No matter how many Bollywood and Hollywood movies inspire the regular man in us.
No matter how much attempt the guys make to be the perfect hero in a girl’s life.
And, no matter how we dream and draw hypothetical situations about our dream marriages.
The fact remains clear that more than 80 percent of the marriages in India are Arranged marriages.
Wasting time on dreaming and thinking about something that’s uncertain, better prepare for that what has to come along- that is the true fact being falling in the category of 80 percent.
Arranged Marriages are like getting along with someone about who’s existence we have come to know about just now, and falling in love after marriage. Now, all in all, the idea of Arranged Marriage is to fall in love after marriage, rather than being in love before marriage. So, now that we have got the facts clear, being real will help a lot.
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Here are some mind-blowing tips and trick by Delhi matrimony that will help you find what you want in your ideal life partner. Get set ready to go through this article and be ready to tie the arranged knots!
Looking For The Ideal Bride: First Meet
What Should You Do?
Never ever, try to be stereotypical when getting along or meeting the girl for the first time. By stereotypical we mean, asking her about, “do you know this, do you know that, are you good at it, what are your flaws” and other weird stuff like that.
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Primarily, the sign of a gentleman is to make her girl comfortable and then get along with curious mindsets. After she is comfortable enough, start with the topics of her interest. This will get her mood lightened and will make her more interested in you. You will get to know about her comfort level from her body language.
And don’t worry, the questions which you mainly wanted to ask will be answered amidst, you just need to find the right sign.
In addition, here is a pro tip for you, if you want to lighten the atmosphere further, keep joking here and there, because girls like a witty sense of humor. At the end of the day, it is advisable that you be your own self. It will be the real you whom she will be marrying but not just the 1-hour meeting you.
What Should Not You Do?
Try not to brag about yourselves. Nobody likes a parrot that can go on and on about oneself, and thus, this is a big turnoff for anyone on the first meet. No matter how much you want to showcase and highlight your good points, never take it to the bragging level. If she will get impressed, it would be from the real you, nor the bragging you.
Since arranged marriage is the only platform of marriage, honesty is the notion required for the smooth sail. Maybe, there are certain things, which are not meant to be told on the first meet, but before marriage, tell your girl everything about you, or it may be harmful later.
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Thus, getting along in a marriage is the task, but the bigger task is to find the one you need to get along! All the best and hope you get the best life partner ever.
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