Do you sometimes find yourself reminiscing on the first few years of your relationship when you and your partner used to be adventurous and have an amazing time in bed every single time?
Just because you’ve been Married for years doesn’t mean you have to give up on those good times. All you need to do is learn how to spice up your Married Sex life.
Keep reading for five sizzling tips and tricks!
1. Try New Positions
Did you know that there are 64 different positions in the Kamasutra?
When it comes to sex positions, it’s easy to fall into a routine, especially when both of you are constantly busy. You know what works and even if it has become a bit boring, you keep doing it.
But with so many different positions to try from, why not mix things up a bit?
Pick one or two that seem interesting, ask your partner to do the same, and have fun!
2. Talk About Your Fantasies
Everyone has fantasies, but not everyone feels comfortable talking about them.
They are, indeed, a very personal part of yourself but there’s a reason why you married the person you married, and that’s because you trust them. So, why not open up about the things that get you excited in (or outside) the bedroom?
You might just find out that you’ve both been daydreaming about the same sexual fantasies and that you can finally experience them in real life.
Happy days!
3. Go on Dates
Sex and romance go hand in hand, and going on dates like you used to do at the beginning of your relationship can do wonders for your sex life.
Whether you dress up to have dinner at a fancy restaurant, go for a picnic in the park and end up making out like two teenagers, or go to movies to watch a romantic film, spending time with each other will remind you of why you’re together and that will translate in the bedroom.
4. Use Sex Toys
Nowadays, there’s a huge variety of sex toys specially designed for couples.
Even if you don’t love the idea of visiting a physical sex shop, there are online stores that discreetly deliver toys to your house so there are really no excuses.
From vibrators to lubricants, adult games, and lingerie: you’ll have plenty to choose from!
5. Watch Porn Together
From romantic and softcore to kinky and hardcore, there’s porn for all tastes, and watching it with your partner can help you both understand what each other is interested in.
If porn is too much, you can always go for some good erotic literature!
Now You Know How to Spice Up Your Married Sex Life!
When it comes to keeping your sex life exciting even after years of being together, the secret is in avoiding the routine. Otherwise, you’ll both end up getting bored and, eventually, that will only cause you to drift apart.
Now that you know fives tip on how to spice up your married sex life, it’s time to get to the action and (re)start having fun with the one you love the most.
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