So you probably already have an idea of what you want to do when you both are in bed. But did you Realize that just as it’s really important what you’re doing in bed, it’s also very important to keep in mind those things that you should definitely not try when you’re together and planning to get intimate.

First Up, Go Easy On The Makeup

Ladies, this is especially for you. If you’re thinking this will be a great turn on for the guy to see you all decked up, there’s something you’re forgetting! A lot of the Makeup can actually end up getting smudged, and give you a comical look instead. And not to mention the fact that if your partner is planning to lick you up, your makeup won’t really do much good in the taste department.

Talk Instead Of Using Sign Language

You both barely know each other, or perhaps you’ve had a great chat up till now, but if this is your initial stages of having sex with each other, lay off the sign language and speak up about what you want instead. This will make it easier for both of you to communicate and say exactly what you want to get pleasure.

Don’t Experiment With Food Or Other Items Just Yet

Sounds so exciting, using oil, chocolate sauce, whipped cream and whatnot when you’re doing things in bed, right? But did you realize that this can end up putting both of you in a mess that sticks to your bodies and may not really do much to add to the pleasure? Also, a lot of these can end up ruining your sheets permanently and damaging them with stains that won’t go away.

Don’t Imitate Porn Right Away

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Unless you’re ready to get disappointed and disillusioned that is. What you see in porn is not real most of the time, and understand that most of it is just pure acting. Trying to emulate exactly what they do, the way they speak and moan, or even the stunts they pull or how long they last can end up ruining the real experience for you both.

Don’t Give Funny Names To Those Parts

This goes for both guys and girls. It may be cute later on when you both are comfortable with your own as well as each other’s bodies, but for now, avoid using names, especially the funny ones, to talk about the sexual body parts. If your partner feels awkward or embarrassed, that’s the last of your sexual escapade for the moment.

Also, don’t jump into the action right away, but spend time making each other comfortable and gradually build up the tension.

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