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Remembering Psychic Medium Doris Stokes (1920-1987)

A Tribute to Doris Stokes was published in 1988.

 
Doris Stokes wrote seven memoirs, six with Linda Dearsley: Voices In My Ear (1980), More Voices In My Ear (1981), Innocent Voices In My Ear (1983), Whispering Voices (1985), Voices of Love (1986) and Joyful Voices (1987); and A Host of Voices (1984) with Pam and Mike Kiddey.  Dearsley also wrote Voices Everywhere (2019) and compiled A Tribute to Doris Stokes (1988).  Doris began achieving worldwide renown upon being invited to be a guest on a popular TV talkshow in Australia.  Linda Dearsley remembered in Voices Everywhere:


This was a very big deal for Doris. At this point, at nearly 60 years of age, as well as being a wife to John and mum to their adopted son Terry, her life had consisted mainly of working as a nurse in a mental hospital and demonstrating mediumship in the local spiritualist churches in her spare time, for around ten bob (50p) a session.  The fee was little more than her bus fare home.


Doris had unwittingly stumbled into the spotlight on Australia's most popular and talked-about TV show.

Once the cameras started rolling, as well as chatting with the charming Don [host Don Lane] himself ("Handsome boy. Lovely smile."), Doris was encouraged to talk to the live studio audience and show them what she did.  Such a demonstration wouldn't have been permitted on UK TV back then, I believe, but in Australia the same rules didn't seem to apply.


The effect was electrifying.


The next night, an episode of "Starsky & Hutch" (one of the top TV shows of the era), was postponed so that Doris could come back and do another lengthy live demonstration in front of a new TV audience.


When even this second appearance couldn't satisfy demand, Mike Edgely, a top Australian tour producer, approached Kerry Packer to suggest Doris go on a six-week tour around some of the country's biggest theatres.


Yet she'd only been doing what she'd always done for the last 30 years to almost complete indifference in England.


A trickle of journalists, intrigued by reports from friends in Australia of the Doris effect, began to wander over to Fulham to find out who she was . . .


Then one day, Garth Pearce, show business editor of the Daily Express, happened upon the reports from abroad and was curious to meet Britain's unlikely and unknown overnight sensation.
 
During the meeting, the journalist learned about the autobiography co-written by Linda and he went on to introduce Doris to his literary agent.  A few weeks later, the book Voices in My Ear (1980) had found an agent and a publisher.  The book became a bestseller and in later years a series of popular and beloved sequel books followed.
 
Doris always said that, every night before she went to bed, she spoke to her spirit guide Ramanov for advice; so, naturally, the subject of her stage appearances came up.

Apparently, his instructions on this matter never changed: "He always tells me to trust," said Doris.  He says 'just trust, child. We've never let you down before and we'll never let you down now.'"
 
The development of mediumship for Doris is described in Voices In My Ear.
 
The more practise I had, the more experienced I became at distinguishing the voices.  At first it seemed to me like one Voice speaking inside my head, but after a while I realized it was outside me, and then that it wasn't one voice but different voices.  Soon I was able to tell if they were male or female, old or young.


One night I flopped as usual into our newest, most comfortable chair, a high backed, winged style, in black leather.  I was too tired even to fetch my book from the table.  I leaned back and closed my eyes, enjoying the silence.  Then I heard a voice.  "I will teach you," he said, "sit here, every night when the house is quiet and I will teach you."

I didn't know it then, but I'd found my guide.  It wasn't until years later that I learned his name — Ramonov is the nearest I can come to the pronunciation.  I knew nothing about him but he was always there to help me.  Every night I sat in the leather chair that became known as Ramonov's chair and Ramonov would talk to me.  Usually he told me a little story, almost a parable and I would think about the meaning as I scrubbed dirty floors the next day.  Ramonov rarely interrupted when I spoke at meetings, but if I got in a mess or several voices tried to communicate at once and I was confused, he'd break in and help.
 
