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For those who are religious, you would feel a certain kind of loss. It's permanent. I am not going to tell you if sex is actually sweet and worth all the hype. Coz if I do, then you will accuse me of not being a virgin. And if I don't, well, you never know.
Truth is, let no one pressure you into having sex...
...Most people have sex to please their circle of friends yet they think it's their choice. Whereas it's not a choice of WILL but a choice TO BELONG.
To be able to say "Yes I have" or "I know what it's like" or "I prefer 69 or missionary"
Wrong priority!
Some people are currently in a relationship they don't like with people they don't like, doing things they don't like and having sex they don't like just to prove a point to people they don't like.
How messed up is that.
Then again, some people help the devil do his job, they tempt themselves. Sometimes people want to test your courage when it comes to the subject of sex.
You hear statements like:
- "So you can't visit me, are you a baby?"
- "Come over jare, it's just a harmless visit"
- "Sit on the bed, why are you so scared? "
- "Spend the night, nothing will happen, we are both mature"
My sister, my brother, you re a baby! You re scared! Something will happen! No one is ever mature when it comes to sex, your Body must react! It's biology! You don't have anything to prove to anyone!
When you start having sex, e no dey belleful oh!
Don't tempt the devil!
St. Phillip says "When it comes to the subject of CHASTITY, cowards are heroes"
Igbo people would say "Nkwụcha abụrọ ụjọ" which translates to "Vigilance is not cowardice."
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Sadly, a lot people have desecrated their bodies so badly even sex itself is angry with them. How can someone's daughter be having sex at the 3rd floor and she's moaning so loud you could hear it from the 2nd floor?
I couldn't sleep that night, for over 20 mins!
Again, how do you have sex with someone who you know you can never marry? This is beyond me! Worse is, some human beings use hard Drugs to energize themselves to pound someone's daughter and future wife.
And the someone's daughter and future wife will be shouting "Harder! Harder!"
The biological consequences start to set in when your body's biology becomes so dependent on those drugs, it can't function without them.
Let me not just talk too much...
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At the end of the day, after ruining the body and with excess sex - pressured sex from drugs, alcohol, etc...
You can't think straight, because while the person in front of you is talking, your mind is mentally undressing the person and your eyes scanning every inch of...
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You get married, your spouse gets to suffer it! You accuse the innocent man or woman of being a 2-mins person, whereas it is you who is sexually insatiable!
Succubus! Incubus!
Probably 10 years into the marriage, there's no kid, you're saying "God's time is the best".
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Stop visiting a 'brother' that is not your brother... And you think it's only phone you will charge there.
If you must have sex, do it with someone that have sense.
In fact, don't have sex at all! You were not designed a sex robot!
Wait, get married and do it till you tire!
Ask your God to be with you, he will.
The patience is difficult, but in the end, it will be worth it.
You will have a happy marriage, an inexplicably lovely spouse and a cute baby that looks like this. 👇 😘
Daalụ nụ (Thank you)
© MacAnthony Okeke
