I got asked if I believe in Love and I still don’t know the answer. I’m not a romantic but I’m not completely pessimistic on the topic. To be honest I don’t have many positive healthy relationships to reference, if anything I’m stuck with some sort of generational curse. The women in my family are unbelievably loyal, caring, and hardworking but always seem to get the short end of the stick. I look at these women including my mom and almost feel their heartbreak ten fold because I know the pain a failed 1 year relationship gave me, so just imagine the hurt after a whole divorce from a 10 year marriage. Still I’m no stranger to divorce and cheating, especially cheating since I’ve been subject too it first hand. Ya, it made me bitter for awhile and it’s something I’m just beginning to really get over but, that’s not why I find it difficult to answer the question that originally inspired this post. I’m unsure if I believe in it because I truly feel like “love” has been watered down over the years and is now just a less potent version. People are rarely willing to take the time to know someone and love them for their everything. Or to grow together and just be good to each other. I’m unsure, but I’ll be patient and optimistic till love in every sense of the word finds me. Feel free to leave comment with your opinions!