As recounted in Voices In My Ear, after giving birth to a baby boy and her husband called for military service during World War II, Doris was alone with her child when she was devastated to have a voice hearing episode where she was informed: "He's done his time on earth.  He's got to come back to spirit."  The news was confirmed by a prophetic hospital dream and then a visitation by her father who'd passed over during her childhood.  He told her: ". . . John Michael should be with us.  He has to come back.  At quarter to three next Friday I'll come for him and you must hand him over to me.  Don't worry.  I'll take good care of him."  At the appointed time her father appeared in the hospital and carried out the inevitable task.
 
After adopting little Terrence John, Doris and her husband began going to the Spiritualist church.  Doris observed: "Strange, how at the time I didn't notice the pattern, I failed to see how all paths led me to spiritualism, no matter what course I took."  The couple attended seances and other demonstrations, including a trance seance of materialization medium Helen Duncan.  (article)
 
In her fourth book, she wrote:
 
I can't bring someone from the spirit world into contact with the earth plane unless there is some sort of bridge.  There has to be a bond of affection which links them with someone here.
 
Stokes acknowledged, ". . . only rarely do I see spirits and they're almost always children . . . they are so real to me that I can mistake them for the flesh and blood youngsters who live here on the earth plane."

She also recalled that she had once been watching television when she learned more about her guide.

There was a trailer for a programme called Tibet, the Roof of the World when a voice said to me, "That's where I came from.  That's where I lived on the earth plane."  It turned out that Ramonov had been a priest and a very wise one at that.

The following paragraph is an example of one of the eyewitness testimonials about the clairaudient mediumship of Doris Stokes from Voices Everywhere.

"She was brilliant at phone-ins," recalled broadcaster Ed Doolan of BBC WM in Birmingham at the time.  "One hundred percent straight up and she came on my show many times.  But that first time, in between all the stuff she was getting for callers, she kept telling me about my father.  'He's got the same name as you,' she said.  Which was true.  And, 'He's talking about a birthday.  Why's this birthday important?' 'Well he died on my birthday,' I said.  I was amazed."

Previous blog articles report about 'The Michael Pattern' and 'The Bell Pattern' that noticeably interlink famous cases of documented paranormal phenomena, including Nostradamus, John Dee, the Fox Sisters associated with the Spiritualism Movement, Madame Blavatsky, Edgar Cayce, Guy and Edna Ballard, Direct Voice medium Leslie Flint, channelers such as JZ Knight and Mark Probert, and the 'Messages from Michael' Ouija Board communication case.  Linda mentions in the 2019 book that Doris had been a "regular 'resident medium'" at the Spiritualist Association of Great Britain at the time located in Belgrave Square.  Doris's son who died during infancy was named John Michael.  Linda's husband is named Michael and notice how Mike Edgeley was the Australian tour promoter who first suggested the six-week tour that made Doris a 'celebrity.'
 
Consistent readers of this blog may grasp the correlations with Doris having friends with the last name 'Webb' and Doris owning a little pet dog she named 'Boots.'  Linda recalled about the success of their first book together: "Simply getting the book published seemed a monumental achievement."  When the book made the UK bestseller list, Linda responded: "I could hardly believe my eyes.  It was so exciting."

When Laurie O' Leary became Doris's manager, the famous psychic medium made a telephone call to her friend and memoir coauthor Linda Dearsley to "Come and meet Laurie" as recounted in Linda's book Voices Everywhere (2019).  This article presents some excerpts from the book, including a mention of the ongoing predicament concerning widespread Wikipedia disinformation about metaphysical and paranormal topics.

 


This photo of Doris and her manager Laurie O'Leary is from A Tribute to Doris Stokes (1988) by Linda Dearsley.  Before learning about Doris, he had been a skeptic about psychic phenomena. (Steve Hickey photograph).

 

Where had he come from all of a sudden?

Laurie's background was show business — particularly the music business.

It turned out that Laurie was a genuine East Ender who'd grown up around the corner from the notorious Kray home in Vallance Road, Bernal Green.  [The Kray twins had been convicted to life imprisonment for murder in 1969.]  His mum knew their mum and, as children, the boys played together; they ran in and out of each other's houses and attended the same school.

Laurie remained on friendly terms with the family but stayed out of Ronnie and Reggie's terrifying gang.

As so often with Doris' affairs, it was all down to chance it seemed.  Some months earlier, a friend of Laurie's wife, Iris, had bought two tickets to a demonstration Doris was giving in Walthamstow.  Iris had agreed to accompany her friend but, at the last moment, got an attack of nerves.

