Recently I saw a message posted on Facebook that read: "Some people come into your life as Blessings!  Others come into your life as Lessons!!!"   Now if this was, say, 20 years ago, I would have agreed with that statement because I was still living very dangerously in victim mode.  Instead, my first thought was “But aren’t Lessons really a Blessing, too?  And doesn’t that make all people who come into your life a blessing on some level?”   First Lady Eleanor Roosevelt considered her husband’s