thank you” because he knew that was his job which he had to do.

I am not giving the examples of poor people, boy working in a tea stall etc. Because you already know it…nothing to say more or give you lecture about that… I usually share those things in my blog which I practically experienced or I thought I would share….

Many among us suffer from tremendous depression or feel down due to break-ups in relationships or familiar problems or any other issues. But think twice…always think that somebody elsewhere is in more dreadful situation which you can ever imagine of…if they can manage why not you? You are nothing less than them. Besides, you are unique in your own way. Hold that uniqueness! At least ask yourself once do you want to die just like a normal person or live it in such a way that others get inspiration from it!!Live your dreams…make that dream true instead of wasting it in depression or thinking about it all the time…a dream worth remembering. Because at the end, what matters is your own self-satisfaction not the satisfaction of others. Try to love yourself!! Without loving yourself you can’t love others!