People Talk. You can’t stop them. You can try and ignore and turn a Deaf Ear, but at times it gets so hard that your facade starts crumbling. Don’t worry, I got you

I feel sorry for the people who face these feelings of hate and wrong Gossip about themselves, of random people judging their character. This leads them to then try to prove themselves to numerous people. Try to prove themselves to themselves. Trying to understand what went wrong and who caused the situation to worsen when in reality, the situation was just nothing. A small mistake on their end maybe led to small incidents being highlighted and made into matters they were not….2+2 became 200 and long story short they feel their self-respect getting targetted and judged by people who they don’t even know or care to know about. Too much of thinking involved. We don’t need that kind of negativity in life. A simple solution to it all is to Keep your circle small. Trust a few.

There are so many people who thrive to feed off gossip and so many who will spread the wrong details about your life. And these people are the ones who- surprise surprise- you trusted with all your heart and soul.  They will gossip and hate and try to feed their ego just because at one point you stopped caring about them and the time investment and space they took up in your life,  so they try anything and everything to get your attention. But don’t waver kid. You’ve come this far. Don’t look back because that split second of losing your focus from other important things in life will make all the difference. If you get rattled now after such a long journey of ignoring them and getting on with your life, you will come back to square one.

I think that a persons time, goals and ambitions are very important. Gossip mongers will gossip. You just need to turn a deaf ear. Because the time they invested in gossiping about you, you instead invested in bettering yourself and learning about life’s lessons. The hate that they accumulate will be the peace that you radiate. It won’t be easy, ignoring such people, especially if you face them daily. But be mindful of the fact that you are beautiful and you are growing and are not stagnant like them. Negativity is poisonous. Don’t let them disrupt your peace. Who are they to judge? Your true friends never will. Does their opinion matter? NO. Do they matter? NO. People will talk. They will question you on the gossip they heard. You need to just smile and say “Oh yea? I pity their mental state.”  Because that’s what is wrong with them. They are so prone to judge, gossip and spread the wrong news that their mental state is completely degraded. If you stick with them, it’s as good as a single rotten apple spoiling the whole bunch of fruit. If people hate you for being your true self and judge you for being you who are, trust me – They need help. You need to be your own beautiful and blossom and nourish yourself with good thoughts. Let this not affect your health and well being. I know it’s easy to talk. But trust me, I would know. You need to get up each day with intent and purpose and believe that you will do great things every day. Haters gonna hate anyway, you might as well let them hate you for being so good :p

So kids, in short- keep your friend circle small. Don’t waste your time gossiping about people, instead use it to better yourself. The “haters” will soon realize its no good speaking about you because guess what- You won’t care anymore. Situations pass. People change. People who you never expected will betray your trust and backstab you and gossip about you. But that’s life and you need to accept the fact that there will be such narcissist people everywhere. You need to be the best version of yourself and distance yourself from the gossip mongers. If they can gossip about people they don’t know, you could be the next on their list. So grow and be beautiful and radiate love and energy that will convince people of the beautiful soul that you are and never again you’ll have to worry about anyone judging you!

I hope his helped out as much as it helped me realize where I was going wrong. No more of that “trusting too easily”. Peace out!

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