I thought you might enjoy this exchange between an actor and me:

ACTRESS: Les, I have a general meeting at Universal tomorrow.  I should just treat it like a first date right? Talk about what I’ve done and my training, and how I see myself? 

LESLY: Would you talk about what you’ve done and your training and how you see yourself on a first date?  Or would you just be your charming, entertaining, adorable self???? 

ACTRESS: This may be why I’m single.