"I thought she was a fortune teller," Iris explained anxiously to Laurie that evening, "but apparently she talks to the dead, and I don't want to talk to the dead.  I really don't want to go.  Would you take Maureen instead, Laurie?  She'll be so upset if I let her down."

Laurie said later that he'd never heard of this Doris Stokes, but he was devoted to Iris, and curious to see what the show was all about, so he agreed to keep Maureen company.

"When I arrived at Walthamstow, there were so many people queuing outside I thought I must be in the wrong place," he said, "but I checked, and this was the Doris Stokes event.  I was impressed.  I'd never heard of her, but she seemed to attract a big crowd."

"Doris had such presence; she held my attention all evening," he said.

All those people picked out from the audience to receive supposed messages from departed loved ones — some moving, some funny.  It didn't seem possible.

"Those people who get the messages — they're obviously all plants," he said to Maureen on the way home.  "Got to be.  I mean if what she's doing was true, it would be marvellous.  But, if not, then she's a very wicked woman and I'd like to expose her."

"But suppose she's genuine?" asked Maureen.

Laurie shrugged, thinking it highly unlikely.  "Well if she's genuine, I'd like to manage her."

. . . when they got back, she lent him a copy of one of Doris' books.
"I read it and I was even more intrigued.  I thought, surely she can't write a book like this if it's all lies?"

As it happened, the Krays' beloved mother had passed away a year or so before.  They might have been brutal gangsters but those tough, ruthless twins genuinely worshipped their mum and Laurie thought Doris's book might comfort Ronnie, so he posted him a copy in Broadmoor.

"Ronnie not only read it, he liked it so much he wrote back and asked if he could meet this Doris Stokes," said Laurie.

To everyone's surprise, Doris agreed.

"Doris wasn't put off by Ronnie's past," said Laurie.  "She always said it's what people make of their lives now that counts, and if a man like Ronnie was becoming interested in spiritual things, that was a good sign."

By all accounts, they had an enjoyable afternoon and Doris reckoned she picked up Ronnie's mum and passed on some messages from mother to son.

After watching her closely through several events, Laurie realised it would have been impossible for Doris to memorise all the correct facts and names she mentioned night after night — names and facts that changed every night too.

In the end, he was so impressed, he offered to be Doris' manager.

At the time, I don't think it properly occurred to me how nerve-wracking it must have been to contemplate [Doris] walking out onto a stage and entertaining an audience alone, for over two hours, without even a script to fall back on.


. . . despite the fame and the fuss — Doris remained unchanged, or so she appeared to me.  Perhaps it was because success came so late in life or maybe it was her strong sense of self and deeply engrained philosophy.  Maybe it was Ramanov's stern presence.  Whatever the reason, Doris was still noticeably the same woman I'd met all those years before, walking through the washing lines.

These days Wikipedia records that she was a controversial figure, described by some as: "the Gracie Fields of the psychic world" and others as "A ruthless, money-making con artist."

. . . after Doris passed away, Laurie was offered a large sum by the press to expose her as a fake.

"But I couldn't do it even if I wanted the money," said Laurie.  "Because there was nothing to expose."

One source that this blogger has often found to offer disinformation about metaphysical subjects is Wikipedia as it seems to attract as editors/contributors people whom I refer to as 'denialists.'  A skeptical person has an open mind while a denialist is focused on denying the reality of something.  Linda Dearsley commented about the mentality shown by people propagating wrong allegations about Doris:

The trouble was, critics and the press started from the point of view that what Doris claimed to be doing was obviously impossible.  Since no one could do the impossible, Doris' apparently impressive results could only be achieved by trickery."

 
Other well-known mediums who've written autobiographies during recent decades include Rosemary Altea, John Edward, Colin Fry and James Van Praagh.


Video: "Doris Stokes - The Barbican 1986 (1/10)"
Three times during the Barbican video Stokes commented that seeing a small light indicated an individual hadn't long "been over" (on the other side).  At one point, she indicated that a steady light indicated an individual had been over for some years.


Here's a link to a list of other blog articles about mediums and psychics
 

 


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