IF i asked you, how do u see your future? What will your answer be?
Do u know that your answer actually reflects your personality so take a very deep breath before you answer because what u see is what u plan and what can probably be , who knows?
So as they say, to make understand something clearly u must take its extremes left& right , good&evil , Real Madrid& Barcelona so that what I will do
Lets take an example of an Ordinary man in our oriental society , draw to us your life path
Mmmm: education-college-military service- job-2jobs-3jobs- wife- infinity of jobs to afford this family- kids to raise them to follow this particular life path
That what happens to u when u graduate and finish your army duty and getting a job, what is the missing part in the puzzle? The girl u adiot , we are programmed to think like this
That what actually happen to 99% of the guys anyway and do u see where the problem is everybody?
It is very traditional and very ordinary. This life path wont bring a brilliant scientist or a sport star or even an artist
Hobbies, interests or even postgraduates studies , these thing become dreams and actually lots of older men regret wasting their youth life without fulfilling their dreams because they choose to marry younger and they say that “This kind of life will suck all your effort and cancel your creativity”
This kind of life will suck all your effort and cancel your creativity
Even though there is very successful men in career and in family and enjoying their traditional life but as I said it is traditional not perfect, for this man there will be something missing or something is better than the other coz I really think that balancing career success and family is a very hard equation to solve anyway
The other guy the Extraordinary one , draw to us your life path
Mmmm: i want to be someone unique , to think differently , to think out of the box , to break all the rules to fly higher
What are the key words in your life : ambition- uniqueness
I don’t want to live like an ordinary , to die and no one remember me only but my beloving ones
I don’t want to be here in this world and move out without leaving a mark in this world or doing something good to the humanity
How do u think: what the difference between me and MESSI between me and BOLT between me and DE NIRO between me and BETHOVEN between me and OBAMA , all of these ppl where so like me but they thought they will be different they wanted to write history and that is my turn
Someone realistic can talk about talents and special gifts from God to these ppl or even someone religious can take about fates
All I can say to u is try to find what do u do the best and what u want to be excellent it and believe in this “ no limitations for human well “ even God tell us always to believe in ourselves and make effort in the things we do in our lives
In the end all I can say is “ all the rules can be broken “ u can be type 2 and remain the ordinary path and u can be ordinary but u can have the ambition to be always on top
Talking about marriage as something which blocks ambition is not about that marriage is a bad thing to do but it is statistically the major cause and I will believe in “ life is too short to let your dreams go “
Uniqueness acquire sacrifices , effort and lots of smartness so as they say “ smart ppl live longer “
The ugly truth for today will be “ Do u have what it takes to be your dream figure ? “
Next time : How to break up with your girl ?
