Weight is one of those issues that is hard to bring without offending people.

I think it has become a sensitive subject because it is being looked down one way or another. Reactions like: "Will the weight machine scream when you step on it?", "Why do not you have meat on you?", "Your legs are too thin for the rest of your body" and "If your face" was a little slimmer, then you would have the perfect body ", they rattled as if there were no repercussions, and as a woman of plus size I am fed up.

As I am, I get to hear many rather offensive things.I'll put a few together here and speak a few here.

"Beta weight kab loses karnay ka- program hai? "

On the chubby side are, I wish I was known for more than that .I want a single conversation with someone new or someone with whom I know am, beyond my reach.I want to be asked about my passions, my interests, what I do for a living, how to write for MangoBaaz is like – not if I plan to lose weight.

"Smart larkion ki sirf shaadi hoti hai"

First when the term & # 39; smart & # 39; to describe the weight and physical appearance of people? Second, jokes about you, a loose. I am already married, chubby and everything.

"Bacho ke baad ziada moti ho jaon gi"

My goal in life should not resemble a supermodel, although it would be interesting to be one in another universe. I'm doing well with what I look like now, and it's good to see how I make sure I have children. My weight and the way I look at it has never shown me who I am as a person, so why should I have children after I have children? Having children would be a blessing for me and that is enough.

" Shakal achi hai, bass body patli hoti."

I can not tell you how many times I've been told that I have a pretty face, but then got comments like: "If you were only skinnier, you could get every man" " Tumhara moun tumhara best property hai, weight bhe ab theek karlo " etc. etc. Everyone is beautiful as they are, and I wish more people knew that.

"Weight kya hai?"

There is this pre-recorded idea that women do not like to talk about their weight. While this is true, I believe it goes deeper than that. I feel comfortable in my skin, but I do not like to share my weight, because that opens the door for comparison with skinnier people, ridiculed by someone and everyone, shaadi walay reacts again, or press to step on the weight machine to display your weight for everyone. The sad part is that this comes from people that you should love and understand the most – your family. So what if my bhabi is thin, even after a child? Not everyone's body is the same.

"Ms, iss size hoofdkaprey available nahi hain."

Small, medium and large are not the only measures for people in Pakistan. It is rare to see an XL, let alone a little larger than that. To be so narrow that only the sizes that fit the average person are a step in the wrong direction.

"Khaana peena thora kam karlo."

I will never understand why my weight becomes the main topic in a conversation, regardless of the company I am with. Recently I had to go through a conversation with an acquaintance who concentrated on my weight, because I enjoyed my carbonated drink (soft drink) too much.

She started by observing the way I drink my soda when I actually just chewed on ice. Then she told us a story about how her Sahel was fat like me before she got married, and around the time of her marriage she became thin as my sister-in-law. I just stared at her in disbelief.

At the end of that I have only one question: why is my weight a problem for those around me?

Mera-weight, meri-health, meri-problem. Baaki sab ko kya masla hai?

This article is not written to call people in my area living, but it was to shine a light on a topic that is not openly discussed.

What I mean is, the weight and physical appearance of people are discussed openly and opinions are shared. The thoughts that reside in the mind of that plus-size individual are not raised or even cared for. Because mental health is so easily overlooked, the effects we leave on people by making comments such as the above can make people eat. Notes such as these can leave long-lasting scars.

There is no winner or loser when it comes to this.

Making someone feel bad about themselves or criticizing the way someone looks, does not make you a winner. Whether you call them too big or too small, too straight or too curvy, too wide or too narrow – it can all contribute to things like a bad self-image, low self-esteem, lack of trust and hopelessness. If you worry, there is a way to express yourself without giving offense.

Let's all try to build each other, instead of separating each other.

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