For the most part, we have a lot more control over our lives than we think. Have you ever heard someone say : "why me", "drama follows me", or, "I'm so unlucky"? Nuh uh Susan.. Drama does not follow you, you attract that because you kinda like it; and no, you are not Unlucky, you just chose to look at the flaws in your life.

There are so many things in life we have no control over, but why not take control of the things we can control. Rather than wondering why the universe gave you such a hard day, or life; we should try to seek out the positives of the situation. Sometimes your biggest disadvantage is really your greatest advantage. Try finding an advantage to your situation. When my life feels like nothing is going right, I choose to view this as a test from the universe, god, whoever... I want to prove to a higher power and to myself, that I can handle what seems like my toughest days, because I think that if I can handle that, then I am ready to embrace bigger and more exciting opportunities, which come with their own set of stress and worries... but I'll be ready. Remember that your vibe attracts your tribe next time you wonder why drama just "follows" you. We can chose to draw our attention to things, or chose to turn away and go on living our best lives. We can choose to view a storm as a bad day, or as a fun cozy night in.

Next time you think "why me", think.... "try me".